Tuesday, August 17, 2010

First Date After Fiance Broke Up 4 Months Ago. Need Advice!!?

I'm 25,and live in NYC. In June, my fiance(I had been dating for 3 years) decided that she needed to find herself. Recently, a college friend of mine, told me he wanted to set me up on a blind date, with a girl he knew that is an actress on Broadway. I spoke to the girl on the phone, and we seemed to hit it off, we decided on a date for Friday( which was yesterday). Let me just explain, that it's been a while since I have been dating. I met up with this girl last night and was shocked at how gorgeous she was. We went to wine lounge,at first we were both nervous and quiet and sitting at opposite ends of the table, but after 4 hours and two bottles of wine, she was right next to me ,and had my arm around her, she was very touchy feely, and it was going great. She looked like she was enjoying herself. After that i walked her to the subway and told her that I would love to see her again, she gave me a peck on the cheek and said " Give me a call"

First Date After Fiance Broke Up 4 Months Ago. Need Advice!!?
Alcohol is a wonderful way to bring out unreal things in people... I wonder if she really likes you or was just happy to be drunk and you were the closest thing to touch.


I think I know where you're coming from. When it ends abruptly like that, it does make you wonder "What about all the fun we just had? Shouldn't we be staring into each others eyes and wishing the night wouldn't end?" That would be me at least.


Perhaps you can call her and say something like "Hey, I'm heading over to watch a movie, would you like to go?" This will allow her to give you the answer you need to hear. If it's something like "I can't right now, but what are you doing later?" then it's a good sign she wants to see you again. If it's something like "Ahh, well, I've got to do this and this and I'm busy all day tomorrow" with no follow up to want to see you again, then you'll know how she feels!


I wish you luck.
Reply:You had a good time, she had a good time, what is your quandary? She said to give her a call, instead of spraying you down with mace. This is an invitation to go out on another date. It is also the easiest 2 points I've ever made
Reply:do what she said, give her a call.
Reply:what do you do these days
Reply:that was cool taking your time with someone you enjoy.So that's great,On your next date bring one more bottle of wine. and tell her you like her but are respectful and rusty new to dating,but would like to move foreword .
Reply:you did everything right~now just give her a call.


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