Ladies: Went on a date with a girl. Does she not like me? Weird vibe. Details inside?

So I met a girl from a dating site. On her profile she did mention that she can be shy/quiet/serious at first.





Well on our date she seemed very quiet. She didn't ask me many questions on the date, the whole date basically consisted of me attempting to drive the conversation. When I did get her talking, she did seem engaged, but if we weren't talking she would just stare at the table. She seemed somewhat tired on the date, and i asked her and she said that she was after a long work week.





After we finished our food I asked her if she wanted to go get a cup of coffee down the street. She politely delined and said she's going to go home. So while we walked to the bus stop I asked her if she wanted to go out again and she responded with "yes, definitely." I thought this was weird since i felt she didn't like me 100%. I was honest with her and said that I was surprised and I felt she didn't like me based on the date. She said "oh that's just me"

Ladies: Went on a date with a girl. Does she not like me? Weird vibe. Details inside?
she does, i think
Reply:Ok sorry about this cause I'm not a female and you asked for the ladies to help but yes she seems from what you said that she is shy and I could see her being tired on a Friday. Next time maybe try scheduling a date on Sunday night or Monday after work or something like that and see if it changes. If it doesn't then I don't know what to tell you and if it does change then it means that she was tired and shy. I got the impression that she was shy cause she stared down at the table when you didn't talk. That could mean that she wanted to say stuff but she was too shy and couldn't let it out. Well hope you found this helpful. Good Luck on your next date : )
Reply:Who knows what goes on in womens heads, it's a mystery to most guys. Might as well ask her out again, she might warm up to you.
Reply:She means it. Try to work around her schedule better next time. And be prepared to drive the conversation at least a little. Some people just need to be "warmed up".
Reply:She definitely likes you but I guess she has a really weird way of showing it. Think about this though, would you want to be with someone who you have to "force" the conversation? It seems like the whole date was kinda awkward and full of empty talk just to keep things going. Why don't you jsut try to find someone that you really connect with and someone that you have actual chemistry with.
Reply:No, I'd believe her because *I* know exactly what she's talking about. She *is* tired, but she *does* want to go out. She probably thinks she'll feel better/more perked up when she gets out on the date, but her body clock is saying "it's time to REST!"





So believe her when she says "oh, that's just me" cause it IS just her.





And *I* bet you're also wrong about your pictures, too.





Give her another chance and see how it goes.


Maybe go to something quiet like a movie or maybe to a museum or something that's open in the evening hours would be nice.





Good luck to the both of you!
Reply:its only the first date, and things like this can happen - everybody is different. you might have not got what you were expecting but when you have asked her out again she didnt say i'l get back to you or anything like that which will give signal of not liking you. she will feel more comfortable in the following dates you will have together, be patient.