Date or not a date?

this guy and i went to the movies and i considered it not a date because it was just a movie we both wanted to see, but he bought my ticket and he offered to buy me popcorn and drink. is he just doing this out of courtesy or did he get the wrong message and think it was a date?

Date or not a date?
I think it was not a date. It depends how he asked you. Even though he paid he could just be a nice guy. If you act like it wasn't maybe he will drop a few clues. Treat it like it wasn't but don't act awkward with him.


Good Luck
Reply:I think that maybe you thought it was a friendly outing but he may have the impression that since he paid it was a date! You should ask him!
Reply:Why don't you ask him
Reply:He thought it was a date. Why would he pay for the ticket AND offer to pay for drink %26amp; popcorn? It could have been courtesy but then again I don't know him.
Reply:date
Reply:date!


if you don't like him.... let him down gently. he sounds really nice.
Reply:def. a date, he sounds nice, why dont you like him?
Reply:it's a guy he is saying it's a date i promise you, i hope you like him
Reply:LOL - if a guy paid for it then it was a date!
Reply:Just go with the flow, if he wants to initiate something then he should talk about it and initiate it, otherwise you are just friends
Reply:you were on a date!
Reply:He SO thinks you were on a date. If you're not that in to him try to break him off gently. He's totally into you but he doesn't have enough confidence in himself to ask you (either that or he knows you're way out of his league and you scare him spitless). He sounds like a nice kid, try not to break his spirit.
Reply:Date. Non-dates are when you pay your own way
Reply:Generally if a guy pays for your ticket its a date.


Unless you know him well and the two of you do this a lot and trade off buying, but it sounds like you don't or you wouldn't ask. If you don't want him to get the wrong impression I'd offer him money for the ticket and tell him what your thinking.


P.S. I usually don't go to a movie with my boyfriend unless its something we both want to see.
Reply:Sounds like a date to me.
Reply:He thought it was a date
Reply:If you didn't actually spell it out, then he probably thinks it's a date.
Reply:its a date
Reply:I smell a date. If I were you, I wouldn't have let him buy anything for me. If he asks you to go somewhere again, and you're not into him, make it clear that it's not a date.
Reply:if you make plans to do something together on a particular date of the month its a date because it was planned. If it was a spur of the moment thing its just 2 friends hanging out together. Or, its whatever you want to call it.
Reply:all depends on how he approched you about it and ur past with him if u really want to know u can email me with more info about it.
Reply:The only way to know for sure is to ask him, he may have just been raised to be a complete gentleman. If that is the case, that is the kind of guy you would appreciate having for a date. If he says he thought you were on a date and you like him cool, if your not interested that way just tell him you really appreciate his friendship and respect him. That is one of the most important things to a man. Good luck and I hope I was of some help to you.

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