Saturday, November 19, 2011

Ladies: Weird vibe on my date. Did she not like me? details inside.?

So I met a girl from a dating site. On her profile she did mention that she can be shy/quiet/serious at first.





Well on our date she seemed very quiet. She didn't ask me many questions on the date, the whole date basically consisted of me attempting to drive the conversation. When I did get her talking, she did seem engaged, but if we weren't talking she would just stare at the table. She seemed somewhat tired on the date, and i asked her and she said that she was after a long work week.





After we finished our food I asked her if she wanted to go get a cup of coffee down the street. She politely declined and said she's going to go home. So while we walked to the bus stop I asked her if she wanted to go out again and she responded with "yes, definitely." and seemed genuine about it. I thought this was weird since I was certain she didn't like me 100%. I was honest with her and said that I was surprised and I felt she didn't like me based on the date. She said "oh that's just me"

Ladies: Weird vibe on my date. Did she not like me? details inside.?
Dude, she obviously wants you bad. Cant you see it. I can. It's so obvious. You should totally ask her to marry her. Come on I dare you....chicken.
Reply:I wouldn't trust this one. Schizophrenic! She'll always have you second guessing yourself.
Reply:I think its a maybe... was she even a little interested in you? So im not sure, maybe shes just so tired she can't think of anything to say? It kinda sounds to me that your not intirely sure of her... maybe try going on a date once more if you want to give her a chance but it kinda sounds like shes making you feel bad or something.
Reply:Thats a tough call. I myself dont like heavy maintenance people and she sounds like one of those.A better question is do you really like her enough to go thru this again?
Reply:Confusing!!! I think you should go out again and see how it is next time and if shes still a bit funny then go meet someone else, lifes too short to bother with people who can't meet you half way!x
Reply:If you really like her and think there might be more to her, set up your next date at a time when you know she should be feeling refreshed. Like maybe a Saturday afternoon date. If she still acts the same, then you'll know that's just how she is and you can then decide if her quiet personality is attractive to you.


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