My ex girlfriend just broke up with a guy. She was in the relationship for almost a year. She knows I like her still and she wants to date me now, but I feel its to soon to date her. I told her I don’t want to be a rebound and she tells me that she would never do that to me. As much as I want to date her I don’t feel she is ready to deal with another relationship. I want our relationship to last so I want to wait, but I know she doesn’t want to. I’m afraid that if I do wait she’ll grow tired of waiting and not give me another chance. I have waited almost three years for another chance with her… what should I do???
Date her or no???
Give her a chance to prove you are not her rebound guy. take things very very slow.
Reply:Wait, a little bit. Don't wait long enough for her to move on and not want to be with you anymore. But since she just broke up with another guy, she will need time to fully get over him. She may say that she is over him, but come on...it was almost a year. Give it time and then try and date her and see how it works out.
Reply:Why wait?? You may die tomorrow, or maybe she will. You have to live for today. When I met my husband, he had only been split up from his ex for about 2 weeks. She had only just moved out the week before. That was almost 2 years ago. Give it a shot. What do you have to lose?
Reply:date her because she devers anthother chance.
Reply:NO
Reply:i was the re-bound girl once,
but everyone deserves a second chance..
give it a try. =]
Reply:i think that you should wait, you dont want to rush her into another relationship if she isnt ready for it. start talking to her so she knows that you still like her, and maybe go on a date when you feel she is ready because when i just breakup with someone, i dont like to rush into another relationship, wait maybe a month.
hope this helps.
=]
Reply:I would still wait. No matter what she tells you, you will more then likely be the rebound. Girls don't like to be alone. And here you are willing to keep her from being that way. What girl wouldn't take the opportunity. Right? I think you should be there for her definitely, but you should not get into a relationship with her, until you feel she is ready. Besides, if she really wants to be with you, and wouldn't hurt you, or put you through the pain, then she will understand, and work with you.
Reply:If you both want each other then what's the problem? Just date her. If it's meant to be, it will regardless of how soon after her last relationship.
Reply:I think you should really sit down and have a conversation with her about this. Maybe there is something you don't know about the relationship. Maybe she was done with him for a long time and they finally decided it wasn't worth continuing?
Reply:I'd say that all people need a break after a long relationship to get the person you were with out of your system. If you feel it's right, go for it, but take it slow. Let her know that it's for her sake of just getting out of a relationship. Great relationships are built from even better friendships, so she should respect your honesty.
Reply:give her a chance, before she does find someone else and you have to wait another year. Just make sure you tell her your true feelings. So she doesn't hurt you. Good luck
Reply:Lemme tell you something. I was in the same predicament, but the other way around. I moved to Vegas from NC about a year and a half ago. I left my boyfriend of 3 years... He had issues to deal with, like going to prison. Sounds bad, but it really wasn't. So while I was in Vegas, I found a guy whom I didn't really like at the time... But he kinda grew on me. So I gave him a chance. Things didn't work out so well. He was more like the girl than I was. I hate that. So I told him to leave. A couple days later, outta the blue, my ex from NC called me and said that he missed me, blah blah blah, I wont bore you with details. Needless to say, he came out to visit me %26amp; we both decided to come back to NC %26amp; start fresh. Things are way rough right now, but we are stickin thru it.
So I say, if you love her. Go for it.
Like they all say- It's better to have love %26amp; lost, then to have never loved at all.
Reply:it would be easier to tell you if i knew y u broke up but any ways...when people break up its usally because they like somebody else or the guy or girls cheats if you broke up with her and she dated someone else you should ask her out agen because obviously she moved on n now she wants you back ..but if she broke up with you then i think you should forget about her because if you think about it she left yyou and went with someone else obviously she loved him so how about if the same thing happens with u and while she dating you they talk and she breaks up with you to date her x boyfriend..i think you should talk to her about her relationship with her x and tell her y she wants you back if she lasted so long with her x and clearly she loved him ?ask her why they broke up and why your diffrent from this other guy :)
Reply:I'm gonna disagree with the majority opinion here, and tell you this: go ahead and date her, and see what happens. It's not your place to assume that she's unable to have a healthy relationship with you... you may be sabotaging the possibility of a relationship based on a wrong assumption. And maybe, you're not giving her enough credit for being able to figure out what she wants.
Maybe it won't work out; maybe it will. If it doesn't, it's probably because you weren't meant to be together to begin with. I don't think waiting until later will change that.
Reply:Follow your instinct. I think you know the answer, you just don't like it. Sounds like she is using you as the "go to" guy when she is between relationships, I hope I'm wrong.
You certainly have reason to be cautious, why did she break up before. How well did you get along when you were together? What has changed that will make your relationship better? A few things to think about..
Sometimes we want to be with someone that really isn't good for us, end result is nobody is happy. You can't expect a good relationship if there is no trust. Long term relationships have alot to do with friendship, common interests, common values and not just sex.
Bottom line, I'd put ask her some of these questions. Why does she want to get back together? Why does she think it "will work" this time? Why is she breaking up with her boyfriend? What does YOUR GUT tell you?
Good luck, I bet there is a better deserving girl out there for you.
Reply:Take it slow and be careful.
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Will i get a second date?
i went on a date with an ex-coworker.......we kissed three times throughout the night and we hit it off pretty well. im really interested in a second date with him but i dont want to come off as needy. i sent him a text the night after thanking him for a good time (i am starting to question if that was a good move). he does reply, however, saying we should do it again, but doesnt specify a date. i know posting this question on the internet alone is a sure sign of desperation but please cut me some slack and give me an honest answer........ guys, if you intended on going to a second date with a girl, wouldnt you specify a date? also, would it put you off if a girl took the initiative and texted you the night after a first date to tell you she had a good time? thank you!
Will i get a second date?
The logical, kind, adult thing for a man to do is of course to be clear as a bell about future plans. But sadly that's not the "hard to get" game that society teaches both men and women in advice columns, girlie magazines, discussions with friends, etc. It's gamesmanship designed to make the other person more desperate for them (and apparently it's working rather well on you -- j/k).
So yeah, he's just following the "rule" of waiting up to a week before contacting you again. Trying to get inside your head, to get you to think about him. That's what that tactic does, to both men and women.
(Frankly, when younger I used to be the sort you ask for: the kind who would be all planned out and punctual and clear. Well, females apparently lost interest in that predictable approach, I can tell you! ... Today, I just think that it's best if the two people are real, and not playing games. I like naturalism. Just being one's self, no games, no flirting, no strategizing. Not necessarily all planned out, but going with the flow and not trying to trick the other. It's best.)
Anyhow, I don't think you blew it with the short text message. Just hold off on any more. Remember that he's strategizing. Plus, any more messages and he'll smell desperation.
Or, maybe I'm wrong, and he's just really, really busy. This is quite possible in today's fast-paced world.
Either way, just give it some space and do some other things for the next week. Try not to think about it much and fill up your schedule with other things. (Might even go on a first date with another fellow and create more opportunities and choices for yourself! ;) Who's holding you back?)
Reply:I would be flattered if you texted a thank you. You need to wait and see. He has to be aggresive to catch a girl otherwise you may not respect him. You don't mention common interests. What is there about him that is so interesting you want to see him again?
Reply:Most men would you give a specific day and time for a second or third date. Are you sure he is interested in you?
If so, why do you think he is? Dating does not mean he likes you. Okay?
Reply:Idiots follow the rules .
Since he is one of em he follows it too .
(3day rule)
Will i get a second date?
The logical, kind, adult thing for a man to do is of course to be clear as a bell about future plans. But sadly that's not the "hard to get" game that society teaches both men and women in advice columns, girlie magazines, discussions with friends, etc. It's gamesmanship designed to make the other person more desperate for them (and apparently it's working rather well on you -- j/k).
So yeah, he's just following the "rule" of waiting up to a week before contacting you again. Trying to get inside your head, to get you to think about him. That's what that tactic does, to both men and women.
(Frankly, when younger I used to be the sort you ask for: the kind who would be all planned out and punctual and clear. Well, females apparently lost interest in that predictable approach, I can tell you! ... Today, I just think that it's best if the two people are real, and not playing games. I like naturalism. Just being one's self, no games, no flirting, no strategizing. Not necessarily all planned out, but going with the flow and not trying to trick the other. It's best.)
Anyhow, I don't think you blew it with the short text message. Just hold off on any more. Remember that he's strategizing. Plus, any more messages and he'll smell desperation.
Or, maybe I'm wrong, and he's just really, really busy. This is quite possible in today's fast-paced world.
Either way, just give it some space and do some other things for the next week. Try not to think about it much and fill up your schedule with other things. (Might even go on a first date with another fellow and create more opportunities and choices for yourself! ;) Who's holding you back?)
Reply:I would be flattered if you texted a thank you. You need to wait and see. He has to be aggresive to catch a girl otherwise you may not respect him. You don't mention common interests. What is there about him that is so interesting you want to see him again?
Reply:Most men would you give a specific day and time for a second or third date. Are you sure he is interested in you?
If so, why do you think he is? Dating does not mean he likes you. Okay?
Reply:Idiots follow the rules .
Since he is one of em he follows it too .
(3day rule)
Should I date him or not?
I have a dilema like most of you...here's my story. There's this guy who likes me alot and I think he's okay too. The problem is: He's the brother of my cousins husband. My cousin married this guy and this guy has a younger brother. He's 26 and I'm 28. He knows I've never dated before nor have I ever been in a relationship with anyone. I recently told him my age yet he continues to like me. The other problem is: is he in a way my cousin? I never thought about it until my friend brought it up and told me that he's my cousin indireclty since his brother married my cousin. Is that true? I need advice as to what am I suppose to do. He likes me alot and he shows it by texting me everyday and calling me to see how I'm doing. He also stated that he really likes me and won't do anything to hurt me in any way. He knows I have insecurities when it comes to dating. I told him I don't trust guys as far as dating goes. He says he'll be patient until I'm ready to date. What should I do? Thank you.
Should I date him or not?
No he is not your cousin. Therefore you are more than free to date him but if things don't work out and you don't stay on friendly terms then it might be an awkward situation wh;en everyone gets together......so you have to decide if you really like him.....but then again, he might be Mr. Perfect for you and you will let him get away. I really think that you should give it a try....talk to him and get to know him and then decide how far to take it. But atleast give it a chance.....and remember age it's just a number.
Reply:why don't you try him out?
Reply:He is no relation to you. He is your cousin's brother-in-law. That's it.
I think that you should talk to him about the two of you dating. Tell him that you want to take it slow, though, because you like him back, but you aren't sure how to deal with a boyfriend-type relationship. From the way you describe him, he sounds like he'll understand.
Reply:He's not a blood cousin, but its not like he's not related at all. I think its cool to date him if you want. Why shouldn't he like you beacuse you are older ?
Reply:In western culture this is called "kissing cousins".
Most marriages in So India and royal families take place with such cousins to keep the property in the family,etc. As long as u are 7 generations without shared genetic heritage u are safe from the cootie monster. My family tried to hook me up with a cutie cousin, but i didnt want to get cooties.
Reply:If you like this guy then you should go for it. This is nothing like dating your cousin, the guy that married your cousin may now be your cousin but only by marriage, and this is his brother. There may be some link between you, but this indirect marital link shouldn't stop you from this relationship. Shame on your friend for making you feel bad about it.
Should I date him or not?
No he is not your cousin. Therefore you are more than free to date him but if things don't work out and you don't stay on friendly terms then it might be an awkward situation wh;en everyone gets together......so you have to decide if you really like him.....but then again, he might be Mr. Perfect for you and you will let him get away. I really think that you should give it a try....talk to him and get to know him and then decide how far to take it. But atleast give it a chance.....and remember age it's just a number.
Reply:why don't you try him out?
Reply:He is no relation to you. He is your cousin's brother-in-law. That's it.
I think that you should talk to him about the two of you dating. Tell him that you want to take it slow, though, because you like him back, but you aren't sure how to deal with a boyfriend-type relationship. From the way you describe him, he sounds like he'll understand.
Reply:He's not a blood cousin, but its not like he's not related at all. I think its cool to date him if you want. Why shouldn't he like you beacuse you are older ?
Reply:In western culture this is called "kissing cousins".
Most marriages in So India and royal families take place with such cousins to keep the property in the family,etc. As long as u are 7 generations without shared genetic heritage u are safe from the cootie monster. My family tried to hook me up with a cutie cousin, but i didnt want to get cooties.
Reply:If you like this guy then you should go for it. This is nothing like dating your cousin, the guy that married your cousin may now be your cousin but only by marriage, and this is his brother. There may be some link between you, but this indirect marital link shouldn't stop you from this relationship. Shame on your friend for making you feel bad about it.
Movie or date?
Alright Im not used to this dating stuff orreading signals so ill keep it short.
so way back this chick was flirting with me...at least i think so. Asked her if she wanted to go to a movie, we went to the movie and i could tell she was having a good time, we even went out to dinner after and then grabbed a coffee. Then days later a coworker asked her how was the date (I wasnt actually there) she said that we were hanging out and not dating.
So i kinda felt guilt so i ignored her for a bit. Then we talked again and she told me that she loved the last movie and wants to see another with me. so i agreed and she wants to go out for dinner again. There are other factors but its confusing. Do you think its just a friendly movie or a date? its confusing me
Movie or date?
she is probably like you and doesnt want to be embarrassed if it turned out that you didnt want it to be a date. Ask her bout sounds like she wants to call it a date but shes not sure how you feel.
Reply:Ask her to a Movie, then have a chat at a fast food place. Talk a lot, but l think it will sort it out in The Movies, if she wants to be, Close to You.
dental bridge
so way back this chick was flirting with me...at least i think so. Asked her if she wanted to go to a movie, we went to the movie and i could tell she was having a good time, we even went out to dinner after and then grabbed a coffee. Then days later a coworker asked her how was the date (I wasnt actually there) she said that we were hanging out and not dating.
So i kinda felt guilt so i ignored her for a bit. Then we talked again and she told me that she loved the last movie and wants to see another with me. so i agreed and she wants to go out for dinner again. There are other factors but its confusing. Do you think its just a friendly movie or a date? its confusing me
Movie or date?
she is probably like you and doesnt want to be embarrassed if it turned out that you didnt want it to be a date. Ask her bout sounds like she wants to call it a date but shes not sure how you feel.
Reply:Ask her to a Movie, then have a chat at a fast food place. Talk a lot, but l think it will sort it out in The Movies, if she wants to be, Close to You.
dental bridge
Do most black men date white women for the wrong reasons?
I got into a talk about this with a friend of mine who is currently has a white girlfriend. I told him I won't date a white woman and it's not because of anything I have against them, but because I believe in black families. I believe that with all the damage that's been done to black families in history, it's important that we have strong, healthy black families to build better black communities.
He wasn't really seeing my point and after talking more with him about why he's dating a white woman, it became more clear to me that he's one of the many black men I believe date white women simply because they are a trophy....it's a social status thing. These black men see dating a white woman as "dating up". And they flaunt their white girlfriends when they go out to the clubs and places.
For you others out there, especially African-Americans, do you think this is real or just in my head? And is it a problem?
Do most black men date white women for the wrong reasons?
I'm a white woman and you don't have to worry...I wouldn't ever date a black man. And before I start getting screamed at for being racist, I don't hate black people, I just don't find any black men attractive. Some women don't like short men, or fat men or bald men...I'm not attracted to black men.
Reply:It's NOT in your head. And it's not just black men, but asians, indians, hispanics that believe that by being with a white girl that they are superior to girls of their own race. I've seen minority men with ugly, mean, treat them like sh-t white girls who would rather be with them than another girl that would treat them better/
It goes back to that mentality that whites(men then women) are at the top, and at the bottom are women of color (beneath the men of color)Everyone knows it, people are just afraid to say it.
People's mentality have to change! I've seen a hispanic man, raised by a single mom that did everything for him , turn his back on his own race and strictly date only white. Isn't that a slap in the face to his hispanic mother when he denigrates women like who she is?
Ignorant people may call you a racist but you are not.
You are just telling the truth the everyone knows but are afraid to admit to. Yes, there are multi-racial relationships that are successful and those are the ones based on mutual love and acceptance,these ******** " I'm the man cause i got a white chick flings" do nothing but enforce the negative stereotypes.
Reply:As a white guy, I prefer black ladies. Every time I see a black guy with a blond, I think to myself, there's a nother black girl who is single. I don't really think of the girls as trophys, I just prefer the features that black girls have. Predominately the bigger rears and lips. I also love natural black hair but unfortunately many prefer to "whiten" it up.
Your friend may just prefer the features that white girls have, softer skin, thinner hair, and empty heads. Just kidding on the last one. Some people date interracially just to have something different. Besides there has been so much mixture over the centuries nobody is truly black or white anymore.
Reply:personally i think they do it because there is so much, i want to say hate?, between black women. whether it be jealousy, or just a bad attitude. now i'm not saying that thats the only race that does it because females just in general can be mean to eachother but i guess its more obvious in the black community.
also, black/white dating is not a problem. don't forget there is really only one race (human race) so if two people love eachother why should they be stopped just because they don't have the same skin color?
you said: "I believe that with all the damage that's been done to black families in history, it's important that we have strong, healthy black families to build better black communities" how does having a black family make them strong, healthy, and build better communities? i agree if all black families were strong and healthy there would be more success among us but having a strong healthy family goes beyond race...
Reply:i **** em i dont date em
Reply:Well im black and to me its not a question of race. I just like women of all races. Its not because i dont like my black women.
Reply:black women do the same thing.
He wasn't really seeing my point and after talking more with him about why he's dating a white woman, it became more clear to me that he's one of the many black men I believe date white women simply because they are a trophy....it's a social status thing. These black men see dating a white woman as "dating up". And they flaunt their white girlfriends when they go out to the clubs and places.
For you others out there, especially African-Americans, do you think this is real or just in my head? And is it a problem?
Do most black men date white women for the wrong reasons?
I'm a white woman and you don't have to worry...I wouldn't ever date a black man. And before I start getting screamed at for being racist, I don't hate black people, I just don't find any black men attractive. Some women don't like short men, or fat men or bald men...I'm not attracted to black men.
Reply:It's NOT in your head. And it's not just black men, but asians, indians, hispanics that believe that by being with a white girl that they are superior to girls of their own race. I've seen minority men with ugly, mean, treat them like sh-t white girls who would rather be with them than another girl that would treat them better/
It goes back to that mentality that whites(men then women) are at the top, and at the bottom are women of color (beneath the men of color)Everyone knows it, people are just afraid to say it.
People's mentality have to change! I've seen a hispanic man, raised by a single mom that did everything for him , turn his back on his own race and strictly date only white. Isn't that a slap in the face to his hispanic mother when he denigrates women like who she is?
Ignorant people may call you a racist but you are not.
You are just telling the truth the everyone knows but are afraid to admit to. Yes, there are multi-racial relationships that are successful and those are the ones based on mutual love and acceptance,these ******** " I'm the man cause i got a white chick flings" do nothing but enforce the negative stereotypes.
Reply:As a white guy, I prefer black ladies. Every time I see a black guy with a blond, I think to myself, there's a nother black girl who is single. I don't really think of the girls as trophys, I just prefer the features that black girls have. Predominately the bigger rears and lips. I also love natural black hair but unfortunately many prefer to "whiten" it up.
Your friend may just prefer the features that white girls have, softer skin, thinner hair, and empty heads. Just kidding on the last one. Some people date interracially just to have something different. Besides there has been so much mixture over the centuries nobody is truly black or white anymore.
Reply:personally i think they do it because there is so much, i want to say hate?, between black women. whether it be jealousy, or just a bad attitude. now i'm not saying that thats the only race that does it because females just in general can be mean to eachother but i guess its more obvious in the black community.
also, black/white dating is not a problem. don't forget there is really only one race (human race) so if two people love eachother why should they be stopped just because they don't have the same skin color?
you said: "I believe that with all the damage that's been done to black families in history, it's important that we have strong, healthy black families to build better black communities" how does having a black family make them strong, healthy, and build better communities? i agree if all black families were strong and healthy there would be more success among us but having a strong healthy family goes beyond race...
Reply:i **** em i dont date em
Reply:Well im black and to me its not a question of race. I just like women of all races. Its not because i dont like my black women.
Reply:black women do the same thing.
Sexy Blind-Date, Any clue?...?
I am planing a date for a couple friends that are very shy and do not know each other.
She agreed to go if the date it’s interesting so I offered to formulate a date of something like a ‘Clue Rally’ where they both can follow some clues and quizzes to acquire coupons for the restaurants and bars that they are supposed to visit for the night.
Example: -She will have an internet link for a Restaurant coupon inscribed somewhere on her body, so he will have to look for it. -later, I arranged a free dinner course for them if they kiss at the restaurant entrance, ETC.
So the question is: Do you have any suggestion of something sexy for them to do while in the date?. Or any challenge for them to follow?.
Thanxs :p
Sexy Blind-Date, Any clue?...?
This is not a good blind date, especially if you are dealing with shy people. Making the guy search the womens body and kiss her before he even knows her will probably make him feel uncomfortable. Also, I doubt the women will be so generous, especially if she's shy. Why don't you just have them show up at the same location for dinner and see what happens from there?
Reply:She will go "if it's interesting"? WHat a good friend you are and what a high maintenance ***** she is....whatever happened to getting to know someone...if your friend has to jump through hoops to please her before he even knows her and is willing to do it, have at that.
Reply:Personally, if I was a very shy girl, I don't think I'd much care for this idea. I get that you're trying to set your friends up and want them to be happy, but don't put them in an awkward situation like that. It isn't fair to either of them.
She agreed to go if the date it’s interesting so I offered to formulate a date of something like a ‘Clue Rally’ where they both can follow some clues and quizzes to acquire coupons for the restaurants and bars that they are supposed to visit for the night.
Example: -She will have an internet link for a Restaurant coupon inscribed somewhere on her body, so he will have to look for it. -later, I arranged a free dinner course for them if they kiss at the restaurant entrance, ETC.
So the question is: Do you have any suggestion of something sexy for them to do while in the date?. Or any challenge for them to follow?.
Thanxs :p
Sexy Blind-Date, Any clue?...?
This is not a good blind date, especially if you are dealing with shy people. Making the guy search the womens body and kiss her before he even knows her will probably make him feel uncomfortable. Also, I doubt the women will be so generous, especially if she's shy. Why don't you just have them show up at the same location for dinner and see what happens from there?
Reply:She will go "if it's interesting"? WHat a good friend you are and what a high maintenance ***** she is....whatever happened to getting to know someone...if your friend has to jump through hoops to please her before he even knows her and is willing to do it, have at that.
Reply:Personally, if I was a very shy girl, I don't think I'd much care for this idea. I get that you're trying to set your friends up and want them to be happy, but don't put them in an awkward situation like that. It isn't fair to either of them.
Date or not????
I like this kid named Chris. We use to be bff's when we were litle. we haven't met up in a while. Until our dads called eachhother and we went out to dinner. thats when i new i li ked him. I am not aloud to date yet. I am starting this summer. I want to date. Chris's best friend Austin goes to my school. Austin was like ,"Chris wants to go out with you. Wil you go out with him?" and i wrote him a note saying a no very nicely. I felt so bad cuz i rele did like him. and tonite i am goin to chris's house! i am so excitited....but what if he asks me out again....but in person... i wont know what to say! i will be so nervous....what should i say when he does? if he does. how should i react. i wnt to date him but my mom would sooooo find out.... help me plz!
Date or not????
I sya you say yes, but you have to wait till summer :) that way hell no you still liek him and youll b able to obey thre rules
Reply:Give him a date. It could be a lot of fun for both of you. You really don't have much to lose but a lot to gain.
Reply:well say yes but don't get to excited and tell him about the summer thing and maybe he will undersand and then you can go out in the summer
gd luck
Reply:i would say yea but not in front of your parents and i have a boyfriend my parents don't know about i just talked to him on my cell phone and on myspace and we have dated for 3 weeks
Date or not????
I sya you say yes, but you have to wait till summer :) that way hell no you still liek him and youll b able to obey thre rules
Reply:Give him a date. It could be a lot of fun for both of you. You really don't have much to lose but a lot to gain.
Reply:well say yes but don't get to excited and tell him about the summer thing and maybe he will undersand and then you can go out in the summer
gd luck
Reply:i would say yea but not in front of your parents and i have a boyfriend my parents don't know about i just talked to him on my cell phone and on myspace and we have dated for 3 weeks
Date help?
I've found the love of my life. I think he likes me, gets me, understands and accepts me. Like many girls I am worried still. He's a great guy. But I've always wanted things to be perfect. The thing is, I don't have as much dating/kissing/sex experience as him. I am sure he's okay since he's such a great guy it won't matter. But I'm a thinker. I've read nearly every dating article I can and I am still not very good at it. I've tried more then a few times and w the other guys it hasn't worked out. Course I didn't care for them as much as I do him. But I have a feeling, it is going to be a little awkard for me. I am a little shy, especially with him. Especially now that I know he's the love of my life. I am putting more pressure on it I guess. I don't know what to do about it. My sister had sorta the same problem only not w guys but on sports. Anyway, um I forgot now. I just need a little date help.
Date help?
jus be yourself...dont over think things
Date help?
jus be yourself...dont over think things
My first date EVER!?
2 days ago i asked a question regarding a friend of mine who i thought was straight,maybe he is bisexual?but anyway we talked about how he was around me,and well now i am going on a date with him this friday (12th october 2007), he is picking me up at 7pm.I have had 2 boyfriends(that my friend scared off)but i have never been on a DATE before ever,i am really feeling very sick and nervous and i don't know why praying the time will go slower it is 2:29pm here(well it will be different by the time i finally submit this).and it is not helping much because my older brother(my date's friend) has been teasing me(he is happy though about this).
I don't know,i am not sure,if i am starting to regret this and this is a bad idea.Should i make up an excuse or just see how it goes?what should i do,wear,talk about?
my date is 19 and i am 16,even though i don't believe it matters much.
Should i just call him and pretend to be sick(even though i actually am feeling sick).
My first date EVER!?
It'll be fine, honestly. Just enjoy it and relax. But most of all be yourself and have a good time. You'll never experience a first date again so make the most of it is my advice.
I can see why you may feel awkward with the age gap but I'm sure he's probably felt the same way at some point as well and maybe he's even nervous about the date too. I guess there's no harm in seeing how you get on and enjoying each others company. But of course don't let him be cheeky or take advantage with him being 19 and all.
My conclusion is, just have a blast and enjoy it all. Even if you both don't get on, you'll probably feel proud that you actually went rather than spent time afterwards wondering what could've happened and it's all part of experience.
Take care and I hope you have a wonderful time.
Reply:i don't get it? are you a girl or a boy? if that someone is bisexual, then it's up for you to decide.
Reply:nice i got my first date at 10
Reply:no silly... first of all... stop worrying so much... just have fun.. think of it as "hanging out" with somebody... there's no big "ceremony" that happens on a date... it's simply getting together with the possibility of a relationship that could be more than just friends... but just be casual... be yourself... have fun... get to know him... let him talk... don't get freaked out... this is the only first date you'll ever have... make it a fun, low stress time that you can look back on ... :P ENJOY!!...
Reply:go on the date see how it goes where a long shirt or blue jeans what ever makes you comfortable and a nice top maybe something that shows Little and go and see a movie that way you don't have to talk....or let home start the talking i mean you can ask him questions to get to now him better it will all come to you once you start having a good time with him....if you don't tell him that you don't feel good and find someone else.... calm your nerves..
Reply:Listen - just breathe...
Relax - remember - you like this guy. Just enjoy the date. You already know him, and you are just going to go out to have some fun. It's ok. You are going to be fine. Try to see if the date can be held at a familiar place - I mean, someplace that you are accostomed to. Try to take it light and easy for the first date. If you still feel very uncomfortable - then trust yourself and try to see what is really bothering you.
Don't worry yourself about this soo much, simply relax and try to get to enjoy the night.
Reply:Okay you're 16, act like it. Just go eat the crappy food, watch the lame movie, and go home. All first dates suck! My first date was horrible. He spilled food on me and broke my phone.
Reply:pack a condom
Reply:Just go. You might have fun!
Reply:You must face the challenge anyway why are you so nervous I think if you are nervous you don't love him(I don't know maybe just do not get angry) today you must be excited.... Don't mind your brother Follow your heart if you live him or not? If you love him think about it you must choose 1 BOYFRIEND only or else it might get worser but he problem is the the other boy....... you better date with him if he is the one you really love choose......God will guide you in the right way just keep praying God bless you!!
Reply:I think this happens to everyone from time to time. Just tell yourself its nothing. Its all about your thoughts. I think you most go cause 1 you will wonder what it would have been like or 2 He will ask to go out another night and you will go through this all again. As for clothes wear your favorite outfit. I think jeans and a stylish button up shirt look nice too. Good luck and don't chicken out ;)
I don't know,i am not sure,if i am starting to regret this and this is a bad idea.Should i make up an excuse or just see how it goes?what should i do,wear,talk about?
my date is 19 and i am 16,even though i don't believe it matters much.
Should i just call him and pretend to be sick(even though i actually am feeling sick).
My first date EVER!?
It'll be fine, honestly. Just enjoy it and relax. But most of all be yourself and have a good time. You'll never experience a first date again so make the most of it is my advice.
I can see why you may feel awkward with the age gap but I'm sure he's probably felt the same way at some point as well and maybe he's even nervous about the date too. I guess there's no harm in seeing how you get on and enjoying each others company. But of course don't let him be cheeky or take advantage with him being 19 and all.
My conclusion is, just have a blast and enjoy it all. Even if you both don't get on, you'll probably feel proud that you actually went rather than spent time afterwards wondering what could've happened and it's all part of experience.
Take care and I hope you have a wonderful time.
Reply:i don't get it? are you a girl or a boy? if that someone is bisexual, then it's up for you to decide.
Reply:nice i got my first date at 10
Reply:no silly... first of all... stop worrying so much... just have fun.. think of it as "hanging out" with somebody... there's no big "ceremony" that happens on a date... it's simply getting together with the possibility of a relationship that could be more than just friends... but just be casual... be yourself... have fun... get to know him... let him talk... don't get freaked out... this is the only first date you'll ever have... make it a fun, low stress time that you can look back on ... :P ENJOY!!...
Reply:go on the date see how it goes where a long shirt or blue jeans what ever makes you comfortable and a nice top maybe something that shows Little and go and see a movie that way you don't have to talk....or let home start the talking i mean you can ask him questions to get to now him better it will all come to you once you start having a good time with him....if you don't tell him that you don't feel good and find someone else.... calm your nerves..
Reply:Listen - just breathe...
Relax - remember - you like this guy. Just enjoy the date. You already know him, and you are just going to go out to have some fun. It's ok. You are going to be fine. Try to see if the date can be held at a familiar place - I mean, someplace that you are accostomed to. Try to take it light and easy for the first date. If you still feel very uncomfortable - then trust yourself and try to see what is really bothering you.
Don't worry yourself about this soo much, simply relax and try to get to enjoy the night.
Reply:Okay you're 16, act like it. Just go eat the crappy food, watch the lame movie, and go home. All first dates suck! My first date was horrible. He spilled food on me and broke my phone.
Reply:pack a condom
Reply:Just go. You might have fun!
Reply:You must face the challenge anyway why are you so nervous I think if you are nervous you don't love him(I don't know maybe just do not get angry) today you must be excited.... Don't mind your brother Follow your heart if you live him or not? If you love him think about it you must choose 1 BOYFRIEND only or else it might get worser but he problem is the the other boy....... you better date with him if he is the one you really love choose......God will guide you in the right way just keep praying God bless you!!
Reply:I think this happens to everyone from time to time. Just tell yourself its nothing. Its all about your thoughts. I think you most go cause 1 you will wonder what it would have been like or 2 He will ask to go out another night and you will go through this all again. As for clothes wear your favorite outfit. I think jeans and a stylish button up shirt look nice too. Good luck and don't chicken out ;)
Date wrong on image?
I have taken loads of pictures and some of the properties are wrong the main one being the date and I know what date it was taken but you cannot edit it using the properties window in XP so how can I edit the date taken propertie of my pictures?
Date wrong on image?
The date and time associated with the file are controlled by the operating system. If you copy, move or edit the file these will change to the current date and time of your system.
You can however change these with software tools that you can download from the Internet.
He is a link to file monkey:
http://www.monkeyjob.com/FileMonk/Landin...
Hope this sorts out your problem.
If you have your file attribute the way you want them burning the files to CD or DVD should retain these settings.
Reply:simple
U CAN'T
i'll have a good search on da internet
Date wrong on image?
The date and time associated with the file are controlled by the operating system. If you copy, move or edit the file these will change to the current date and time of your system.
You can however change these with software tools that you can download from the Internet.
He is a link to file monkey:
http://www.monkeyjob.com/FileMonk/Landin...
Hope this sorts out your problem.
If you have your file attribute the way you want them burning the files to CD or DVD should retain these settings.
Reply:simple
U CAN'T
i'll have a good search on da internet
DATING ques: HOW should a guy end a date if he likes you? HUG is it good or bad?
On this date we had a good time and laughed and everything. He didnt try to hold my hand. But when we finished he gave me a hug and said he had a fun time. He gave the hug first, not me. What does this mean? Did he like me? Should he have kissed me? ?? Should he have held my hand? (2nd date)
DATING ques: HOW should a guy end a date if he likes you? HUG is it good or bad?
Give him a kiss, sooner or later you will have to cross that bridge anyway.
Reply:Every guy is different. The guy i'm with now didn't make a move for ages because he wanted to see how things went first.
It sounds like he does like you, i can't say he definitely likes you as a love interest, maybe its just friends.
He may be waiting because he isn't sure how you feel. Let him know you really like him
Reply:I'm pretty damn sure that he liked you. If he didn't give you a hug that would mean that he was pretty shallow, so I think he genuinely cares for you. I don't think he should have kissed you considering it was only the 2nd date, and maybe he was just a shy guy. You should make the first move by holding his hand, giving him a hug at the end of the next date followed by a kiss. Remember: 3rd times the charm ;-)
Good luck! ;-)
Reply:He's probably being especially conservative or doesn't want you to think that he's in it for something else or that he wants to go too fast.
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DATING ques: HOW should a guy end a date if he likes you? HUG is it good or bad?
Give him a kiss, sooner or later you will have to cross that bridge anyway.
Reply:Every guy is different. The guy i'm with now didn't make a move for ages because he wanted to see how things went first.
It sounds like he does like you, i can't say he definitely likes you as a love interest, maybe its just friends.
He may be waiting because he isn't sure how you feel. Let him know you really like him
Reply:I'm pretty damn sure that he liked you. If he didn't give you a hug that would mean that he was pretty shallow, so I think he genuinely cares for you. I don't think he should have kissed you considering it was only the 2nd date, and maybe he was just a shy guy. You should make the first move by holding his hand, giving him a hug at the end of the next date followed by a kiss. Remember: 3rd times the charm ;-)
Good luck! ;-)
Reply:He's probably being especially conservative or doesn't want you to think that he's in it for something else or that he wants to go too fast.
dental supply
What is your Ideal Date?
Alright so i haven't had much luck with the dating area...UGH its soo hard to go out and meet people especially from teh internet...i wish it would be easier to meet gay guys but anways what are some of you views on an ideal date...some people like to hump eachothers brains out on the first date...me i can't do that...im the kind of person who has to wait for the right guy to come along and make sure hte feelings and the emotions are mutual before we get into that kind of thing...but yeah my ideal date would probabally be dinner maybe a movie and then a makeout/cuddle session? I just love that feeling you get when you meet someone and you click with them and there is an obvious mutual attraction...AHH sorry shoot me i know im mushy like that LMFAO but yeah how about everyone else...and Who would go on a date with me ;)
What is your Ideal Date?
Alright I can honestly say if I was single, I would go on a date with you! Because I am the same way and your ideal date, is mine... :)
Reply:haha I'm glad you are kidding, cause he looked at me funny when he read this! hehe he knows better though! Thanks for the best answer, take care! Report It
Reply:hmmm...it would probably be at a movie, a romantic movie, then we would kiss a little then really go into it and leave the movie early and head back to either of our places and make sweet sweet love to one another.
Reply:If I had a chance I'd date you.
Reply:when u in love, every date is ideal date, ; -)
Reply:I don't think that you're mushy at all. I think that a lot of people really like to take it slow (I for one), but they're so caught up in peer pressure that they do what others want to hear about the next day at the water cooler!
Now, my ideal date would either be the situation that you described, or dinner, a nice walk along the beach (a kind of get-to-know-you kind of thing), walk him to the door step, have a kiss good night (providing the date went well and you made a connection), and then pick it up the next day or the day after.
Hope this helps! :)
What is your Ideal Date?
Alright I can honestly say if I was single, I would go on a date with you! Because I am the same way and your ideal date, is mine... :)
Reply:haha I'm glad you are kidding, cause he looked at me funny when he read this! hehe he knows better though! Thanks for the best answer, take care! Report It
Reply:hmmm...it would probably be at a movie, a romantic movie, then we would kiss a little then really go into it and leave the movie early and head back to either of our places and make sweet sweet love to one another.
Reply:If I had a chance I'd date you.
Reply:when u in love, every date is ideal date, ; -)
Reply:I don't think that you're mushy at all. I think that a lot of people really like to take it slow (I for one), but they're so caught up in peer pressure that they do what others want to hear about the next day at the water cooler!
Now, my ideal date would either be the situation that you described, or dinner, a nice walk along the beach (a kind of get-to-know-you kind of thing), walk him to the door step, have a kiss good night (providing the date went well and you made a connection), and then pick it up the next day or the day after.
Hope this helps! :)
Date or not a date?
this guy and i went to the movies and i considered it not a date because it was just a movie we both wanted to see, but he bought my ticket and he offered to buy me popcorn and drink. is he just doing this out of courtesy or did he get the wrong message and think it was a date?
Date or not a date?
I think it was not a date. It depends how he asked you. Even though he paid he could just be a nice guy. If you act like it wasn't maybe he will drop a few clues. Treat it like it wasn't but don't act awkward with him.
Good Luck
Reply:I think that maybe you thought it was a friendly outing but he may have the impression that since he paid it was a date! You should ask him!
Reply:Why don't you ask him
Reply:He thought it was a date. Why would he pay for the ticket AND offer to pay for drink %26amp; popcorn? It could have been courtesy but then again I don't know him.
Reply:date
Reply:date!
if you don't like him.... let him down gently. he sounds really nice.
Reply:def. a date, he sounds nice, why dont you like him?
Reply:it's a guy he is saying it's a date i promise you, i hope you like him
Reply:LOL - if a guy paid for it then it was a date!
Reply:Just go with the flow, if he wants to initiate something then he should talk about it and initiate it, otherwise you are just friends
Reply:you were on a date!
Reply:He SO thinks you were on a date. If you're not that in to him try to break him off gently. He's totally into you but he doesn't have enough confidence in himself to ask you (either that or he knows you're way out of his league and you scare him spitless). He sounds like a nice kid, try not to break his spirit.
Reply:Date. Non-dates are when you pay your own way
Reply:Generally if a guy pays for your ticket its a date.
Unless you know him well and the two of you do this a lot and trade off buying, but it sounds like you don't or you wouldn't ask. If you don't want him to get the wrong impression I'd offer him money for the ticket and tell him what your thinking.
P.S. I usually don't go to a movie with my boyfriend unless its something we both want to see.
Reply:Sounds like a date to me.
Reply:He thought it was a date
Reply:If you didn't actually spell it out, then he probably thinks it's a date.
Reply:its a date
Reply:I smell a date. If I were you, I wouldn't have let him buy anything for me. If he asks you to go somewhere again, and you're not into him, make it clear that it's not a date.
Reply:if you make plans to do something together on a particular date of the month its a date because it was planned. If it was a spur of the moment thing its just 2 friends hanging out together. Or, its whatever you want to call it.
Reply:all depends on how he approched you about it and ur past with him if u really want to know u can email me with more info about it.
Reply:The only way to know for sure is to ask him, he may have just been raised to be a complete gentleman. If that is the case, that is the kind of guy you would appreciate having for a date. If he says he thought you were on a date and you like him cool, if your not interested that way just tell him you really appreciate his friendship and respect him. That is one of the most important things to a man. Good luck and I hope I was of some help to you.
teething
Date or not a date?
I think it was not a date. It depends how he asked you. Even though he paid he could just be a nice guy. If you act like it wasn't maybe he will drop a few clues. Treat it like it wasn't but don't act awkward with him.
Good Luck
Reply:I think that maybe you thought it was a friendly outing but he may have the impression that since he paid it was a date! You should ask him!
Reply:Why don't you ask him
Reply:He thought it was a date. Why would he pay for the ticket AND offer to pay for drink %26amp; popcorn? It could have been courtesy but then again I don't know him.
Reply:date
Reply:date!
if you don't like him.... let him down gently. he sounds really nice.
Reply:def. a date, he sounds nice, why dont you like him?
Reply:it's a guy he is saying it's a date i promise you, i hope you like him
Reply:LOL - if a guy paid for it then it was a date!
Reply:Just go with the flow, if he wants to initiate something then he should talk about it and initiate it, otherwise you are just friends
Reply:you were on a date!
Reply:He SO thinks you were on a date. If you're not that in to him try to break him off gently. He's totally into you but he doesn't have enough confidence in himself to ask you (either that or he knows you're way out of his league and you scare him spitless). He sounds like a nice kid, try not to break his spirit.
Reply:Date. Non-dates are when you pay your own way
Reply:Generally if a guy pays for your ticket its a date.
Unless you know him well and the two of you do this a lot and trade off buying, but it sounds like you don't or you wouldn't ask. If you don't want him to get the wrong impression I'd offer him money for the ticket and tell him what your thinking.
P.S. I usually don't go to a movie with my boyfriend unless its something we both want to see.
Reply:Sounds like a date to me.
Reply:He thought it was a date
Reply:If you didn't actually spell it out, then he probably thinks it's a date.
Reply:its a date
Reply:I smell a date. If I were you, I wouldn't have let him buy anything for me. If he asks you to go somewhere again, and you're not into him, make it clear that it's not a date.
Reply:if you make plans to do something together on a particular date of the month its a date because it was planned. If it was a spur of the moment thing its just 2 friends hanging out together. Or, its whatever you want to call it.
Reply:all depends on how he approched you about it and ur past with him if u really want to know u can email me with more info about it.
Reply:The only way to know for sure is to ask him, he may have just been raised to be a complete gentleman. If that is the case, that is the kind of guy you would appreciate having for a date. If he says he thought you were on a date and you like him cool, if your not interested that way just tell him you really appreciate his friendship and respect him. That is one of the most important things to a man. Good luck and I hope I was of some help to you.
teething
Would this dating game work? Doing a simulated date with a girl...?
So I can tell her what she does during dates that not attracts guys and she would tell me the same? Would this work? would you participate in something like that
Again, this would be only a game, a "simulated date"
i.e. the girl starts talking about her ex, so I tell her in 5 minutes, that's wrong you shouldn't talk about your ex in a date
I think it is a great idea and a great way to have fun, usually girls don't give u feedback on why they don't want to see you anymore, I think it is a great learning experience
What do you think?
Would this dating game work? Doing a simulated date with a girl...?
haha I'd do that XD
sounds like fun and helpful. Just make sure you aren't interested in whoever you do it with because then she'll be looking for flaws.
Reply:yea its a good idea, but sometimes its not what the other person does that makes you not want to go out with them again, it's just something about them. like something you can't always explain
but yea its a good idea and i would participate
Reply:Do you mean going out on a mock date with a girl who's just a good friend? Or some kind of computer simulation?
I think every girl is going to be different in what they like. Otherwise any guy who gets dumped even once would have no hope of ever hooking up with another, much less being married. That's obviously not the case.
Just have some common courtesy and otherwise be yourself. The right girl will like you.
Reply:how about talking to a real girl
Reply:errrrm
a blowup girl would work too i guess
Reply:reality is always better :)
Reply:Why experiment dating in a game when you can do it anywhere in real life?
Again, this would be only a game, a "simulated date"
i.e. the girl starts talking about her ex, so I tell her in 5 minutes, that's wrong you shouldn't talk about your ex in a date
I think it is a great idea and a great way to have fun, usually girls don't give u feedback on why they don't want to see you anymore, I think it is a great learning experience
What do you think?
Would this dating game work? Doing a simulated date with a girl...?
haha I'd do that XD
sounds like fun and helpful. Just make sure you aren't interested in whoever you do it with because then she'll be looking for flaws.
Reply:yea its a good idea, but sometimes its not what the other person does that makes you not want to go out with them again, it's just something about them. like something you can't always explain
but yea its a good idea and i would participate
Reply:Do you mean going out on a mock date with a girl who's just a good friend? Or some kind of computer simulation?
I think every girl is going to be different in what they like. Otherwise any guy who gets dumped even once would have no hope of ever hooking up with another, much less being married. That's obviously not the case.
Just have some common courtesy and otherwise be yourself. The right girl will like you.
Reply:how about talking to a real girl
Reply:errrrm
a blowup girl would work too i guess
Reply:reality is always better :)
Reply:Why experiment dating in a game when you can do it anywhere in real life?
What was the worse date you have ever been on?
i am a very very attractive and hot looking white caucasian female,i am married now with a white caucasian male,we have married now for a few years,together we share a 4 year old white caucasian daughter.before i married my husband,i went on many dates,like i said,i am a very beautiful white female,but this 1 date really stood out because i went out with a guy who did not tell me that i am beautiful and attractive.my date took me to meet his loser parents,and neither one of his parents mentioned that i am a very beautiful attractive white female,i was very hurt and offended by this.i am a very attractive and beautiful white female,but not one time did this date tell me that.white males tell me everyday that i am very beautiful and attractive.it was just a terrible date with a total loser.i will divorce my husband if he does not tell me everyday that i am beautiful.i am a very very attractive and pretty white female.
What was the worse date you have ever been on?
umm i will divorce you if you expect me to say youre beautiful all the time. Not all people are interested only in beauty. There is intelligence, kindness, stability. Dont mean to be rude..that you are more than just the external beauty, will grow old and no longer be beautiful.
Some beautiful girls are tired of all the compliments and attention..cause they think guys that do that are shallow, you have a different opinion.
Reply:wow ur very conceded arnt you?
are you like obssesed with urself or something? haha sounds like it.
no ones gonna tell u ur pretty if ur ugly on the inside
Reply:You might be a beautiful person but your stuck on yourself. You need help!
Reply:u love yourself too much.... thats just horrible you love attention way more than i do! i mean i love it wen people call me beautiful but i wont break up with my boyfriend if he doesnt say that every day and the truth is most people shouldnt go with looks.... just dating somebody for their looks is really shallow and sucky i hate people like you no offence because i dont even no you but if somebody came up to my asking advice to my face i'd slap em and say git over yourself woman! just my opinion
Reply:LMAO
Could you actually be more insecure?
The worst date I ever went on ended up with him spiking my drink and sexually assaulting me...
Woah but I have so much sympathy for you and your desperate need to be told your attractive...
If you were that attractive youd know it and not need to hear it.
Reply:LMAO!! this is pretty funny. this is so obviousely a joke question. but i have to say i like the sense of humor
Reply:ehhh... you said taht like 100 times I know you think you are beautiful... but, there is more to life than mirrors ladie!!!!
Reply:Yes, its disgusting that your telling us how beautiful you are, but why repeat so much on the fact that you're white/Caucasian? You didn't give us a pic, but honey you're ugly as hell..........White lady!
Reply:Seem kinda concieded there...
Chill with the beautiful and attracted thing there. I read the whole thing, and there was too much about that, that I don't even remember what I read D:
If you stopped worrying about that, maybe your life would be less stressful.
Not all guys go for the looks. When you get older, you won't look as good, but your personality will most likely stay the same forever.
Reply:OK....
Reply:Going to meet a guy who works as a Radio DJ. We meet accidently by telephone, and had pretty good conversations on the tele. So we decided to meet, sad to say that I found out why he worked off cameras his attitude was poor and he was not that nice on eyes.
Reply:sounding a little insecure to me lol
if u were actually as pretty as u say you are, well you would'nt need validation from everyone
What was the worse date you have ever been on?
umm i will divorce you if you expect me to say youre beautiful all the time. Not all people are interested only in beauty. There is intelligence, kindness, stability. Dont mean to be rude..that you are more than just the external beauty, will grow old and no longer be beautiful.
Some beautiful girls are tired of all the compliments and attention..cause they think guys that do that are shallow, you have a different opinion.
Reply:wow ur very conceded arnt you?
are you like obssesed with urself or something? haha sounds like it.
no ones gonna tell u ur pretty if ur ugly on the inside
Reply:You might be a beautiful person but your stuck on yourself. You need help!
Reply:u love yourself too much.... thats just horrible you love attention way more than i do! i mean i love it wen people call me beautiful but i wont break up with my boyfriend if he doesnt say that every day and the truth is most people shouldnt go with looks.... just dating somebody for their looks is really shallow and sucky i hate people like you no offence because i dont even no you but if somebody came up to my asking advice to my face i'd slap em and say git over yourself woman! just my opinion
Reply:LMAO
Could you actually be more insecure?
The worst date I ever went on ended up with him spiking my drink and sexually assaulting me...
Woah but I have so much sympathy for you and your desperate need to be told your attractive...
If you were that attractive youd know it and not need to hear it.
Reply:LMAO!! this is pretty funny. this is so obviousely a joke question. but i have to say i like the sense of humor
Reply:ehhh... you said taht like 100 times I know you think you are beautiful... but, there is more to life than mirrors ladie!!!!
Reply:Yes, its disgusting that your telling us how beautiful you are, but why repeat so much on the fact that you're white/Caucasian? You didn't give us a pic, but honey you're ugly as hell..........White lady!
Reply:Seem kinda concieded there...
Chill with the beautiful and attracted thing there. I read the whole thing, and there was too much about that, that I don't even remember what I read D:
If you stopped worrying about that, maybe your life would be less stressful.
Not all guys go for the looks. When you get older, you won't look as good, but your personality will most likely stay the same forever.
Reply:OK....
Reply:Going to meet a guy who works as a Radio DJ. We meet accidently by telephone, and had pretty good conversations on the tele. So we decided to meet, sad to say that I found out why he worked off cameras his attitude was poor and he was not that nice on eyes.
Reply:sounding a little insecure to me lol
if u were actually as pretty as u say you are, well you would'nt need validation from everyone
My FIRST date with her!! help!!?
hello all !! ok, well i am going on both my first date ever, and my first date with a girl that i asked out from school (im 16. dont laugh). ok, well i missed her birthday party, so im planning on giving her her present when we go out. so here are my questions
1. ok, well any good tips on how i should give it to her. and how i should act??
2. this being my first date, and might i mention she is SOOOO PERFECT, i dont want to mess it up. i need some dating tips, just about how i should act, how much contact would be acceptable if i WANT TO RESPECT HER.?
thank you all.
My FIRST date with her!! help!!?
Always scary, and I really don't think there is a 'right' answer.
First thing you need to do is relax a bit. Be casual and don't think so much. Just do what comes naturally. For your first date I recommend little to no contact. It's too much pressure otherwise, trying to find the perfect time to hold her hand. Maybe sit or stand a little closer than you normally would. Theres always the next date to worry about that.
1. ok, well any good tips on how i should give it to her. and how i should act??
2. this being my first date, and might i mention she is SOOOO PERFECT, i dont want to mess it up. i need some dating tips, just about how i should act, how much contact would be acceptable if i WANT TO RESPECT HER.?
thank you all.
My FIRST date with her!! help!!?
Always scary, and I really don't think there is a 'right' answer.
First thing you need to do is relax a bit. Be casual and don't think so much. Just do what comes naturally. For your first date I recommend little to no contact. It's too much pressure otherwise, trying to find the perfect time to hold her hand. Maybe sit or stand a little closer than you normally would. Theres always the next date to worry about that.
Date help?
alright, so I need date ideas... this is my second date (we went to a movie for our first date) with my first girlfriend... ideas???
Date help?
Dinner at a decent restraunt like applebees.
Reply:Go to dinner or go ice-skating!!!!!ROMANTIC!
Reply:umm go dancing
Reply:bowling is always fun!!! or a christmas party... perfect time of year.
Reply:don't get to close before x-mas 1 less present to buy!!
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Date help?
Dinner at a decent restraunt like applebees.
Reply:Go to dinner or go ice-skating!!!!!ROMANTIC!
Reply:umm go dancing
Reply:bowling is always fun!!! or a christmas party... perfect time of year.
Reply:don't get to close before x-mas 1 less present to buy!!
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Date tips?
im going to have my first date with this guy, and im not sure what would be a great date? and any tips on what todo during the date would be appreciated!
Date tips?
Dress casual formal like jeans and a nice top, or skirts and boots (only if it's somewhat cold where you live, if it's hot don't wear boots obviously) be yourself, flirt a little bit to show interest, try to keep the conversation going by asking him questions about himself. A great date is anything that you two would enjoy doing, if things are going well hold his hand or play footsie.
Reply:well just act normal and don panic because if you do he will totally don't like you!!
dress pretty and put on some makeup and you'll get him Report It
Date tips?
Dress casual formal like jeans and a nice top, or skirts and boots (only if it's somewhat cold where you live, if it's hot don't wear boots obviously) be yourself, flirt a little bit to show interest, try to keep the conversation going by asking him questions about himself. A great date is anything that you two would enjoy doing, if things are going well hold his hand or play footsie.
Reply:well just act normal and don panic because if you do he will totally don't like you!!
dress pretty and put on some makeup and you'll get him Report It
Date movies vs violent movies?
Society says that date movies are supposed to be nice and that violent films are wrong. But ironically for me, date movies exert more pain and hurt. I am at the moment I am a single, depressed guy who is missing something big in my life. Never had a proper girlfriend, and no girl was ever attracted to me. I find these films unbearable. The dating world is so unfair that I would now rather get shot or stabbed than get rejected by a girl. If the girl got shot to pieces or blown up, there would be one less girl to worry about. I keep girls at arms length, and expect less nowadays. It spares me the disappointment.
Date movies vs violent movies?
Don't say that about yourself! Don't ever doubt your capability of having someone in your life. If you keep going this way, people will start thinking that you aren't capable of loving and that your heart has turned cold.
You could even be turning off your future wife if you keeping heading in this direction! STAY POSITIVE!
Keep hoping for the best, trust me, I've had bumps on my path as well. And so far, I'm not exactly having the best of luck with relationships. But you have to keep going.
There is someone for you out there. You just have to keep hoping and being positive.
Date movies vs violent movies?
Don't say that about yourself! Don't ever doubt your capability of having someone in your life. If you keep going this way, people will start thinking that you aren't capable of loving and that your heart has turned cold.
You could even be turning off your future wife if you keeping heading in this direction! STAY POSITIVE!
Keep hoping for the best, trust me, I've had bumps on my path as well. And so far, I'm not exactly having the best of luck with relationships. But you have to keep going.
There is someone for you out there. You just have to keep hoping and being positive.
Who is the father? conception date?
I had sex with a man on June 17th, 2007 (which would mean a due date of March 13, 2008) - one night stand.
I'm not sure when my the date of my period was in June, but it was earlier in the month, so I was likely fertile during this time.
My current boyfriend and I had sex from July 1 onward. I had a period in July. I understand that women can have implantation bleeding, and I am not sure if this was the case. The date of conception predicted by the 10 week ultrasound is July 25.
My due date is April 21, 2008, according to the 10 week ultrasound.
I have had an 18 week ultrasound and the baby was measuring correctly for 18 weeks. I had a 25 week check-up, and my tummy is measuring at the right size for 25 weeks.
I still feel nervous that with such a short time between the dates, that I could be pregnant with the baby of the man with whom I had a 1 night stand.
Could the dates be off by 5 weeks? Could I be 30 weeks pregnant or is my current bf the father?
Who is the father? conception date?
Implantation bleeding is very light and not really at all like a normal period unless you are one of those lucky women that has extremely light periods. It would be very rare for an ultrasound to be off by five weeks so I wouldn't worry about it at all. Good luck.
Reply:go with the ultrasound dates, they are highly accurate
Reply:ultrasounds measure the baby and the uterus and should not be off by 5 weeks. Even if the baby was a little different in size then most babies it still would not be off that much. Many women who don't know when they conceived have ultrasounds done to find out how far along they are.....if ultrasounds were that incorrect they wouldn't use this option. I would say that you are safe in figuring the baby is your current boyfriends
Reply:not likely....
if you had a period, that was not really light, but normal flow, and the ultrasound and estimated conseption date as it stands that is three things pointing it to be you current BF so relax at worst when the baby comes you can have a paternity test but it really sounds like your boyfriend's.
Reply:WOW you better call Maury Povich and findout!!!
Reply:At 10 wks an ultrasound can give you the date of conception within 3 days. So, they told you July 25, then it could be July 22-28th. But not 5 weeks off.
Reply:It sounds likely that your boyfriend is the father, however...that's a question that only a paternity test can answer.
Reply:i dont think they can be off, not by 5 weeks...but you will hav these paronoid thoughts untill you find out for sure and the only way is dna.... unless when babes is born you may ... such a joy full time and you have this burden...take care and good luck
Reply:we dont know....get a DNA test
haha I love Karma
Reply:If you had a period in July, then you are pregnant by your bf (as long as you weren't cheating on him that month with someone else, of course). Ultrasounds are very accurate when predicting how far along you are. By the way, implantation bleeding is only slight staining for a portion of a day. If your period seemed normal, it was. Relax. It sounds like you have nothing to worry about. If you're that worried, you can always test your bf and baby (after he/she is born) to confirm paternity.
I'm not sure when my the date of my period was in June, but it was earlier in the month, so I was likely fertile during this time.
My current boyfriend and I had sex from July 1 onward. I had a period in July. I understand that women can have implantation bleeding, and I am not sure if this was the case. The date of conception predicted by the 10 week ultrasound is July 25.
My due date is April 21, 2008, according to the 10 week ultrasound.
I have had an 18 week ultrasound and the baby was measuring correctly for 18 weeks. I had a 25 week check-up, and my tummy is measuring at the right size for 25 weeks.
I still feel nervous that with such a short time between the dates, that I could be pregnant with the baby of the man with whom I had a 1 night stand.
Could the dates be off by 5 weeks? Could I be 30 weeks pregnant or is my current bf the father?
Who is the father? conception date?
Implantation bleeding is very light and not really at all like a normal period unless you are one of those lucky women that has extremely light periods. It would be very rare for an ultrasound to be off by five weeks so I wouldn't worry about it at all. Good luck.
Reply:go with the ultrasound dates, they are highly accurate
Reply:ultrasounds measure the baby and the uterus and should not be off by 5 weeks. Even if the baby was a little different in size then most babies it still would not be off that much. Many women who don't know when they conceived have ultrasounds done to find out how far along they are.....if ultrasounds were that incorrect they wouldn't use this option. I would say that you are safe in figuring the baby is your current boyfriends
Reply:not likely....
if you had a period, that was not really light, but normal flow, and the ultrasound and estimated conseption date as it stands that is three things pointing it to be you current BF so relax at worst when the baby comes you can have a paternity test but it really sounds like your boyfriend's.
Reply:WOW you better call Maury Povich and findout!!!
Reply:At 10 wks an ultrasound can give you the date of conception within 3 days. So, they told you July 25, then it could be July 22-28th. But not 5 weeks off.
Reply:It sounds likely that your boyfriend is the father, however...that's a question that only a paternity test can answer.
Reply:i dont think they can be off, not by 5 weeks...but you will hav these paronoid thoughts untill you find out for sure and the only way is dna.... unless when babes is born you may ... such a joy full time and you have this burden...take care and good luck
Reply:we dont know....get a DNA test
haha I love Karma
Reply:If you had a period in July, then you are pregnant by your bf (as long as you weren't cheating on him that month with someone else, of course). Ultrasounds are very accurate when predicting how far along you are. By the way, implantation bleeding is only slight staining for a portion of a day. If your period seemed normal, it was. Relax. It sounds like you have nothing to worry about. If you're that worried, you can always test your bf and baby (after he/she is born) to confirm paternity.
Date question?
What would you think if someone of the opposite sex came up to you holding a box of dates and said "Can I offer you a date?" or "If I offered you a date, would you accept?" Do you think this would be funny or would you be offended? How would you react?
Date question?
I would love it! Especially if he asked me the first one "Can I offer you a date" while holding out a box of real dates. That shows he has a sense of humor and originality. I seriously would love it.
Reply:aw so cute =)
Reply:id say av you bin smokin crack or suttin get a life you ***** freak ;)
Reply:if i liked you i would think that it was funny and cute but if i didn't like you i wold just think that you were a weird-o
Reply:I would think its sweet, but how about this one. " Excuse me, would you happen to have any raisins?" After she says no ask,"How about a date." Heres another one. walk by and say,"I'm sorry were you talking to me?" After she or he says no then say,"Well then can you please start?"
Reply:i would be slightly confused but i might still accept haha.
Reply:id probably be offended that that is the way they would ask, but then give them my number and tell them "lets chat, loser" in a playful/flirty way. but actually mean the loser part. that way we are both happy! lol. :P
Reply:It honestly depends on the other person humor. IF you think they like funny stuff or do you think they would be offended by it? Its really up too you
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Date question?
I would love it! Especially if he asked me the first one "Can I offer you a date" while holding out a box of real dates. That shows he has a sense of humor and originality. I seriously would love it.
Reply:aw so cute =)
Reply:id say av you bin smokin crack or suttin get a life you ***** freak ;)
Reply:if i liked you i would think that it was funny and cute but if i didn't like you i wold just think that you were a weird-o
Reply:I would think its sweet, but how about this one. " Excuse me, would you happen to have any raisins?" After she says no ask,"How about a date." Heres another one. walk by and say,"I'm sorry were you talking to me?" After she or he says no then say,"Well then can you please start?"
Reply:i would be slightly confused but i might still accept haha.
Reply:id probably be offended that that is the way they would ask, but then give them my number and tell them "lets chat, loser" in a playful/flirty way. but actually mean the loser part. that way we are both happy! lol. :P
Reply:It honestly depends on the other person humor. IF you think they like funny stuff or do you think they would be offended by it? Its really up too you
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Date #1: Holy Cow! She's a Catch! Can I keep her?
We just had our first date last night and it felt so... natural and wonderful. I wanted to be with her and keep her with me. I NEVER feel that way about my dates, it usually takes a while. I didn't get all gushy. She left a sweet e-mail last night after the date, so I know it's going well for her too.
I want to tackle this one and keep her - I don't want her to go out with anyone else... this is just too good. How do I do this without scaring her away?
Date #1: Holy Cow! She's a Catch! Can I keep her?
#1 Do not tackle her! For some reason they frown on that.
#2 Breath deep.
#3 Stay relaxed then keep on doing whatever you did last night!
I know the feeling bud, ain't it GREAT?
Reply:Don't rush it. If it's going well for her too then she won't date anyone else. If it was meant to be it will happen
Reply:I don't think you have to do anything but be yourself . Sounds like she feels the same way so I don't think you have anything to worry about. I'm happy for you, that for me was 1 time in my life. Enjoy it as long as it lasts.
Reply:DUDE,You have got what it takes...
Listen, when you get enough answers,SHOW HER ALL OF THIS! Your question, The answers, EVERYTHING!
Then ask her if she likes this ( Answer of mine)
(MY SUGGESTION OF THIS)
SHE WILL KNOW that YOU ARE INTERESTED
(VERY) BUT just ask her if she is interested in the answers?
If She Does (and she will) Because Everyone Is Curious, YOU'LL KNOW- YOU ARE A HIT!
NOW you ask yourself----
HOW DID I GET THIS FAR???
" BY SUGGESTING TO HAVE HER DO.....
WHAT I SAID! EREGO YOU WILL KNOW WHICH ANSWER WAS " THE WINNER! " (hello?)
Reply:Go on a few more dates to make sure that the two of you get along on many levels. Make sure you share the same beliefs because too many people think its love until they find out that their romantic interest isn't at all the person they thought they were. Then, ask her if she would like to make the relationship monogamous. Once she agrees to be exclusive, you can take even more time to see if this will end in a trip to the altar or a return to single life.
Reply:The best thing you can do is to keep her interested in you. Oddly enough, the best way to that is to show an interest in her. take her out again. and again. She'll might feel just as strong a want not to let you go.
I want to tackle this one and keep her - I don't want her to go out with anyone else... this is just too good. How do I do this without scaring her away?
Date #1: Holy Cow! She's a Catch! Can I keep her?
#1 Do not tackle her! For some reason they frown on that.
#2 Breath deep.
#3 Stay relaxed then keep on doing whatever you did last night!
I know the feeling bud, ain't it GREAT?
Reply:Don't rush it. If it's going well for her too then she won't date anyone else. If it was meant to be it will happen
Reply:I don't think you have to do anything but be yourself . Sounds like she feels the same way so I don't think you have anything to worry about. I'm happy for you, that for me was 1 time in my life. Enjoy it as long as it lasts.
Reply:DUDE,You have got what it takes...
Listen, when you get enough answers,SHOW HER ALL OF THIS! Your question, The answers, EVERYTHING!
Then ask her if she likes this ( Answer of mine)
(MY SUGGESTION OF THIS)
SHE WILL KNOW that YOU ARE INTERESTED
(VERY) BUT just ask her if she is interested in the answers?
If She Does (and she will) Because Everyone Is Curious, YOU'LL KNOW- YOU ARE A HIT!
NOW you ask yourself----
HOW DID I GET THIS FAR???
" BY SUGGESTING TO HAVE HER DO.....
WHAT I SAID! EREGO YOU WILL KNOW WHICH ANSWER WAS " THE WINNER! " (hello?)
Reply:Go on a few more dates to make sure that the two of you get along on many levels. Make sure you share the same beliefs because too many people think its love until they find out that their romantic interest isn't at all the person they thought they were. Then, ask her if she would like to make the relationship monogamous. Once she agrees to be exclusive, you can take even more time to see if this will end in a trip to the altar or a return to single life.
Reply:The best thing you can do is to keep her interested in you. Oddly enough, the best way to that is to show an interest in her. take her out again. and again. She'll might feel just as strong a want not to let you go.
Date on Gatorade bottle?
I bought a Gatorade today from a gas station. I just took a drink and it tasted funny. I looked at the date on the bottle it states APR 23 07 - is this the "born on" date or the exp date?
Date on Gatorade bottle?
Exp date. Powerade is better in my opinion.
Reply:Expriration date.
Reply:It's the date when it was bottled. Gatorade does not have a use by date yet. They are only thinking about use one.
Reply:it the exp date. that gas stations that aren't popular usually have stuff that haven't been sold yet. like that gatorade wasn't sold since dec or eariler
Reply:experation date
Date on Gatorade bottle?
Exp date. Powerade is better in my opinion.
Reply:Expriration date.
Reply:It's the date when it was bottled. Gatorade does not have a use by date yet. They are only thinking about use one.
Reply:it the exp date. that gas stations that aren't popular usually have stuff that haven't been sold yet. like that gatorade wasn't sold since dec or eariler
Reply:experation date
My first date EVER!?
2 days ago i asked a question regarding a friend of mine who i thought was straight,maybe he is bisexual?but anyway we talked about how he was around me,and well now i am going on a date with him this friday (12th october 2007), he is picking me up at 7pm.I have had 2 boyfriends(that my friend scared off)but i have never been on a DATE before ever,i am really feeling very sick and nervous and i don't know why praying the time will go slower it is 2:29pm here(well it will be different by the time i finally submit this).and it is not helping much because my older brother(my date's friend) has been teasing me(he is happy though about this).
I don't know,i am not sure,if i am starting to regret this and this is a bad idea.Should i make up an excuse or just see how it goes?what should i do,wear,talk about?
my date is 19 and i am 16,even though i don't believe it matters much.
Should i just call him and pretend to be sick(even though i actually am feeling sick).
My first date EVER!?
It'll be fine, honestly. Just enjoy it and relax. But most of all be yourself and have a good time. You'll never experience a first date again so make the most of it is my advice.
I can see why you may feel awkward with the age gap but I'm sure he's probably felt the same way at some point as well and maybe he's even nervous about the date too. I guess there's no harm in seeing how you get on and enjoying each others company. But of course don't let him be cheeky or take advantage with him being 19 and all.
My conclusion is, just have a blast and enjoy it all. Even if you both don't get on, you'll probably feel proud that you actually went rather than spent time afterwards wondering what could've happened and it's all part of experience.
Take care and I hope you have a wonderful time.
Reply:i don't get it? are you a girl or a boy? if that someone is bisexual, then it's up for you to decide.
Reply:nice i got my first date at 10
Reply:no silly... first of all... stop worrying so much... just have fun.. think of it as "hanging out" with somebody... there's no big "ceremony" that happens on a date... it's simply getting together with the possibility of a relationship that could be more than just friends... but just be casual... be yourself... have fun... get to know him... let him talk... don't get freaked out... this is the only first date you'll ever have... make it a fun, low stress time that you can look back on ... :P ENJOY!!...
Reply:go on the date see how it goes where a long shirt or blue jeans what ever makes you comfortable and a nice top maybe something that shows Little and go and see a movie that way you don't have to talk....or let home start the talking i mean you can ask him questions to get to now him better it will all come to you once you start having a good time with him....if you don't tell him that you don't feel good and find someone else.... calm your nerves..
Reply:Listen - just breathe...
Relax - remember - you like this guy. Just enjoy the date. You already know him, and you are just going to go out to have some fun. It's ok. You are going to be fine. Try to see if the date can be held at a familiar place - I mean, someplace that you are accostomed to. Try to take it light and easy for the first date. If you still feel very uncomfortable - then trust yourself and try to see what is really bothering you.
Don't worry yourself about this soo much, simply relax and try to get to enjoy the night.
Reply:Okay you're 16, act like it. Just go eat the crappy food, watch the lame movie, and go home. All first dates suck! My first date was horrible. He spilled food on me and broke my phone.
Reply:pack a condom
Reply:Just go. You might have fun!
Reply:You must face the challenge anyway why are you so nervous I think if you are nervous you don't love him(I don't know maybe just do not get angry) today you must be excited.... Don't mind your brother Follow your heart if you live him or not? If you love him think about it you must choose 1 BOYFRIEND only or else it might get worser but he problem is the the other boy....... you better date with him if he is the one you really love choose......God will guide you in the right way just keep praying God bless you!!
Reply:I think this happens to everyone from time to time. Just tell yourself its nothing. Its all about your thoughts. I think you most go cause 1 you will wonder what it would have been like or 2 He will ask to go out another night and you will go through this all again. As for clothes wear your favorite outfit. I think jeans and a stylish button up shirt look nice too. Good luck and don't chicken out ;)
I don't know,i am not sure,if i am starting to regret this and this is a bad idea.Should i make up an excuse or just see how it goes?what should i do,wear,talk about?
my date is 19 and i am 16,even though i don't believe it matters much.
Should i just call him and pretend to be sick(even though i actually am feeling sick).
My first date EVER!?
It'll be fine, honestly. Just enjoy it and relax. But most of all be yourself and have a good time. You'll never experience a first date again so make the most of it is my advice.
I can see why you may feel awkward with the age gap but I'm sure he's probably felt the same way at some point as well and maybe he's even nervous about the date too. I guess there's no harm in seeing how you get on and enjoying each others company. But of course don't let him be cheeky or take advantage with him being 19 and all.
My conclusion is, just have a blast and enjoy it all. Even if you both don't get on, you'll probably feel proud that you actually went rather than spent time afterwards wondering what could've happened and it's all part of experience.
Take care and I hope you have a wonderful time.
Reply:i don't get it? are you a girl or a boy? if that someone is bisexual, then it's up for you to decide.
Reply:nice i got my first date at 10
Reply:no silly... first of all... stop worrying so much... just have fun.. think of it as "hanging out" with somebody... there's no big "ceremony" that happens on a date... it's simply getting together with the possibility of a relationship that could be more than just friends... but just be casual... be yourself... have fun... get to know him... let him talk... don't get freaked out... this is the only first date you'll ever have... make it a fun, low stress time that you can look back on ... :P ENJOY!!...
Reply:go on the date see how it goes where a long shirt or blue jeans what ever makes you comfortable and a nice top maybe something that shows Little and go and see a movie that way you don't have to talk....or let home start the talking i mean you can ask him questions to get to now him better it will all come to you once you start having a good time with him....if you don't tell him that you don't feel good and find someone else.... calm your nerves..
Reply:Listen - just breathe...
Relax - remember - you like this guy. Just enjoy the date. You already know him, and you are just going to go out to have some fun. It's ok. You are going to be fine. Try to see if the date can be held at a familiar place - I mean, someplace that you are accostomed to. Try to take it light and easy for the first date. If you still feel very uncomfortable - then trust yourself and try to see what is really bothering you.
Don't worry yourself about this soo much, simply relax and try to get to enjoy the night.
Reply:Okay you're 16, act like it. Just go eat the crappy food, watch the lame movie, and go home. All first dates suck! My first date was horrible. He spilled food on me and broke my phone.
Reply:pack a condom
Reply:Just go. You might have fun!
Reply:You must face the challenge anyway why are you so nervous I think if you are nervous you don't love him(I don't know maybe just do not get angry) today you must be excited.... Don't mind your brother Follow your heart if you live him or not? If you love him think about it you must choose 1 BOYFRIEND only or else it might get worser but he problem is the the other boy....... you better date with him if he is the one you really love choose......God will guide you in the right way just keep praying God bless you!!
Reply:I think this happens to everyone from time to time. Just tell yourself its nothing. Its all about your thoughts. I think you most go cause 1 you will wonder what it would have been like or 2 He will ask to go out another night and you will go through this all again. As for clothes wear your favorite outfit. I think jeans and a stylish button up shirt look nice too. Good luck and don't chicken out ;)
Mad and upset in my date?
we just went on our first date together, the bad part is i confess my feelin all at once at the end of the date, cuz i was so mad when one of her friend joined in wit us the entire evenin, her friend is a nice guy and i like him, but the point is i was feelin jealous and upset. My date dont realize i was upset the entire date. i barely talk at all durin the whole evenin
she and i have different personality against each other and dont talk very well one to another.
i told her tat this date was for knowin each other better, and have no intention to start relationship or wut so ever. but she said tat we re friend but then again she said she still willin to go out wit me, i rly wanna change her damn thoughts on me
i dont wanna wait for any more date, i wanna ask her out to some pllace settlin the misunderstandin between us (not ask her to be my gf)
any suggestion and advice
Mad and upset in my date?
u have to wait and go out on a couple more dates with her so that u can get to know her and see if u really wanna go out with her.
its a bad idea to rush things.
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she and i have different personality against each other and dont talk very well one to another.
i told her tat this date was for knowin each other better, and have no intention to start relationship or wut so ever. but she said tat we re friend but then again she said she still willin to go out wit me, i rly wanna change her damn thoughts on me
i dont wanna wait for any more date, i wanna ask her out to some pllace settlin the misunderstandin between us (not ask her to be my gf)
any suggestion and advice
Mad and upset in my date?
u have to wait and go out on a couple more dates with her so that u can get to know her and see if u really wanna go out with her.
its a bad idea to rush things.
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Ladies: Weird vibe on my date. Did she not like me? details inside.?
So I met a girl from a dating site. On her profile she did mention that she can be shy/quiet/serious at first.
Well on our date she seemed very quiet. She didn't ask me many questions on the date, the whole date basically consisted of me attempting to drive the conversation. When I did get her talking, she did seem engaged, but if we weren't talking she would just stare at the table. She seemed somewhat tired on the date, and i asked her and she said that she was after a long work week.
After we finished our food I asked her if she wanted to go get a cup of coffee down the street. She politely declined and said she's going to go home. So while we walked to the bus stop I asked her if she wanted to go out again and she responded with "yes, definitely." and seemed genuine about it. I thought this was weird since I was certain she didn't like me 100%. I was honest with her and said that I was surprised and I felt she didn't like me based on the date. She said "oh that's just me"
Ladies: Weird vibe on my date. Did she not like me? details inside.?
Dude, she obviously wants you bad. Cant you see it. I can. It's so obvious. You should totally ask her to marry her. Come on I dare you....chicken.
Reply:I wouldn't trust this one. Schizophrenic! She'll always have you second guessing yourself.
Reply:I think its a maybe... was she even a little interested in you? So im not sure, maybe shes just so tired she can't think of anything to say? It kinda sounds to me that your not intirely sure of her... maybe try going on a date once more if you want to give her a chance but it kinda sounds like shes making you feel bad or something.
Reply:Thats a tough call. I myself dont like heavy maintenance people and she sounds like one of those.A better question is do you really like her enough to go thru this again?
Reply:Confusing!!! I think you should go out again and see how it is next time and if shes still a bit funny then go meet someone else, lifes too short to bother with people who can't meet you half way!x
Reply:If you really like her and think there might be more to her, set up your next date at a time when you know she should be feeling refreshed. Like maybe a Saturday afternoon date. If she still acts the same, then you'll know that's just how she is and you can then decide if her quiet personality is attractive to you.
Well on our date she seemed very quiet. She didn't ask me many questions on the date, the whole date basically consisted of me attempting to drive the conversation. When I did get her talking, she did seem engaged, but if we weren't talking she would just stare at the table. She seemed somewhat tired on the date, and i asked her and she said that she was after a long work week.
After we finished our food I asked her if she wanted to go get a cup of coffee down the street. She politely declined and said she's going to go home. So while we walked to the bus stop I asked her if she wanted to go out again and she responded with "yes, definitely." and seemed genuine about it. I thought this was weird since I was certain she didn't like me 100%. I was honest with her and said that I was surprised and I felt she didn't like me based on the date. She said "oh that's just me"
Ladies: Weird vibe on my date. Did she not like me? details inside.?
Dude, she obviously wants you bad. Cant you see it. I can. It's so obvious. You should totally ask her to marry her. Come on I dare you....chicken.
Reply:I wouldn't trust this one. Schizophrenic! She'll always have you second guessing yourself.
Reply:I think its a maybe... was she even a little interested in you? So im not sure, maybe shes just so tired she can't think of anything to say? It kinda sounds to me that your not intirely sure of her... maybe try going on a date once more if you want to give her a chance but it kinda sounds like shes making you feel bad or something.
Reply:Thats a tough call. I myself dont like heavy maintenance people and she sounds like one of those.A better question is do you really like her enough to go thru this again?
Reply:Confusing!!! I think you should go out again and see how it is next time and if shes still a bit funny then go meet someone else, lifes too short to bother with people who can't meet you half way!x
Reply:If you really like her and think there might be more to her, set up your next date at a time when you know she should be feeling refreshed. Like maybe a Saturday afternoon date. If she still acts the same, then you'll know that's just how she is and you can then decide if her quiet personality is attractive to you.
Date ideas -- first date -- help??
What is the perfect date for an online meetup? It will have to be on Friday night (due to his working weekend schedule). What if we don't like eachother after all? How do I cut it short? What is a good way to start (drinks? dinner? coffee?). I suck at this first date stuff --- help? and don't worry... I live in NYC so there are people everywhere you go.
Date ideas -- first date -- help??
movies?
Reply:Meet at a tavern or cafe for a drink and appetizers or some activity at the park. I would definitely only schedule for weeknights....this especially gives you an out if it doesn't work out. Shouldn't be that hard, but some people are uncomfortable facing the facts of online dating....sometimes you just aren't attracted to each other.
Reply:hmmmm go to the zoo..central park..or a museum..that way you'll never be at a loss of words because the sites you will see will always give you something to talk about. you can go out to grab some coffee afterwards and talk about what you thought about the museum/zoo or whatever..and then take it casually from there.
Reply:go ice skating if you dont like him you could always fall and get hurt. ha ha.
Date ideas -- first date -- help??
movies?
Reply:Meet at a tavern or cafe for a drink and appetizers or some activity at the park. I would definitely only schedule for weeknights....this especially gives you an out if it doesn't work out. Shouldn't be that hard, but some people are uncomfortable facing the facts of online dating....sometimes you just aren't attracted to each other.
Reply:hmmmm go to the zoo..central park..or a museum..that way you'll never be at a loss of words because the sites you will see will always give you something to talk about. you can go out to grab some coffee afterwards and talk about what you thought about the museum/zoo or whatever..and then take it casually from there.
Reply:go ice skating if you dont like him you could always fall and get hurt. ha ha.
Back to dating after divorce. Date tonight..Advice???
Man... I never wanted to be out there again! Back to the dating world. I am a 36 y/o female. 3 little ones at home. Casual date tonight with a recently widowed male, 42, 3 kids at home too. Any advice? VERY nervous. This is a blind date. Have talked by phone some for a few weeks. I am no longer 20 yrs old or a size 8...pretty nervous! Advice/encouragement , please!!!!!! Thanks, everyone!
Back to dating after divorce. Date tonight..Advice???
just hold your shoulders up right and hold your head high... you have a lot to be proud of your a single mom of 3 little ones and no matter what they look up to you!! So, have a good time relax and don't stress out too much just enjoy the company.. i am sure he just might too.. have fun and good luck
Reply:Smile, always be polite %26amp; courtious but
don't overdo it.
Be yourself. If something doesn't strike
you as being funny, don't laugh but at
least smile, you don't need to come
across as being a *****. If its funny,
then laugh!
As it sounds you 2 have already talked with some success.
Just be your everyday self, like you
were on the phone with him.
Be confident, witty, happy, willing to
help out, easy going %26amp; positive like you
were on the phone with him.
Don't be nervous, but thats a given. At
least keep your nervousness inside you.
Try not to show it, but if it makes an
appearance, just simly say to your date
that being in the presence of him brings
it out in you, but in a good way!
As for some advice about not being 20
anymore.
You are smarter %26amp; wiser.
You know what life is like.
You know how this world works %26amp; you see
the benefits %26amp; joy %26amp; tough times with
raising kids.
You know your boundaries %26amp; limits.
You know what you want out of life.
You know that laundry doesn't magically
appear folded in your drawers.
You know your goals %26amp; achievements.
Basically,
You know your sh_t!
This is your night to be queen, a nice
fairy tale type queen.
Have fun %26amp; enjoy every moment of it.
At some point later in life your going to
look back at this experience %26amp; marvel in
it!
Just have fun!!!!
Nicole
Reply:Go with the flow....seriously, just be yourself, be confident and all will be well. I have been dating for twelve years since my divorce and its to the point now I sometimes think...lets just go to bed, see if we are compatible...and forget the dinner (lmao...joking of course...)
Reply:I'm sure there a lot of us that'd like to advise you on this. I think the most important thing to keep in mind is "you have to be yourself". Just stay true to who you are.
Its only natural for you to feel a bit nervous. One thing that you are getting back into the dating scene after a while. Another thing is you haven't met this person yet. So, don't be too hard on yourself if you a feel a few butterflies in your stomach.
One last thing. Don't go into it with too many expectations. Expect this person to be decent and a normal person. The lesser expectations you have, the lesser will your disappointment be if it didn't turn out the way you wanted it.
Have fun.
Reply:Just be yourself. I know it sounds cliche but it works. Good luck
Back to dating after divorce. Date tonight..Advice???
just hold your shoulders up right and hold your head high... you have a lot to be proud of your a single mom of 3 little ones and no matter what they look up to you!! So, have a good time relax and don't stress out too much just enjoy the company.. i am sure he just might too.. have fun and good luck
Reply:Smile, always be polite %26amp; courtious but
don't overdo it.
Be yourself. If something doesn't strike
you as being funny, don't laugh but at
least smile, you don't need to come
across as being a *****. If its funny,
then laugh!
As it sounds you 2 have already talked with some success.
Just be your everyday self, like you
were on the phone with him.
Be confident, witty, happy, willing to
help out, easy going %26amp; positive like you
were on the phone with him.
Don't be nervous, but thats a given. At
least keep your nervousness inside you.
Try not to show it, but if it makes an
appearance, just simly say to your date
that being in the presence of him brings
it out in you, but in a good way!
As for some advice about not being 20
anymore.
You are smarter %26amp; wiser.
You know what life is like.
You know how this world works %26amp; you see
the benefits %26amp; joy %26amp; tough times with
raising kids.
You know your boundaries %26amp; limits.
You know what you want out of life.
You know that laundry doesn't magically
appear folded in your drawers.
You know your goals %26amp; achievements.
Basically,
You know your sh_t!
This is your night to be queen, a nice
fairy tale type queen.
Have fun %26amp; enjoy every moment of it.
At some point later in life your going to
look back at this experience %26amp; marvel in
it!
Just have fun!!!!
Nicole
Reply:Go with the flow....seriously, just be yourself, be confident and all will be well. I have been dating for twelve years since my divorce and its to the point now I sometimes think...lets just go to bed, see if we are compatible...and forget the dinner (lmao...joking of course...)
Reply:I'm sure there a lot of us that'd like to advise you on this. I think the most important thing to keep in mind is "you have to be yourself". Just stay true to who you are.
Its only natural for you to feel a bit nervous. One thing that you are getting back into the dating scene after a while. Another thing is you haven't met this person yet. So, don't be too hard on yourself if you a feel a few butterflies in your stomach.
One last thing. Don't go into it with too many expectations. Expect this person to be decent and a normal person. The lesser expectations you have, the lesser will your disappointment be if it didn't turn out the way you wanted it.
Have fun.
Reply:Just be yourself. I know it sounds cliche but it works. Good luck
Ready to Date Again?
I haven't dated since I got pregnant with my 11 year old daughter. So, I am finally ready to date again. What made me realize was that my daughter asked if she could go out with a boy from her school to dance. I realized, if she is ready to date, I can let my guard down too.
So, I have a crush on this guy at my workplace who has asked me out twice before. How can I let him know that I'm ready now? Help please! I'm new at this, my last date was at 17.
Ready to Date Again?
a lot of women.. kill a girl inside them self to become a mother.
phychologically..
you stop shopping, looking good, papmer your self.. flirt. etc
you start from there. resinate with sparks and feminities again.
there is a book call art of flirting i think.
also workout. it will build confidence and maek you feel good.
take your daughter with you. make it a fmaly deal.
start firlt with everything. guy girl target store check out person.
learn to master how to create good vibe with in a group. be center of the attention and be comfortable.
your focus is to be magnatic. but look effort less.
Reply:http://www.amazon.com/Fine-Art...
that's the book. hte fine art of flirting. flirt everyday. don't stop.
ALSO THIS PROGRAM IS GOLD MUST MUST MUST
http://www.datingquestionsform... Report It
Reply:well, u got it easy if u already know he likes you. how about u ask him out to eat or something. don't be worried about making the first move, u already know he likes u so it should be a yes
Reply:date time right
Reply:by just telling him or showing signs that you are ready to date. im sorry i was no help to you.
Reply:i can help...i`ll ask you out. does that make you feel more confident?
Reply:I am in the same boat except for male. I have my son with me too.
I would say that you need to be careful. Especially if you haven't dated in a while. It can be extremely uncomfortable. You don't how to act. If you have downed him before he will probably be a little hesitant. Ask him to coffee or lunch and explain it. Then ask if he is still interested in doing something after work.
Good Luck,
cosmetic dentistry
So, I have a crush on this guy at my workplace who has asked me out twice before. How can I let him know that I'm ready now? Help please! I'm new at this, my last date was at 17.
Ready to Date Again?
a lot of women.. kill a girl inside them self to become a mother.
phychologically..
you stop shopping, looking good, papmer your self.. flirt. etc
you start from there. resinate with sparks and feminities again.
there is a book call art of flirting i think.
also workout. it will build confidence and maek you feel good.
take your daughter with you. make it a fmaly deal.
start firlt with everything. guy girl target store check out person.
learn to master how to create good vibe with in a group. be center of the attention and be comfortable.
your focus is to be magnatic. but look effort less.
Reply:http://www.amazon.com/Fine-Art...
that's the book. hte fine art of flirting. flirt everyday. don't stop.
ALSO THIS PROGRAM IS GOLD MUST MUST MUST
http://www.datingquestionsform... Report It
Reply:well, u got it easy if u already know he likes you. how about u ask him out to eat or something. don't be worried about making the first move, u already know he likes u so it should be a yes
Reply:date time right
Reply:by just telling him or showing signs that you are ready to date. im sorry i was no help to you.
Reply:i can help...i`ll ask you out. does that make you feel more confident?
Reply:I am in the same boat except for male. I have my son with me too.
I would say that you need to be careful. Especially if you haven't dated in a while. It can be extremely uncomfortable. You don't how to act. If you have downed him before he will probably be a little hesitant. Ask him to coffee or lunch and explain it. Then ask if he is still interested in doing something after work.
Good Luck,
cosmetic dentistry
Save the Date magnets or postcards?
I want to send out save the date announcements. I'm making them my self and I can't deside if I should make postcards or magnets. What do you guys think? And also if I do magnets, if it safe to mail them or if I have to do anything special to them?
Postcard:
Front side- address on right. Save the Date on the left
Back side- pic of a calendar w/date circled on left and other info (name, date, sayings) on the right.
Magnet:
Same as the back side of the postcard idea
Save the Date magnets or postcards?
I did magnets. Everybody loved them and told me what a great idea it was. I didn't have to do anything special to mail them, just dropped them in an envelope. How are you going to do them? I used business card paper and business card magnets. They were really easy to do, I just followed the directions for the paper, made up the design I wanted, printed them out and stuck them to the magnets. They're great.
Reply:magnet. i think it is a cute idea. and then they will already have something of your wedding day should you choose not to do favors
Reply:If money is a factor (and when is it not?) then go with postcards. They are cheaper to make and send postage.
Magnets can be a very cute 'extra' if done right, but they are just that- an extra.
Reply:I'm doing magnets. Our magnets have a picture of my fiance and I holding a sign with our wedding date...the magnets have our wedding webpage listed at the bottom, and on the side it says "Formal invitation to follow".
To mail the magnets, I will order cards with slits cut into them, to hold the magnets...then you put the card/magnet into an envelope. It will probably cost more in postage..but a magnet is more likely to remain visable (on the fridge) and it is more functional than a postcard that will just get tossed.
Reply:Postcard, definitely. I wouldnt use a magnet like that.
Can you also add a picture of the two of you? I always enjoy seeing the picture.
Reply:I agree with the magnet idea being more practical, just be sure to check with the post office to see about any extra postage that may be required.
Reply:Magnets :) Chances are that most of us lose or throw away a majority of our mail. I know I do! I'd be pumped to get a new magnet on my fridge! And I would have a frequent reminder of the special date every time I went to take out the milk.
Reply:You should definitely do Save the Date magnets! It is safe to mail them and the only thing that should be special about them is a picture of you and your fiance.
Reply:I would go with magnets. They'll probably keep them long after the wedding and have a better chance of not getting lost.
Reply:magnet. Period. Another good option if magnets are out of budget is to have stickers printed up for people to put in their date planners or calendars. You can also pick up a generic magnet that could be used after the wedding but hints at the theme. For instance with a garden wedding get some of those cheap flower magnets and tie a tag with wedding info.
You are sending out the STD's months before hand. How many people are going to be able to keep up with a postcard for months? busy lives. magnets are easy to keep up with and can be placed on the fridge' where people tend to go everyday so they are sure to actually save the date. Lost postcards are nearly so effective.
Reply:Magnets seem to be the trend lately, and at least they won't get lost like a postcard probably would. Just put em' up on your fridge! And, no, you don't need to do anything special to the magnet before mailing. But, I do have to say, that unless you are having an out of town wedding, I don't think save the date cards/magnets are really necessary. Invites usually go out about 4-6 weeks prior to the event, and that is enough time for guests to plan.
Reply:We got a really cute magnet from magnetqueen.com Our friends submitted pictures of themselves from when they were kids and they morphed the two together so it looks like they were sitting together.
Reply:Magnets, they are better reminders and can be useful rather then a postcard.
Reply:magnets. :) then they can see it all the time and they shall not forget. plus they can keep it on the fridge for a long time after the wedding. :)
Postcard:
Front side- address on right. Save the Date on the left
Back side- pic of a calendar w/date circled on left and other info (name, date, sayings) on the right.
Magnet:
Same as the back side of the postcard idea
Save the Date magnets or postcards?
I did magnets. Everybody loved them and told me what a great idea it was. I didn't have to do anything special to mail them, just dropped them in an envelope. How are you going to do them? I used business card paper and business card magnets. They were really easy to do, I just followed the directions for the paper, made up the design I wanted, printed them out and stuck them to the magnets. They're great.
Reply:magnet. i think it is a cute idea. and then they will already have something of your wedding day should you choose not to do favors
Reply:If money is a factor (and when is it not?) then go with postcards. They are cheaper to make and send postage.
Magnets can be a very cute 'extra' if done right, but they are just that- an extra.
Reply:I'm doing magnets. Our magnets have a picture of my fiance and I holding a sign with our wedding date...the magnets have our wedding webpage listed at the bottom, and on the side it says "Formal invitation to follow".
To mail the magnets, I will order cards with slits cut into them, to hold the magnets...then you put the card/magnet into an envelope. It will probably cost more in postage..but a magnet is more likely to remain visable (on the fridge) and it is more functional than a postcard that will just get tossed.
Reply:Postcard, definitely. I wouldnt use a magnet like that.
Can you also add a picture of the two of you? I always enjoy seeing the picture.
Reply:I agree with the magnet idea being more practical, just be sure to check with the post office to see about any extra postage that may be required.
Reply:Magnets :) Chances are that most of us lose or throw away a majority of our mail. I know I do! I'd be pumped to get a new magnet on my fridge! And I would have a frequent reminder of the special date every time I went to take out the milk.
Reply:You should definitely do Save the Date magnets! It is safe to mail them and the only thing that should be special about them is a picture of you and your fiance.
Reply:I would go with magnets. They'll probably keep them long after the wedding and have a better chance of not getting lost.
Reply:magnet. Period. Another good option if magnets are out of budget is to have stickers printed up for people to put in their date planners or calendars. You can also pick up a generic magnet that could be used after the wedding but hints at the theme. For instance with a garden wedding get some of those cheap flower magnets and tie a tag with wedding info.
You are sending out the STD's months before hand. How many people are going to be able to keep up with a postcard for months? busy lives. magnets are easy to keep up with and can be placed on the fridge' where people tend to go everyday so they are sure to actually save the date. Lost postcards are nearly so effective.
Reply:Magnets seem to be the trend lately, and at least they won't get lost like a postcard probably would. Just put em' up on your fridge! And, no, you don't need to do anything special to the magnet before mailing. But, I do have to say, that unless you are having an out of town wedding, I don't think save the date cards/magnets are really necessary. Invites usually go out about 4-6 weeks prior to the event, and that is enough time for guests to plan.
Reply:We got a really cute magnet from magnetqueen.com Our friends submitted pictures of themselves from when they were kids and they morphed the two together so it looks like they were sitting together.
Reply:Magnets, they are better reminders and can be useful rather then a postcard.
Reply:magnets. :) then they can see it all the time and they shall not forget. plus they can keep it on the fridge for a long time after the wedding. :)
On 3rd date, I tried to give a goodnight kiss and was given the cheek. What do you think I should do next?
I am 34, and I have gone out on two dates with this Russian woman, 30, who is very beautiful, intelligent, kind and we definitely had chemistry... or so I thought. Met for coffee and hit it off. I took her to a nice restaurant on our second date and gave her a kiss on the cheek. Invited her to Santa Monica for a third date, things seemed to be going well, we ate at a restaurant, listened to live music, walked on the Pier, held hands, laughed. And as we were saying goodnight, I tried to kiss her and she gave me the cheek. :^/ Earlier she did say she felt nervous and explained that she had had only two boyfriends previously but I'm confused. What do you think I should do now?
Give her some space and let her call me if she is interested?
Just brush it off, ask her on a 4th date and see how she reacts?
Or should I contact her, and ask her if I was reading her right that she isn't interested, and possibly give her a chance to explain?
Or just forget about it and move on?
On 3rd date, I tried to give a goodnight kiss and was given the cheek. What do you think I should do next?
Give her a few days alone, and if she does not call then call her and ask her if she wants to go on another date, if she hesitates at all she is not interested, and you can go move on. If she does want to go on another date then you should talk to her and try to find out if it is nerves or if it is some sort of dating rule that is preventing her from kissing you back. Dating Rules, yes most women have them- no kiss until fifth date, no sex until it has been a month etc... If it is that then be glad that she is sticking to her morals, and be patient with her. If it is nerves then make her as comfortable as possible, women as I am sure men do, want the first kiss to be perfect, and they are nervous about it so just take your time if she really is interested then it will not be that long.
Reply:Hmm...
Maybe you should just ask her on another date. Just because she was nervous about kissing doesn't mean she isn't interested,you said that the two of you had a good time.
Reply:I must say my friend, that it's not looking good. I don't see myself as a "male chauvenist pig", but I think she sees you as a meal ticket.
Three dates %26amp; you haven't kissed her! If she likes you %26amp; enjoys your company, then a kiss on the lips is not a strange thing to expect.
Take her out one more time %26amp; ask her straight what her thoughts are.
P.S. She's a beautiful 30 year old %26amp; has only ever had 2 boyfriends? Don't you find that a bit odd?
I know ugly 15 year olds who've had 4 boyfriends.
Reply:give her a french kiss .. imean lip to lip
Reply:Just brush it off, ask her on a 4th date and see how she reacts?
During the 4th date maybe the conversation will allow you to ask her
Reply:My advice is for your next date, ask someone else out, that girl is definitely not interested anymore.
Reply:Hit a home-run.
Reply:Go on several more dates with her. Take things slow. (are you familiar with Russia's customs?) If after a couple of months, things don't progress, either blow her off...Or ask why?.
Reply:just take her on another date give her space
Reply:I liked your last option: "Or should I contact her, and ask her if I was reading her right that she isn't interested, and possibly give her a chance to explain?
Or just forget about it and move on? "
Just be prepared to hear that she's not interested.
It'll be ok.
Reply:it your truely interested having more relations with this women,then stay with the cheek until she turns to your mouth...this does not mean she isnt interested..
Reply:Just brush it off and ask her on another date
Different cultures treat things and situations differently
Don't try and think too hard about it
Just let it happen and see where it goes.
Reply:I think you should definatly ask her out again. Maybe she was just nervous, or maybe she wasn't ready for a real kiss. She could be scared, or maybe she wants to take things slow.
Reply:Seems she might not be that intersted in you if she doesn't want to kiss by the 3rd date although it may be some Russian custom or perhaps she has a different set of values then you or I where she comes from. I would ask her out again, have a fun date, and try again. If she gives the cheek again I'd ask her why. Communication is always the best answer in relationships.
Reply:you should wait and give her space call her in 2-3 days and if she wants to go out again ...then at the end of the night try again if she still gives you the cheek she is 1, not interstest in a relationship/ friends only deal, 2. she is proper and is waiting hell she is from russia who knows how they are raise ... it maybe a 5-6 date rule that she goes by... or 3... she does like you but is insecure and thinks she can kiss...then talk to her...
and finaly... i am 27 and available for kissing anytime :)
Reply:get in her pants
Reply:what u need to do is let her make your next move. She may think things are moving to quick. Get to know her more and let life take its course.
Reply:I say you need to give her some space, because obviously she hasn't gotten over her other boyfriends.
Give her some space and let her call me if she is interested?
Just brush it off, ask her on a 4th date and see how she reacts?
Or should I contact her, and ask her if I was reading her right that she isn't interested, and possibly give her a chance to explain?
Or just forget about it and move on?
On 3rd date, I tried to give a goodnight kiss and was given the cheek. What do you think I should do next?
Give her a few days alone, and if she does not call then call her and ask her if she wants to go on another date, if she hesitates at all she is not interested, and you can go move on. If she does want to go on another date then you should talk to her and try to find out if it is nerves or if it is some sort of dating rule that is preventing her from kissing you back. Dating Rules, yes most women have them- no kiss until fifth date, no sex until it has been a month etc... If it is that then be glad that she is sticking to her morals, and be patient with her. If it is nerves then make her as comfortable as possible, women as I am sure men do, want the first kiss to be perfect, and they are nervous about it so just take your time if she really is interested then it will not be that long.
Reply:Hmm...
Maybe you should just ask her on another date. Just because she was nervous about kissing doesn't mean she isn't interested,you said that the two of you had a good time.
Reply:I must say my friend, that it's not looking good. I don't see myself as a "male chauvenist pig", but I think she sees you as a meal ticket.
Three dates %26amp; you haven't kissed her! If she likes you %26amp; enjoys your company, then a kiss on the lips is not a strange thing to expect.
Take her out one more time %26amp; ask her straight what her thoughts are.
P.S. She's a beautiful 30 year old %26amp; has only ever had 2 boyfriends? Don't you find that a bit odd?
I know ugly 15 year olds who've had 4 boyfriends.
Reply:give her a french kiss .. imean lip to lip
Reply:Just brush it off, ask her on a 4th date and see how she reacts?
During the 4th date maybe the conversation will allow you to ask her
Reply:My advice is for your next date, ask someone else out, that girl is definitely not interested anymore.
Reply:Hit a home-run.
Reply:Go on several more dates with her. Take things slow. (are you familiar with Russia's customs?) If after a couple of months, things don't progress, either blow her off...Or ask why?.
Reply:just take her on another date give her space
Reply:I liked your last option: "Or should I contact her, and ask her if I was reading her right that she isn't interested, and possibly give her a chance to explain?
Or just forget about it and move on? "
Just be prepared to hear that she's not interested.
It'll be ok.
Reply:it your truely interested having more relations with this women,then stay with the cheek until she turns to your mouth...this does not mean she isnt interested..
Reply:Just brush it off and ask her on another date
Different cultures treat things and situations differently
Don't try and think too hard about it
Just let it happen and see where it goes.
Reply:I think you should definatly ask her out again. Maybe she was just nervous, or maybe she wasn't ready for a real kiss. She could be scared, or maybe she wants to take things slow.
Reply:Seems she might not be that intersted in you if she doesn't want to kiss by the 3rd date although it may be some Russian custom or perhaps she has a different set of values then you or I where she comes from. I would ask her out again, have a fun date, and try again. If she gives the cheek again I'd ask her why. Communication is always the best answer in relationships.
Reply:you should wait and give her space call her in 2-3 days and if she wants to go out again ...then at the end of the night try again if she still gives you the cheek she is 1, not interstest in a relationship/ friends only deal, 2. she is proper and is waiting hell she is from russia who knows how they are raise ... it maybe a 5-6 date rule that she goes by... or 3... she does like you but is insecure and thinks she can kiss...then talk to her...
and finaly... i am 27 and available for kissing anytime :)
Reply:get in her pants
Reply:what u need to do is let her make your next move. She may think things are moving to quick. Get to know her more and let life take its course.
Reply:I say you need to give her some space, because obviously she hasn't gotten over her other boyfriends.
My FIRST date with her!! help!!?
hello all !! ok, well i am going on both my first date ever, and my first date with a girl that i asked out from school (im 16. dont laugh). ok, well i missed her birthday party, so im planning on giving her her present when we go out. so here are my questions
1. ok, well any good tips on how i should give it to her. and how i should act??
2. this being my first date, and might i mention she is SOOOO PERFECT, i dont want to mess it up. i need some dating tips, just about how i should act, how much contact would be acceptable if i WANT TO RESPECT HER.?
thank you all.
My FIRST date with her!! help!!?
Always scary, and I really don't think there is a 'right' answer.
First thing you need to do is relax a bit. Be casual and don't think so much. Just do what comes naturally. For your first date I recommend little to no contact. It's too much pressure otherwise, trying to find the perfect time to hold her hand. Maybe sit or stand a little closer than you normally would. Theres always the next date to worry about that.
1. ok, well any good tips on how i should give it to her. and how i should act??
2. this being my first date, and might i mention she is SOOOO PERFECT, i dont want to mess it up. i need some dating tips, just about how i should act, how much contact would be acceptable if i WANT TO RESPECT HER.?
thank you all.
My FIRST date with her!! help!!?
Always scary, and I really don't think there is a 'right' answer.
First thing you need to do is relax a bit. Be casual and don't think so much. Just do what comes naturally. For your first date I recommend little to no contact. It's too much pressure otherwise, trying to find the perfect time to hold her hand. Maybe sit or stand a little closer than you normally would. Theres always the next date to worry about that.
Can you date people of other races?
Just so you know, I'm asain with some native american ansectory.
My parents will definately not allow me to date blacks, whites and abrogianls beacuse they dont want the grandkids to be too fair or dark skinned.I also definately can't date arabs or whites as their culture is so different from ours
My parents are more okay with hispanics and pacific islanders but you can't say that if i bring a girl of these races home my parents would be 100% happy but about 70% happy i'd say.
Native american and inuits would be completely okay with my parents. And my parents will be overjoyed if the girl is Asian.
I think my parents woudl allow mixed race ppl as long as they are not part arab, white , balck or abrgoianl.
So are you allowed to date ppl other of different races? Why?
Do you think that my parents or people who oppose interacial dating are racist?
Just so you know i am okay with these rules as im only 14 and strongly think i may be assexual.
Can you date people of other races?
i think u can date anybody u wanted but not now cuz ur still young, so they control u..but when u get older u decide things by urself! i would know cuz im asian too!im a little bit in ur age, nd my parents r the same but i know they arent racist they just want things to be the best for me nd i know all my relatives will freak out if i hav a boyfriend that aint asian!! lol! so maybe u should day whoever ur parents wanted u to date but when u get older i bet ur parents wouldnt control u any longer!
Reply:My parents aren't exactly thrilled about other races other than Asian and Caucasian (I am Asian). But I think if they get to know the person, they might like them a little more. But you see, media has created stereotypes of many races and from this, my parents have got the wrong idea of other races. I don't think that people who oppose these dating rules as racist but more like prejudice. They have a disliking but unless they act with this disliking, they are more likely prejudice. But everyone makes their own judgment and it doesn't matter what others think.
Reply:your parents are racists!!!
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My parents will definately not allow me to date blacks, whites and abrogianls beacuse they dont want the grandkids to be too fair or dark skinned.I also definately can't date arabs or whites as their culture is so different from ours
My parents are more okay with hispanics and pacific islanders but you can't say that if i bring a girl of these races home my parents would be 100% happy but about 70% happy i'd say.
Native american and inuits would be completely okay with my parents. And my parents will be overjoyed if the girl is Asian.
I think my parents woudl allow mixed race ppl as long as they are not part arab, white , balck or abrgoianl.
So are you allowed to date ppl other of different races? Why?
Do you think that my parents or people who oppose interacial dating are racist?
Just so you know i am okay with these rules as im only 14 and strongly think i may be assexual.
Can you date people of other races?
i think u can date anybody u wanted but not now cuz ur still young, so they control u..but when u get older u decide things by urself! i would know cuz im asian too!im a little bit in ur age, nd my parents r the same but i know they arent racist they just want things to be the best for me nd i know all my relatives will freak out if i hav a boyfriend that aint asian!! lol! so maybe u should day whoever ur parents wanted u to date but when u get older i bet ur parents wouldnt control u any longer!
Reply:My parents aren't exactly thrilled about other races other than Asian and Caucasian (I am Asian). But I think if they get to know the person, they might like them a little more. But you see, media has created stereotypes of many races and from this, my parents have got the wrong idea of other races. I don't think that people who oppose these dating rules as racist but more like prejudice. They have a disliking but unless they act with this disliking, they are more likely prejudice. But everyone makes their own judgment and it doesn't matter what others think.
Reply:your parents are racists!!!
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Date movies vs violent movies?
Society says that date movies are supposed to be nice and that violent films are wrong. But ironically for me, date movies exert more pain and hurt. I am at the moment I am a single, depressed guy who is missing something big in my life. Never had a proper girlfriend, and no girl was ever attracted to me. I find these films unbearable. The dating world is so unfair that I would now rather get shot or stabbed than get rejected by a girl. If the girl got shot to pieces or blown up, there would be one less girl to worry about. I keep girls at arms length, and expect less nowadays. It spares me the disappointment.
Date movies vs violent movies?
Don't say that about yourself! Don't ever doubt your capability of having someone in your life. If you keep going this way, people will start thinking that you aren't capable of loving and that your heart has turned cold.
You could even be turning off your future wife if you keeping heading in this direction! STAY POSITIVE!
Keep hoping for the best, trust me, I've had bumps on my path as well. And so far, I'm not exactly having the best of luck with relationships. But you have to keep going.
There is someone for you out there. You just have to keep hoping and being positive.
Date movies vs violent movies?
Don't say that about yourself! Don't ever doubt your capability of having someone in your life. If you keep going this way, people will start thinking that you aren't capable of loving and that your heart has turned cold.
You could even be turning off your future wife if you keeping heading in this direction! STAY POSITIVE!
Keep hoping for the best, trust me, I've had bumps on my path as well. And so far, I'm not exactly having the best of luck with relationships. But you have to keep going.
There is someone for you out there. You just have to keep hoping and being positive.
Should i date my guy best freind?
well you see there is this guy who i thought was a big loser but then he began to turn my way of thinking around. he protects me frombeing hurt and he calls me all the time. He would basicly do anything for me.For a few months hehas been askingme out and i have been playing hard to get in the back of my mind without realising it myself by dating his freinds. i really realized 2weeks ago that im falling for him. it would kinda ruin my rep if i dated him but i want to try a confidential relationshipcause i just jump right intorelationships usually. he is really a sweet guy and everyone thinks we are flirting(and we are) a problem is my mom doesnt likethat i think of dating him cause he is not ofour faith.I know it shouldnt matter but it does to my parents and they wont change their minds.WHATSHOULD I DO!and the faith thing really is a problem like i cant just say "screw it" im really not sure of my feelings for him and want to wait till summer to date. what if i dont like him at summer?
Should i date my guy best freind?
Since your not sure, then you should wait and see how you feel, plus your parents wont accept it. Unless you are of age then dont consider it.
To many obstacles are in the way. And your not sure, so why try something that wont work.
Hugs, Judy
Should i date my guy best freind?
Since your not sure, then you should wait and see how you feel, plus your parents wont accept it. Unless you are of age then dont consider it.
To many obstacles are in the way. And your not sure, so why try something that wont work.
Hugs, Judy
Date #1: Holy Cow! She's a Catch! Can I keep her?
We just had our first date last night and it felt so... natural and wonderful. I wanted to be with her and keep her with me. I NEVER feel that way about my dates, it usually takes a while. I didn't get all gushy. She left a sweet e-mail last night after the date, so I know it's going well for her too.
I want to tackle this one and keep her - I don't want her to go out with anyone else... this is just too good. How do I do this without scaring her away?
Date #1: Holy Cow! She's a Catch! Can I keep her?
#1 Do not tackle her! For some reason they frown on that.
#2 Breath deep.
#3 Stay relaxed then keep on doing whatever you did last night!
I know the feeling bud, ain't it GREAT?
Reply:Don't rush it. If it's going well for her too then she won't date anyone else. If it was meant to be it will happen
Reply:I don't think you have to do anything but be yourself . Sounds like she feels the same way so I don't think you have anything to worry about. I'm happy for you, that for me was 1 time in my life. Enjoy it as long as it lasts.
Reply:DUDE,You have got what it takes...
Listen, when you get enough answers,SHOW HER ALL OF THIS! Your question, The answers, EVERYTHING!
Then ask her if she likes this ( Answer of mine)
(MY SUGGESTION OF THIS)
SHE WILL KNOW that YOU ARE INTERESTED
(VERY) BUT just ask her if she is interested in the answers?
If She Does (and she will) Because Everyone Is Curious, YOU'LL KNOW- YOU ARE A HIT!
NOW you ask yourself----
HOW DID I GET THIS FAR???
" BY SUGGESTING TO HAVE HER DO.....
WHAT I SAID! EREGO YOU WILL KNOW WHICH ANSWER WAS " THE WINNER! " (hello?)
Reply:Go on a few more dates to make sure that the two of you get along on many levels. Make sure you share the same beliefs because too many people think its love until they find out that their romantic interest isn't at all the person they thought they were. Then, ask her if she would like to make the relationship monogamous. Once she agrees to be exclusive, you can take even more time to see if this will end in a trip to the altar or a return to single life.
Reply:The best thing you can do is to keep her interested in you. Oddly enough, the best way to that is to show an interest in her. take her out again. and again. She'll might feel just as strong a want not to let you go.
I want to tackle this one and keep her - I don't want her to go out with anyone else... this is just too good. How do I do this without scaring her away?
Date #1: Holy Cow! She's a Catch! Can I keep her?
#1 Do not tackle her! For some reason they frown on that.
#2 Breath deep.
#3 Stay relaxed then keep on doing whatever you did last night!
I know the feeling bud, ain't it GREAT?
Reply:Don't rush it. If it's going well for her too then she won't date anyone else. If it was meant to be it will happen
Reply:I don't think you have to do anything but be yourself . Sounds like she feels the same way so I don't think you have anything to worry about. I'm happy for you, that for me was 1 time in my life. Enjoy it as long as it lasts.
Reply:DUDE,You have got what it takes...
Listen, when you get enough answers,SHOW HER ALL OF THIS! Your question, The answers, EVERYTHING!
Then ask her if she likes this ( Answer of mine)
(MY SUGGESTION OF THIS)
SHE WILL KNOW that YOU ARE INTERESTED
(VERY) BUT just ask her if she is interested in the answers?
If She Does (and she will) Because Everyone Is Curious, YOU'LL KNOW- YOU ARE A HIT!
NOW you ask yourself----
HOW DID I GET THIS FAR???
" BY SUGGESTING TO HAVE HER DO.....
WHAT I SAID! EREGO YOU WILL KNOW WHICH ANSWER WAS " THE WINNER! " (hello?)
Reply:Go on a few more dates to make sure that the two of you get along on many levels. Make sure you share the same beliefs because too many people think its love until they find out that their romantic interest isn't at all the person they thought they were. Then, ask her if she would like to make the relationship monogamous. Once she agrees to be exclusive, you can take even more time to see if this will end in a trip to the altar or a return to single life.
Reply:The best thing you can do is to keep her interested in you. Oddly enough, the best way to that is to show an interest in her. take her out again. and again. She'll might feel just as strong a want not to let you go.
What was the worse date you have ever been on?
i am a very very attractive and hot looking white caucasian female,i am married now with a white caucasian male,we have married now for a few years,together we share a 4 year old white caucasian daughter.before i married my husband,i went on many dates,like i said,i am a very beautiful white female,but this 1 date really stood out because i went out with a guy who did not tell me that i am beautiful and attractive.my date took me to meet his loser parents,and neither one of his parents mentioned that i am a very beautiful attractive white female,i was very hurt and offended by this.i am a very attractive and beautiful white female,but not one time did this date tell me that.white males tell me everyday that i am very beautiful and attractive.it was just a terrible date with a total loser.i will divorce my husband if he does not tell me everyday that i am beautiful.i am a very very attractive and pretty white female.
What was the worse date you have ever been on?
umm i will divorce you if you expect me to say youre beautiful all the time. Not all people are interested only in beauty. There is intelligence, kindness, stability. Dont mean to be rude..that you are more than just the external beauty, will grow old and no longer be beautiful.
Some beautiful girls are tired of all the compliments and attention..cause they think guys that do that are shallow, you have a different opinion.
Reply:wow ur very conceded arnt you?
are you like obssesed with urself or something? haha sounds like it.
no ones gonna tell u ur pretty if ur ugly on the inside
Reply:You might be a beautiful person but your stuck on yourself. You need help!
Reply:u love yourself too much.... thats just horrible you love attention way more than i do! i mean i love it wen people call me beautiful but i wont break up with my boyfriend if he doesnt say that every day and the truth is most people shouldnt go with looks.... just dating somebody for their looks is really shallow and sucky i hate people like you no offence because i dont even no you but if somebody came up to my asking advice to my face i'd slap em and say git over yourself woman! just my opinion
Reply:LMAO
Could you actually be more insecure?
The worst date I ever went on ended up with him spiking my drink and sexually assaulting me...
Woah but I have so much sympathy for you and your desperate need to be told your attractive...
If you were that attractive youd know it and not need to hear it.
Reply:LMAO!! this is pretty funny. this is so obviousely a joke question. but i have to say i like the sense of humor
Reply:ehhh... you said taht like 100 times I know you think you are beautiful... but, there is more to life than mirrors ladie!!!!
Reply:Yes, its disgusting that your telling us how beautiful you are, but why repeat so much on the fact that you're white/Caucasian? You didn't give us a pic, but honey you're ugly as hell..........White lady!
Reply:Seem kinda concieded there...
Chill with the beautiful and attracted thing there. I read the whole thing, and there was too much about that, that I don't even remember what I read D:
If you stopped worrying about that, maybe your life would be less stressful.
Not all guys go for the looks. When you get older, you won't look as good, but your personality will most likely stay the same forever.
Reply:OK....
Reply:Going to meet a guy who works as a Radio DJ. We meet accidently by telephone, and had pretty good conversations on the tele. So we decided to meet, sad to say that I found out why he worked off cameras his attitude was poor and he was not that nice on eyes.
Reply:sounding a little insecure to me lol
if u were actually as pretty as u say you are, well you would'nt need validation from everyone
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What was the worse date you have ever been on?
umm i will divorce you if you expect me to say youre beautiful all the time. Not all people are interested only in beauty. There is intelligence, kindness, stability. Dont mean to be rude..that you are more than just the external beauty, will grow old and no longer be beautiful.
Some beautiful girls are tired of all the compliments and attention..cause they think guys that do that are shallow, you have a different opinion.
Reply:wow ur very conceded arnt you?
are you like obssesed with urself or something? haha sounds like it.
no ones gonna tell u ur pretty if ur ugly on the inside
Reply:You might be a beautiful person but your stuck on yourself. You need help!
Reply:u love yourself too much.... thats just horrible you love attention way more than i do! i mean i love it wen people call me beautiful but i wont break up with my boyfriend if he doesnt say that every day and the truth is most people shouldnt go with looks.... just dating somebody for their looks is really shallow and sucky i hate people like you no offence because i dont even no you but if somebody came up to my asking advice to my face i'd slap em and say git over yourself woman! just my opinion
Reply:LMAO
Could you actually be more insecure?
The worst date I ever went on ended up with him spiking my drink and sexually assaulting me...
Woah but I have so much sympathy for you and your desperate need to be told your attractive...
If you were that attractive youd know it and not need to hear it.
Reply:LMAO!! this is pretty funny. this is so obviousely a joke question. but i have to say i like the sense of humor
Reply:ehhh... you said taht like 100 times I know you think you are beautiful... but, there is more to life than mirrors ladie!!!!
Reply:Yes, its disgusting that your telling us how beautiful you are, but why repeat so much on the fact that you're white/Caucasian? You didn't give us a pic, but honey you're ugly as hell..........White lady!
Reply:Seem kinda concieded there...
Chill with the beautiful and attracted thing there. I read the whole thing, and there was too much about that, that I don't even remember what I read D:
If you stopped worrying about that, maybe your life would be less stressful.
Not all guys go for the looks. When you get older, you won't look as good, but your personality will most likely stay the same forever.
Reply:OK....
Reply:Going to meet a guy who works as a Radio DJ. We meet accidently by telephone, and had pretty good conversations on the tele. So we decided to meet, sad to say that I found out why he worked off cameras his attitude was poor and he was not that nice on eyes.
Reply:sounding a little insecure to me lol
if u were actually as pretty as u say you are, well you would'nt need validation from everyone
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