My first date EVER!?

2 days ago i asked a question regarding a friend of mine who i thought was straight,maybe he is bisexual?but anyway we talked about how he was around me,and well now i am going on a date with him this friday (12th october 2007), he is picking me up at 7pm.I have had 2 boyfriends(that my friend scared off)but i have never been on a DATE before ever,i am really feeling very sick and nervous and i don't know why praying the time will go slower it is 2:29pm here(well it will be different by the time i finally submit this).and it is not helping much because my older brother(my date's friend) has been teasing me(he is happy though about this).





I don't know,i am not sure,if i am starting to regret this and this is a bad idea.Should i make up an excuse or just see how it goes?what should i do,wear,talk about?


my date is 19 and i am 16,even though i don't believe it matters much.


Should i just call him and pretend to be sick(even though i actually am feeling sick).

My first date EVER!?
It'll be fine, honestly. Just enjoy it and relax. But most of all be yourself and have a good time. You'll never experience a first date again so make the most of it is my advice.


I can see why you may feel awkward with the age gap but I'm sure he's probably felt the same way at some point as well and maybe he's even nervous about the date too. I guess there's no harm in seeing how you get on and enjoying each others company. But of course don't let him be cheeky or take advantage with him being 19 and all.


My conclusion is, just have a blast and enjoy it all. Even if you both don't get on, you'll probably feel proud that you actually went rather than spent time afterwards wondering what could've happened and it's all part of experience.


Take care and I hope you have a wonderful time.
Reply:i don't get it? are you a girl or a boy? if that someone is bisexual, then it's up for you to decide.
Reply:nice i got my first date at 10
Reply:no silly... first of all... stop worrying so much... just have fun.. think of it as "hanging out" with somebody... there's no big "ceremony" that happens on a date... it's simply getting together with the possibility of a relationship that could be more than just friends... but just be casual... be yourself... have fun... get to know him... let him talk... don't get freaked out... this is the only first date you'll ever have... make it a fun, low stress time that you can look back on ... :P ENJOY!!...
Reply:go on the date see how it goes where a long shirt or blue jeans what ever makes you comfortable and a nice top maybe something that shows Little and go and see a movie that way you don't have to talk....or let home start the talking i mean you can ask him questions to get to now him better it will all come to you once you start having a good time with him....if you don't tell him that you don't feel good and find someone else.... calm your nerves..
Reply:Listen - just breathe...





Relax - remember - you like this guy. Just enjoy the date. You already know him, and you are just going to go out to have some fun. It's ok. You are going to be fine. Try to see if the date can be held at a familiar place - I mean, someplace that you are accostomed to. Try to take it light and easy for the first date. If you still feel very uncomfortable - then trust yourself and try to see what is really bothering you.





Don't worry yourself about this soo much, simply relax and try to get to enjoy the night.
Reply:Okay you're 16, act like it. Just go eat the crappy food, watch the lame movie, and go home. All first dates suck! My first date was horrible. He spilled food on me and broke my phone.
Reply:pack a condom
Reply:Just go. You might have fun!
Reply:You must face the challenge anyway why are you so nervous I think if you are nervous you don't love him(I don't know maybe just do not get angry) today you must be excited.... Don't mind your brother Follow your heart if you live him or not? If you love him think about it you must choose 1 BOYFRIEND only or else it might get worser but he problem is the the other boy....... you better date with him if he is the one you really love choose......God will guide you in the right way just keep praying God bless you!!
Reply:I think this happens to everyone from time to time. Just tell yourself its nothing. Its all about your thoughts. I think you most go cause 1 you will wonder what it would have been like or 2 He will ask to go out another night and you will go through this all again. As for clothes wear your favorite outfit. I think jeans and a stylish button up shirt look nice too. Good luck and don't chicken out ;)