Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Screwed up first date with a good friend, What next?

I am a hs senior, and have limited experience (1 other first date)





The story. This girl, and I have been flirting for the last 2-3 months. I was finally able to ask her out last tues





I know that she was interested (we both ditched our boosters dates, plus other events). However, when the date happened, i crashed and burned.


We went to get ice cream, and later see a film (apocalipto, yes i know). The date went well. She was fun, and the discussion was rich, laughter, etc. This was untill the movie. At the movie, I was probably a bit annoying and went for a kiss when i shouldn't have. The kiss was agressive, and bad. The date ended, and when i drove her home, she hugged me and smiled.


For the next few days, she dodged me untill finally i forced the topic. "It was too fast, and she said" and needs time to think.





A week later, it is still awkward, but we have 3 clases together.


I am tempted to force the topic and either get a 2nd try or a release for other opportunties.





Should I?

Screwed up first date with a good friend, What next?
Maybe you could start with, "look I screwed up, I'm really sorry. I miss having you as a friend, can we be friends again?"
Reply:Brush yourself off and try again.





Only proceed if her smiles seem sincere. You can only fix the repercussions of a bad kiss with a really good one.
Reply:You are in a common situation, one you will know again in 10 or 20 years, so calm down. One day you will have the same story around an office. Take it easy for a while. The Holidays offer many creative opportunities to get together socially. Accept her words, she felt uncomfortable. Show her you can lay low but want to be near her.





Lastly, you said you want a 2nd try or "a release." Your story does not suggest you need a release. You are still friends so just go on with your life including dating anyone you want. High school "friendships" tend to end when you leave for college anyway. You will want to be free at college. You may find she starts text messaging you at college, so the opportunity may still be there in a couple years.
Reply:God, my friend, did SHE complain about you kissing her?? NO!!!


YOU thought you crashed and burnt because yuou went right for the kiss... actually she HUGGED YOU when you drove her home.


she didn't enjoy the kiss itself (if you're saying it was bad). but she probably likes the Idea that you want to kiss her. God, you wasted too much time... set up the next date.. make it casual.. (CLOSE TO YOUR PLACE). discuss a few things with her that relate to something you have at your house and offer her to go there and check it out. be casual. (you're giving her a chance. not asking for a chance). she WILL go for it.


during the date... do NOT forget to create sexual tension.


tell her about your friend who met a complete stranger the other night, and things went too steamy that they ended up in bed and now she's his girlfriend (that friend is imaginary of course).


you're a man and you dsire her.. because she's hot... Hello???


SHE KNOWS THAT. don't be sorry about it.. go for it.!!!!
Reply:If it was me, I'd write out the word "sorry" about 5 hundred times on a piece of paper along with a hand drawn picture of a stick man giving a terrible big kiss to an alarmed stick girl and give it to her. If she's a "band geek" type, she'll see the humour in it and likely lighten up a bit.

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Due date help!!!?

When my sister originally went to the doctor they gave her a due date of March 27, 2008, but when she went to have her u/s done last Monday the estimated due date on the u/s after they measured the date was March 16, 2008. Which date is correct????????? Thanks to everyone in advance.

Due date help!!!?
Technically they are both right , there is no exact science as to when a baby is to be born , that is why there is always a two week window along with the due date two before or two after , the sono just dates according to size at this point and she could just be having a big baby and her due date is 3/27/08 or sometime between the ten day diff.
Reply:doc's and ultrasound just give an estimate of which is the due date, but the baby will probably be due somewhere in that area. the baby always come when they are ready
Reply:the due date given by the blood tests (the earliest tests) for the most part is more reliable but they are so close together i would say she will go any time in between. there is never a correct due date. it is always a guess. i hope that your sister get her bundle of joy sooner than later. i am in my last week and the wait is driving me nuts!
Reply:The ultrasound date. Until then it is just a guess based off your menstrual cycle.
Reply:the estimated due date normally goes of the ultra sound but its not for deffenant give or take 2 weeks i hope this helps
Reply:They did the same thing to me-they moved it a week earlier. And in the end, I was overdue from my original due date by 3 days!
Reply:usually the u/s in correct but it might change again mine changed twice already
Reply:The due date she was given after the ultrasound is the more accurate one.. They mesure the gestational sack size, and this gives them a more accurate date. The due date of march 27 was probably according to when her last period was... which isnt as accurate as the u/s.





good luck!
Reply:If the ultrasound is done early in the pregnancy, it's usually the ultrasound that is more accurate than the dates given, because early-on in pregnancy most normal healthy babies/fetuses grow at the same rate. It is later in pregnancy that babies will start to change/develop/gain weight at their own pace. But early-on, the things that doctors look for to guesstimate a date are usually about the same for everyone.





However, with that being said, it's not always true, and doctors can sometimes be wrong or the development of the baby might "throw-off" a guess. For example: Based on MY that I went by, I figured I would be due around May 26th. When I went for my first doctors appointment and got an ultrasound, she changed it to May 19th because she said he looked to be about a week older than what I had figured based on my dates. He ended up being born on the 27th, just a day off from what I had figured but 8 days off from what the doctor figured, so there's really no way to be ABSOLUTELY positive, dates and ultrasounds/blood levels all give just an estimate alone, it's all the items together that usually help be more accurate.
Reply:The reason the due date changed is the size of the baby. Either date could be correct or one in between. It could vary as could the size of the baby. The obstetrician usually wont change the due date officially unless its a two week difference from the original


First date went GREAT... now what?

I was asked to dinner last week and went out last night with this guy to a Mexican resturant. He was a gentleman and we hit it off great, he even asked if he could meet my family and MY family liked him. It was soooo hard not to kiss him, but I knew it was the first date and would leave somewhat of a bad impression. We both said we had fun and the date started at 6pm and didn't end until 10pm and the whole time we were having fun, laughing and learning about each other, now what though, I don't want to have every date be something that has to do with spending money.. Also, this was my first date in 2 years.. So I need help to make sure that I don't run him off.. what should I do?

First date went GREAT... now what?
This is all new %26amp; exciting to you right now. Just relax, things will fall into place. You don't always have to go out %26amp; spend money. Cook at home, pop popcorn %26amp; watch a movie. Go to a park or a zoo. As far as running him off, just don't crowd him, you know, like calling him a lot %26amp; asking a lot of questions that sound like you're being nosy.
Reply:Has he called back and ask for a second date? If so usually a gentlemen will say what would you like to do? If you don't want it to be about money, suggest he come over and watch a movie, when your done you can show him pictures of your family and friends. That is a great way to learn more about each other.
Reply:enjoy the second date
Reply:cool and i am proud that u r an american soldier





as for ur first date, just let it be, u said it was great what else can u ask for


take it slow and let it blossom


i understand the money issue then date should be a dinner and movie


then u can meet up and just relaz in a park or walk around





any thing else feel free to email peterfl999@yahoo.com
Reply:Just relax and things wil happen as they were meant to be.
Reply:Maybe go for a walk in a park or for a picnic. I always think a second date should be a day date!
Reply:go for a picnic! each of u might want to make sth for each other to snack on... and sit by the beach n juz spend the entire day talking, tanning under the sun and playing in the water... u don't haf to spend much money and get to spend the whole day frolicking in the beach :) it will bring u guys a step closer to each other as well......... but all this when he asks u for a second date first !
Reply:go to a park


or a beach


take a stroll with him


long romantic walks
Reply:Invite him over to your place for a casual dinner. Get a bottle of wine and a couple of movies.
Reply:dont worry so much about it, take things slow and things will naturally progress


What date should our wedding be?

My fiance and I were going to have our wedding on 08-08-08, but it is booked at the location we want to have it at. It was such and adorable date, we are so upset! We want another memorable date in 2008, but we're not sure what date it should be. We would really like warm weather, definately not freezing cold. Does anyone have any cute ideas and/or themes? Dates? We want a black and white theme with a splash of a certain unknown color...help!! We need to book asap! Thanks everyone!

What date should our wedding be?
I recommend the months of September or October - always a nice time of the year and nice weather.
Reply:why not do 6/7/08? Kinda cute! And I just checked... it is a Saturday! Perfect!
Reply:6-7-08 or 2-4-08 or 4-16-08 or 8-2-08 or 12-10-08...8-16-08....8-24-08...I don't know what dates these fall on...but a couple might work.
Reply:We're getting married onMay 3rd 08'





Get it....5+3=8





I know lame, but hey it will help my Groom remember our Anniversary. lol! :D
Reply:Keep the date and just find a different location. You are sure to find another really wonderful location.
Reply:use your birthday so your husband will always remember.
Reply:I really believe your wedding date should mean something to you as a couple, like the day you met or the date of your first kiss. Pick your favorite number and add them together and see if you can come up with a date. My husband and I are both born on the 12th of the different months so we got married on the only 12th that fell on a saturday. I wanted to choose something he would remember so I wouldn't miss out on any anniversary gifts. As far as picking a color to go with the balck and white I think you should wait until ou find your venue because it might clash with the color you choose. I think starting with black and white as a base is smart and elegant.
Reply:The date doesn't need to be memorable before you get married. It becomes special afterward. Just choose anything.
Reply:go for a fall date, maybe labor day weekend? that way the colors that are in season will still be warm (red, brown, ornage, yellow) and you can make them as bold as you want. green is a good accent color then too because it doesn't look out of place but it is a ncie contrast with the other warmer colors.
Reply:9/9/8 or 10/10/8





or 8/28/08
Reply:Keep the date and find another location. Or go with


We are getting married on the 6th July 2008.


06/07/08 but we write our dates around the other way, to what you guys do. Looks neat our way tho.
Reply:Why must you change the date just because one location is booked? Is that the only location you've checked? Try others!! Or rent a tent and have it outdoors? Do research...you're a bride-to-be...Google is your friend.
Reply:If you're a number person, go for 06/07/08


What date should our wedding be?

My fiance and I were going to have our wedding on 08-08-08, but it is booked at the location we want to have it at. It was such and adorable date, we are so upset! We want another memorable date in 2008, but we're not sure what date it should be. We would really like warm weather, definately not freezing cold. Does anyone have any cute ideas and/or themes? Dates? We want a black and white theme with a splash of a certain unknown color...help!! We need to book asap! Thanks everyone!

What date should our wedding be?
I recommend the months of September or October - always a nice time of the year and nice weather.
Reply:why not do 6/7/08? Kinda cute! And I just checked... it is a Saturday! Perfect!
Reply:6-7-08 or 2-4-08 or 4-16-08 or 8-2-08 or 12-10-08...8-16-08....8-24-08...I don't know what dates these fall on...but a couple might work.
Reply:We're getting married onMay 3rd 08'





Get it....5+3=8





I know lame, but hey it will help my Groom remember our Anniversary. lol! :D
Reply:Keep the date and just find a different location. You are sure to find another really wonderful location.
Reply:use your birthday so your husband will always remember.
Reply:I really believe your wedding date should mean something to you as a couple, like the day you met or the date of your first kiss. Pick your favorite number and add them together and see if you can come up with a date. My husband and I are both born on the 12th of the different months so we got married on the only 12th that fell on a saturday. I wanted to choose something he would remember so I wouldn't miss out on any anniversary gifts. As far as picking a color to go with the balck and white I think you should wait until ou find your venue because it might clash with the color you choose. I think starting with black and white as a base is smart and elegant.
Reply:The date doesn't need to be memorable before you get married. It becomes special afterward. Just choose anything.
Reply:go for a fall date, maybe labor day weekend? that way the colors that are in season will still be warm (red, brown, ornage, yellow) and you can make them as bold as you want. green is a good accent color then too because it doesn't look out of place but it is a ncie contrast with the other warmer colors.
Reply:9/9/8 or 10/10/8





or 8/28/08
Reply:Keep the date and find another location. Or go with


We are getting married on the 6th July 2008.


06/07/08 but we write our dates around the other way, to what you guys do. Looks neat our way tho.
Reply:Why must you change the date just because one location is booked? Is that the only location you've checked? Try others!! Or rent a tent and have it outdoors? Do research...you're a bride-to-be...Google is your friend.
Reply:If you're a number person, go for 06/07/08

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First Date, need HELP!?

Okay so this weekend is Prom Night and my boyfriend and I aren't going to prom but we are going out on a date with two other friends of ours. Well since it's my first date and I don't know what to do someone help me okay?





The date consist of going to the Outback Steakhouse and then a movie afterwards.





What I'm asking is, "What should I wear?" I definitely want something nice but I don't want too much formal into it, although I would like a nice date. Would jeans do fine? Or do I need to wear a dress?

First Date, need HELP!?
I would wear jeans, one of my fav tops, and nice shoes, probably heals... But really it's what you feel most comfortable in... If you are not comfortable you won't have a good time no matter how good you may look. ;)
Reply:Jeans would do fine, with a nice top. You could always dress it up with really nice shoes (possibly stilettos) and a matching bag and accessories (such as a nice headband or really nice earrings that stand out). That way you will be comfortable and casual, but also dressy as well. Of if you did want to opt for a dress, it doesnt have to be a formal one. Casual summer dresses are always a good option as well.
Reply:yeah jeans are fine, with a nice shirt and some cute shoes. a piece of advice i have for you: make sure you shower and wear perfume and deodorant. bring a piece of gum or breath mint to use after dinner, too. I'm serious, the last thing you want to do is sit in a dark theatre next to someone who smells.


Due date keeps changing, is this normal?

Hi, Ive been given several due dates from 30th Sept to 15th Oct. This seems like such a leap so Im not sure what to beleive! I work it out as the 3rd Oct, as I know my dates and when we started trying.





Also every time my bump is measured they say the baby is on the big side (heading for 9 pounds if I carry full term) and so will probably come a few weeks early!?





Is it anything to worry about that the due date has changed so much? I worry that if the baby doesn't come on time naturally (Shes still breach and Im 35 weeks) I could have to wait until the end of October to be induced but the original due date was end of September!?

Due date keeps changing, is this normal?
A "due date" is just an estimate, anyway. It's perfectly normal to deliver within two weeks either way of the due date, which gives a range of 4 weeks. This is true even with advanced medical techniques.





Most babies who "don't come on time" are the result of faulty due dates, NOT faulty mothers or babies.





I know that the waiting sucks, but you'll give birth when your body and the baby's body are healthy.





(I also wouldn't worry TOO much about being breech - lots of babies turn at the last minute.)
Reply:If your baby is breach, then measurements of his size may not be accurate.





Also, check this out on due dates:


http://www.plus-size-pregnancy.org/figur...





I wouldn't worry that your due date has changed so much. Actually, your due date hasn't changed, but your healthcare provider's *opinion* of your due date has changed. It is annoying, I know. What I would do is, if you are pretty sure of your dates, stick to your calendar dates.





Your body *will* go into labor when the baby is ready to be born.
Reply:my due date is Sept. 7. i had an ultrasound on Monday that estimated my baby's weight at 8 lb 12 oz already. my doctor said they're not allowed to "do anything electively" until 39 weeks. i told her i was afraid to give birth to a 10 lb baby, she understood, and scheduled an induction for Sept. 4. my baby should be about 9 lb 2 oz by then, but i think i can handle that.


hopefully your doctor will do an ultrasound in a few weeks, and if your baby still measures big, maybe your doctor will be as understanding as mine.
Reply:IT IS NORMAL FOR SOME DATES TO CHANGE LIKE MYSELF MY DOCTOR GAVE ME A DUE DATE OF SEP.6 OF 2006 AND THE SPECALIST OF THE ULTRASOUND GAVE ME ONE OF AUGUST THE 31 2006 AND MY SON WAS BORN THAT DAY {31} WEID BUT ITS NORMAL


How do you date people if your mom doesnt really like anyone you date?

I've had so many situations that in my relationships(if they worked out.) My mom had something to say about them. Its either hes too young for you( wen she doesnt have a problem with the age if their older, but their still always is a problem.), I dont like him, hes up to no good and wants 1 thing, or if she doesnt like him she'll make away so who ever im dating cant see me. But what i dont understand is when theres someone i dont like she wants me to date him, but when theres somebody i really want to date she doesnt want me to talk to them. I know shes only looking out for me but i want to experince things on my own sometines. And i feel like if im the one that has to date them why not let me choose who i want. I mean she doesnt have to like or deal with them, just respect and deal with it.

How do you date people if your mom doesnt really like anyone you date?
tell ur mommy, to mind her own business and not to cock block every man u like, and to stick to hers :) Dont take crap from ppl, u have ur own crap to clean up...Mwaaxx


How do Hell Date participants not know they are on Hell Date?

What I mean by this question is what other show do they possibly think they'll be on? As far as I know Hell Date is the only dating show on BET. Blind Date is gone so they can't pretend it's Blind Date. My question then is how do they dupe these people who obviously watch BET??

How do Hell Date participants not know they are on Hell Date?
well, they let them think that they are on a bet dating show, with camera following them. maybe they do it a lot of times and only air the ones where the contestants don't figure it out till the end.
Reply:They taped a whole bunch of them before, and are just now airing them. This will be their only season unless they did a few season's worth of pranks.
Reply:They know, nobody is being duped..!!
Reply:It depends how long ago these were taped... how long has that show been on for now?? But yea, I've thought about the same thing...especially when they use the same people over and over..


Due date???

my best friend found out she was pregnant a little bit after i did. her last period was dec 5 ended, then got another on the 10th that ended on the 14th. that one was very light, not like a reg period. then she got a positive on jan 15 or 16th. she is unsure of her dates because of this extra period, and the doctors are confusing her about her dates because of an ultrasound at supossedly 9 weeks, when she thought she was 10 or 11 weeks. the ulrasound was done feb 29th and they told her she was only 9 weeks at that ultrasound. they told her she was due oct 5th but its not adding up..anyone with some help as far as conceptuion date goes, and why these dates are coming out like this, plz answer...we do not want to use a calendar, becasue we have tried already. we are confused about this extra period, and would like some help figuring this out! thx alot in advance..ten points for the best answer!!

Due date???
it doesn't add up because my lmp was december 25th and i'm due on september 30th. however they are probably calculating her due date by the babies size and not by the dates since there were so many and it's likely that all three weren't technically "periods" also she possibly doesn't ovulate like most women assume they do. she should be getting another ultrasound soon huh? probably within the next 4-6 weeks so they'll probably date the pregnancy again and maybe things will work out but i would just go by what the ultrasound says.
Reply:early u/s are extremely accurate. once you are later in pregnancy is when they very up to 2 weeks. but early on they are usually accurate.
Reply:Ultrsounds are that way. When I first found out that I was pregnant with my daughter in 2005 I was told that my due date would be the beginning of July 2006. At my first appointment I should have been 11 weeks according to when my last period was. They did an ultrasound and I measured at only 8 weeks. So my new due date was the end of July. I ended up having my daughter early due to medical problems with me and she should have been four weeks early according to the ultrasound but she weighed almost 8lbs. My advice is to wait for the second ultrasound and see what it says but don't always trust them.
Reply:my lmp was 13th aug so i should of concived around the 27th aug and due 20th may 08


but my ultrasound said i concieved 4th sept and due 27th may at had scan at 12 weeks, it was the same at the 20 week scan too.





the ultrasound is more accurate than her period xxx
Reply:I would go with the ultrasound reading,they are REALLY accurate. I knew how far along i was by all my ultrasounds and the babies came pretty close to the dates. Good Luck and happy pregnancy! : )
Reply:The best thing to do is wait until the second ultra sound that one will be a bit more accurate
Reply:This link explains dating!





http://www.askdramy.com/dating.html
Reply:The ultrasound will be the most accurate. Pregnancy dating by periods assumes a woman becomes pregnant on day 14 of a normal 28 day cycle. Which doesnt add up for everyone! Shes probably ovulated and therefore become pregnant late in her cycle. I was the 10 days less pregnant(by ultrasound) then I thought I should be (using period dates) with my first. She probably fell pregnant very early in January judging by the ultrasound dating.
Reply:Mine was like that also, ultrasounds can give or take about 2 weeks....there not 1000000% on the actuall due date


3rd date -is this wierd?

Really cute guy I met last thurday.


1st date- went to his bar %26amp; met his uncle! as he was taking care of the place I thought I'd leave and meet him another day- he left his house keys with me so that I met him after he'd finished (2am) %26amp; said 'if you dont meet me i'll be freezing cold and locked out' so I had to return them to him. We ate food after %26amp; that was taht.





2nd date: he left £50 with me as he said 'he'd spend it if he had it on his persons' (which i gave back to him on date 3)





3rd date: he put his trainers %26amp; tracksuits in my car %26amp; left them with me as he was going football %26amp; didnt have a bag%26amp; i really had to go. (im goin 2 return them shortly)


He doesnt smoke weed %26amp; his got very good memory so dnt say its a memory thing.


Should I be wary of this guy coz he keeps leaving his stuf with me? like what is he trying to do? Make sure he sees me again or jus leaving things so another guy (though there isnt1) will notice? confused?

3rd date -is this wierd?
Yes this weird!! Its only ur 3rd date and he's treating you like his holdall! Why would he give u his house keys!? And I dont think it was a good idea to meet him there alone at that time of the morning! He sounds totally weird huny. Maybe it's his way of seeing if he can trust you, like a test but its not on! He should be taking you out for your dates and doing something fun and special not dumping his possessions on you and telling you to look after them.





Ask him what his game is and if his answer is something stupid, dump him!
Reply:Dudette, if he leaves his stuff with you all the time, thats giving him an excuse to see you again - he likes you :)
Reply:I think he's doing it so he has an excuse to see you again.
Reply:wants to stay connected to you- cute but pretty immature. id take take it slow with him.
Reply:He's just making sure he has an excuse - any excuse - to see you again. He sounds a little bit insecure.
Reply:He sounds so insecure that he feels the need to insure that he will see you again. Tell him to keep up w/ his own shitt and that you'll see him if you decide that you want to.
Reply:that is so odd! i have no idea why hes doing that. but you should try keep a distance and be wary of him
Reply:dat dudes messed up n so r u 4 mettin up wit him all da time
Reply:Sounds like an excuse after excuse- just watch out that this doesn't turn into some strange form of controlling behaviour.





Maybe just outright ask him why he keeps leaving stuff with you?
Reply:Yeah he sounds like a fast mover, and he's trying to suck you in, he is weird to me, comes off as a desperate/nice guy.
Reply:yeah he may be leavin his stuff with you so he has an excuse to see you again yeah that would be my best answer is hes using that for an excuse.....what to do about it dont let him i mean you just met the guy an i think thats kinda creepy anyways.......:O
Reply:hes making excuses to see you again


lool


xx
Reply:Yup


Conception date & due date?

Okay, I'm 13 weeks and 5 days..... can someone tell me my conception date and due date.... I do not know my last period date sorry.

Conception date %26amp; due date?
ok this is what i come up with. i hope this is correct. good luck.





Date of your last menstrual period: 2nd of jan 2008





Conception Occurred: Wednesday, January 16, 2008


(about two weeks after last menstrual period)





First Trimester Ends (12 weeks) : Wednesday, March 26, 2008





Second Trimester Ends (27 weeks) : Wednesday, July 9, 2008





Estimated Due Date (40 weeks) : Wednesday October 8th 2008.





Today you are 13 weeks and 5 days pregnant and every wednesday of every week is a new week for you. i hope this is correct and if so, thats your due dates and everything you need to know. good luck and congrats
Reply:Pregnancy worked on 40 weeks so your due date is the date 40 weeks will be full term.


Once you work that out here is a site to calculate backwards to your last period and when you conceived based on a 28 day cycle.





http://healthlink.mcw.edu/article/923526...
Reply:DUE OCT 8TH


Bbaycentre.com


has a pregnancy calander on the left hand side as well as nutriton and some great info as the time goes on you can follow it along..





congrats
Reply:Conception Date: Around January 15th


Due Date: October 8th





congratulations
Reply:conception date would be around jan 8th


due date would be around oct 7th





hope this helps and congrats
Reply:i have a chart of when was first day of last menstruation and due date. ur gonna be 14 wks on tuesday,ur due date will be on...the 6 of oct.





well,its not usually correct,but see the doctor,they know.
Reply:you due date could vary from october 5th to the 10th. Im 11 weeks and 2 days and my due date is october 23rd and was concieved around janurary21st. So just minus about 14 weeks from today.
Reply:ok i used a conception calculator and a calendar, I counted back 14 weeks from this coming Tuesday and this is what I got:





First Day of Last Menstrual Period:January 8, 2008


Probable Date of Ovulation: January 22, 2008


Possible Dates of Conception: January 18 to January 26, 2008


Due Date: October 14, 2008 (40 weeks)





I hope this helps.

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Closing date on a Saturday. When to move?

We are selling our house. The closing date (in contract) is on a Saturday (I know now, bad choice of date). We are hoping to move out on that Saturday instead of a weekday. The title co. (not using an attorney this time) said she will move the closing date to Friday or Monday according to the buyer's preference. She said for us to ask the buyer's agent when we will be allowed to move in, as well. So, is seems like the move-in date and closing day of the week (Friday or Monday) is up to the buyers at this point. Is this true? So, we'll just have to sign the paperwork and move out on that Friday night (if they choose Friday)??

Closing date on a Saturday. When to move?
The house needs to be 100% empty and broom clean a minimum of the day before settlement so that the buyer's agent can do a final walk-through.





Every agent is different, but I personally advise my clients (when they are buyers) to not close until the house is 100% vacated....that means all trash and debris removed, all furniture, all food out of cabinets, refrigerator, etc, and it swept broom clean.





This is also, so that you may do a full visual inspection.





When I was a new agent, I went back to a house with my buyer because I too, wanted to see how the house looked empty...to my horror, the "beautiful" hardwood floors had black pet stains...all of which had been fully concealed with furniture and/or area rugs. The sellers had thrown every single item of trash in the attic and basically left everything that they didn't want in the house.





I called the attorney, who said calmly, "Once the papers are signed, that's it."





I went to my supervising broker (when I used to work for one), and I thought, surely, that there was something in the contract that protected my buyer....and sure enough, there wasn't, in a standard real estate contract.





It never happened again...many agents, like myself, learned the hard way.
Reply:Bottom line is when you hold the closing, and receive the sale proceeds you need to be moved out and ready to hand over the keys. The only exception is if the contract specifies a period to move out after closing.
Reply:NO. WHY don't you have an attorney? Read your contract. Generally the language says on or about such and such date, or other date BY AGREEMENT. So you both have to agree. You should be moved out prior to closing, so you may want a Monday closing so you can move out through the weekend, and then clean up the place.
Reply:Yes as long as the title company handling the closing have the time slot. Normally the buyer gets the keys to the house on closing day which means you can move in then but not before.
Reply:In most cases, yes the buyer determines the closing date.


Friend/date/fwb?

So I hang out with this girl. She is really nerdy and sheltered and has never had a boyfriend. We went on a date( her first date ever) on her 20th birthday. She told me in the car on the way home that she wants to stay single. I asked if she had ever kissed a guy and if she wanted to try it. We kissed (lips, no tongue). After that we didn't see each other for like two weeks. During that time I made out and got to second base for the first time with another girl. In class the other day, the nerdy girl asked me if I was still talking to the other girl. I told her the story about making out with the other girl. She then tells me that we should try that.


I guess what I'm asking is what do you think are her feelings towards me?


I find it weird that she didn't want to date or french kiss when we got back from the first date, and now she's up for making out and fooling around in such a way.

Friend/date/fwb?
shes a little shy like me





she was taken back by your first kiss but by the time the few weeks had passed she was craving that feeling again...trust me that feeling that my first kiss gave me scared the hell out of me...but by the time i realised I liked it it was too late and It was over between us...just dont try to move at warp speed with this one...shes gonna take some time! if need be...let her lead!!
Reply:Looks like initially she didnt know what all happens on dates...after she met u and experienced the kiss n stuff, she realised that she likes it and so does her body....so she is just experimenting everyting with u...its tough to say if she really likes u or not...
Reply:maybe she a little jelous now u hook up with other chic, if u like her try it on, what hav u got 2 lose?

teething

Kissing on first date!?

Well I'm dating my best friend now (knew each other since 3 years old) an we went on our first date. At the end of the date he kissed me and my friends say he was wrong for doing that. They said I should date him longer. I didn't see the problem with it, but is it wrong to kiss on the first date?

Kissing on first date!?
no i dont think so! but it does depend on where he kissed you. if it was a peck on the cheek, that was the sweetest thing! if it was a little more intense, well only YOU can decide if it was appropriate. but who cares when or if it was appropriate...all that matters is your first thought after your kiss! dont listen to your firends. if anything, they are just jealous. think back to when right after he kissed you. where you happy? or were you thinking what your friends were going to say...? if you think it was ok, then its ok. if you realize BY yourself that it wasnt ok, then tell him just to let him no b/c you dont want to keep secrets. although he'll probably say...i just really wanted to because i really like you!aww lol





good luck!
Reply:Not if you've known eachother for that long.
Reply:Well if you've known him ever since you were three then there is really no problem. But if you don't know where his lips been, there's a serious problem.
Reply:It's different for everybody. If you were fine with it, then next time w/ your friends say something like





"Well, I think it was fine." Or something like that. don't let them beat you down!
Reply:Not at all go 4 it lol :)
Reply:i dont think its a bad thing especially when you've known this guy for a long time. dont listne to people. honestly its your choice, your life. and trust me i was worse i was going out with this guy for only an hour %26amp; we just met %26amp; we kissed within 20 minutes. so yeah i dont think its bad.
Reply:it depends on what you think.





in my opinion, if the date is going ok, sure. besides, you hav known him for a long time!





i think it was nice of him.
Reply:Since you guys have known each other that long, it doesn't matter since now you guys are now dating. That's fine since he's known you that long. Hope this helps.


Holly.
Reply:He's your boyfriend not your friends. If there's no problem then I don't see why you should leave him. You seem happy. But really next time don't listen to your friends. I'm telling you from experience.
Reply:no, if you two were really good friends for a long time, it was good timing.
Reply:I don't think that's a problem. That's such a cute story thought. The kiss just shows that he is comfortable around you. The time when it is wrong is when you barely know your date and than you kiss, but you guys already know each other.


Best of luck!!
Reply:No it is fine to kiss on the first date ........Relax
Reply:i would take more time


but he can't help himself


and i think it's ok
Reply:NO! If you guys really like each other than nothing is wrong. My ex boyfriend kissed me the third day we were going out. It was the first time I had seen him out of school. He snuck over to my friends house at like 11 so he could see me. :-) If you guys rlly like each other then there is nothing wrong with kissing on the first date!


2nd Date? How far do you think is appropriate?

Well, I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16. We had our first date Friday. We just hung out at his house and cuddled and watched movies. And he kissed me on the cheek when i was leaving and i kissed him back on the cheek. Was that appropriate for the first date? How far is appropriate on the second date? And what could we do on the second date? Witch will be Tuesday or wednsday and there not school days. Answers are appricated :). Thanks.

2nd Date? How far do you think is appropriate?
hi,


i am also 15, but i have never had the honour of going out with some1. but my mom always told me, a girl's only got one name, if you damage it, i promise you, guys will talk, and soon, they will just want to go out with you to have *fun* and then leave. As for how far to go, just trust your 6th sense, the moment you get uncomfartable, stop. Just please, dont even think of having sex, save it for the one you know you'll spend the rest of your days with.





hope it helps.
Reply:For 15 year old's, kissing is okay, as long as it stays there. For the first and second date kissing on the cheeck is okay. Don't try french kissing, leave it till you are much older. You can held hands but please stuck to holding hands only.


Due date question?

So ive heard that the period due date is always best to go with and that the ultrasound is almost always 2 weeks off. I have multiple due dates which doesnt help me at all. My last period was early october 07. So I feel my baby is due mid july. But My ulrtasound due dates were august 8th, 14th and 17th. I have no idea why my doctor gave me 3 due dates. So I need help because my daughter came 17 days early and I wasnt ready, I dont want to not be ready again!!

Due date question?
http://healthlink.mcw.edu/article/923526...





go with your lmp make sure your are ready by the time you hit 37 weeks cuz you could go anytime
Reply:u have to alaways be prepared thats advice from an 11 year old so dats all i got and no im not pregnant
Reply:In medical school we are taught that the baby has two ages, one dating from the first day of the last menstrual period and one from the date of conception (which is generally two weeks later than the LMP since this is usually when ovulation occurrs.) This would account for due dates being two weeks apart. Ultrasound determines the due date by measuring the skull and the length from the head to the bottom. If the baby is bigger than average, US will say the due date is earlier. If it is smaller, then US will say the due date is later. Hopefully this helps you understand all the different due dates.





Like one of the previous answers said, I would use the date from the LMP since it is more accurate. Good luck!
Reply:i would go by the u/s and next time you see your dr ask which you go by, you could have just ovulated late so your period is not the best to go by. i had my last period in oct. 06 and my due date was july 26,07 by that but by the u/s it was aug. 20, 07. so, i would go by the middle one and make sure you are ready before the first date.
Reply:My lmp date was April 2nd and they changed my due date to April 12th after an early u/s at 6 weeks. I didn't believe the docs b/c my period is always a 28 day cycle and was always reliable to the day!!! But, here it is April 10th and still no baby! The u/s dates can still be off but they are definately more reliable than going off your lmp. The earlier the u/s is, the better the date prediction should be.
Reply:i have the same problem im positive im due june 6 but u/s says june 21...


My gay son wants to date at 15?

my son just turned 15... he thought he was bi... and we discussed it.... now he says he is gay.... regardless.... he wants to date this guy from school.... we have had several conversations concerning him being bi or gay and i have told him that no matter what.... i will always love him and i accept him for who he is... but... at this tender age.. i can't allow him to "date" a guy.... now i find out that he asked a guy to "date" him after i told him not to do this...and they are "dating" .... i have learned this is not the first guy he has asked to "date"... if one guy says no... he immediatly asks another..... he says he doesn't like being single... he likes dating..............so...... need advice...... should he be allowed to date when i really believe he may be confused at this time in his life... and may look back on it and think.... what was i thinking..... i am trying to look out for him now and in the future.....anyone know of any sites that may help me....... thank you....

My gay son wants to date at 15?
A teenage boy ain't no tender thing -- you are his mother, yes?





As long as he is dating other high school boys and they go to public places, I would be fine with it. If it were my son, I ask to meet some of them...casually.





He is rapidly approaching the age (16-17) when you are not going to be able to control him at all if he wants you out of his life...so go slow. Encourage him to talk and to share; start trying to give your opinion only when he ASKS for it; put your foot down only when the situation is really dangerous -- pick your battles very carefully; and concentrate on helping him think like a grown up.
Reply:Well i think that you should go ahead and let him because of the fact that regardless he is gonna do it anyway. you standing in the way may hurt your mother son relationship. if you feel that he may be confused then you probably should just let him find out on his own, because this indeed can just be a phase. but be aware that it might not be and you might have to deal with this for the rest of your life! so be careful, do the right thing....he has to learn on his own.
Reply:it is pretty normal for fifteen year olds of any orientation to date, healthy even. talk to him about where he is going, and be there to support him through his heartbreaks etc. it will be much easier for you to just see that he is starting to grow up and discover who he is. do make sure to talk to him about sex and being safe, hopefully he isn't having sex yet but there's always that possibility and he needs to know how to protect himself as well as his partner.
Reply:Your son was born gay and wants your acceptance. He feels comfortable with dating guys because he feels you accept him and will love him no matter what. Alot guys find out their gay around that time and start to date guys. What you let your 15 year old straight son date a girl and do you want your son to be happy.
Reply:So what? The boy wants a partner. If you look at all the 15 year olds, they all have boyfriends/girlfriends. At 15, you know if you are gay or not. If you still don't accept/believe it, you get the bad mom award! Don't deprive him, let him date.





*Oh, and make sure you have the sex and protection talk too.
Reply:He's actually being a normal healthy kid... If he wanted to date a 50 year old I'd say you have some talking to do... but if he's dating in his own age range let it be... encourage him to bring his dates home so you can meet them... support him... if you don't believe me... he'll still date... it's just that you wont know anything about his life... and that's much worse....AND make sure he's educated about being safe if sex comes into the equation....
Reply:I dont feel there is an issue regarding his sexuality. If hes gay hes gay, no matter if you let him date now or not. Its natural for a kid to want to have a boyfriend or girlfriend, everyone is doing it. If you dont then the youth feel obviously there is something wrong with them.
Reply:just let him date, but let him know that you're there for him. don't be overprotective or overbearing, just look out for him. hes probably suffering with the fact that hes gay. this world isn't all that accepting of that sort of thing. let him date, but watch out for him all the same. hope this helps.
Reply:All 15 years old date or want to date. Your son is no different. If anything I'd be very grateful that he's sharing this with you. In fact, that's fantastic and a testament to what a strong son you raised and what a wonderful mother you've been.
Reply:Yes, he may look back on it and think "what was I thinking?" If you don't let him, instead he may be asking "what if?" Let him experiment and explore his feelings, as long as he doesn't endanger himself or someone else.
Reply:It sounds like he's codependent. I would sit down, and talk to him about his codependency. If he wants to date someone talk to him about safe sex. With teens you can't stop this kind of thing since they're in school 8 hrs. a day.
Reply:Tell him to watch the Chris Crocker video "Codependency" on YouTube.... Codependency is not cute, it is not classy, and it is NOT Chris Crocker... Just have him watch the video... He'll love it!(and so will you!)
Reply:If your answer would be the same if he wanted to date a girl then stick with it --if you would allow him to date a girl at 15 then you are not being fair to him.
Reply:I say if he knows he is gay let him date.
Reply:Just let him do his own thing....nothing bad is going to happen....on your part just be supportive.
Reply:First of all it is so fantastic that you support him! Second regardless of his sexual preference would you let your child date at 15, I mean my parents wouldn't have let me. Lonely or not he needs to understand that he isn't mature enough for a serious relationship. He probably just wants someone around who understands him and has the same interests as he does. On the other hand if you don't explain to him why you think he should wait he will do what he wants behind your back. I'm sure he is very curious and wants the companionship. Good Luck and congratulations on being so open minded.

dentures

First date......ever :/?

ok, so in teh last year i've changed from total geek to really popular. %26amp; i go to a new school %26amp; new places. so, i've been meeting new people, especially guys. many guys ask me out %26amp; there are a few that i like. but i hve neve rbeen on a date b4, while every1 else i know has been. i am really worried and nervous bcuz i know i will go on it soon! the thing is that i need to know what it'll be like %26amp; stuff since iwoulnd't know. %26amp; the first few dates i ever go on would probably be awkward but i tihnk i wil luv dating once i get used to it. u kno? well, i was wondering wat type of guy is the best 4 my first date ever? i like many types of guys ;) lol. should igo with a random guy my age in my neighborhood, my friend's bro, a really popular guy, a dorky guy.please help me!!

First date......ever :/?
Dating is just like hanging out with one of your friends. Just pick someone your into and you two can just go casually to the mall or another spot. keep it a public place, until your comfortable with it all the alone time will feel awkward.





also, even though dating is a really casual thing, dont just go out with everyone your friends with.





Dating in groups helps as well


Release date in illinois?

My boyfriend is scheduled for release on Saturday, I was informed that no one is released on weekends. I have been unable to get the correct date as to weather it will be the Friday before or the Monday that follows. I have tried the prison and they tell me two different dates, I have had my brother in law call and that's when they gave him Saturday date.This is all in the same week mind you so nothing had changed. I waited until after his 30 days in to call.When they called to check out thehouse he will be paroling to they did not give a date. I am lost here, this is for minor disorderly conduct charges and he is doing a 61 day turn around. I need help here, I feel like I am being mislead!

Release date in illinois?
He will be released on Saturday. One day is the same as another in jail or prison. He is released when he has served his time.


My gay son wants to date at 15?

my son just turned 15... he thought he was bi... and we discussed it.... now he says he is gay.... regardless.... he wants to date this guy from school.... we have had several conversations concerning him being bi or gay and i have told him that no matter what.... i will always love him and i accept him for who he is... but... at this tender age.. i can't allow him to "date" a guy.... now i find out that he asked a guy to "date" him after i told him not to do this...and they are "dating" .... i have learned this is not the first guy he has asked to "date"... if one guy says no... he immediatly asks another..... he says he doesn't like being single... he likes dating..............so....i need advice...... should he be allowed to date when i really believe he may be confused at this time in his life... and may look back on it and think.... what was i thinking..... i am trying to look out for him now and in the future.....anyone know of any sites that may help me....... thank you....

My gay son wants to date at 15?
I think you are an awesome parent for being so understanding . It sounds like you son is feeling very lonely and trying to find someone to relate to . I think I would talk to him about going behind your back . But I think I would also let him date [with restrictions] I think it is very important to keep the lines of communication open . Also I would try to find a person in your area [that's respected] that your son can talk to about the things he doesn't feel comfortable about talking with you .
Reply:Minimum age for one-on-one dating imo is 16...gay or not. If he's attracted to males, then he's attracted to males. Typically a teen isn't going to admit that unless it's how he feels.





Not sure of any support sites out there, but do some research. I have gay friends, but they are all adults. The ones I have though, knew even in their teens they were attracted to males, although some did try dating girls just to see if they were correct or incorrect about their feelings...
Reply:Would you let him date if he thought he was straight?





I understand that you're trying to look out for him, but everyone makes mistakes and we all learn by doing. If he decides dating or even men aren't for him any more then that makes him a stronger person.





At least you two have a good enough relationship to talk about stuff like this, so if anything does go wrong there's a strong chance he'll come to you for guidance. Again, at least you know what he's doing.
Reply:Well, if it makes your son happy, explain that you're hesitant but you don't want to make friction in the relationship between you two if it's sensitive, especially over the issue like this.





If he feels he's emotionally mature enough to date than let him, but warn him if he gets hurt or he feels he's made a mistake, its on his part.





Support him but don't force yourself to be supportive if you're not convinced he's sure himself.





If that helps?
Reply:Wow, ive heard of being understanding, and thats cool.


Im not gay, just for the record lol.


But just tell him that he can if he wants to, but you wont be comfortable with it, and if he loves you, he will do the right thing.
Reply:Well, he's no different than a straight kid that was "dating." Give him the same advice that u would give any other of ur children...and if u think he sexually active don't 4get 2 mention about condoms and std's.
Reply:Straight or Gay, kids shouldn't be dating until at least 16.


Prom date mishap?

hey


i made a bad mistake by asking out a girl a while ago for prom date who i really fancy and is a close. i did forget i asked her. again a few months back, after i forgot about the first one, another close freind asked me wether i wanted to go because she couldnt find a date, and i said yes. now i have two prom dates. the prom is only two months away, and i cant go with two dates because that is harsh on them. now i dont know what to do, please help

Prom date mishap?
Decide which one you want to go to. You should probably go with the first girl since you asked her first. If your friend is a real friend, she will be pissed at you, but not hate you for it. Just expalin to her what happened and try to help her find another date for the prom.

dentistry

Fun Date Ideas??? (Give me a good answer and i'll give you 10 points)?

Ok, so my date for prom and I decided that it would be more fun if we just did our own thing and hung out instead of actually going to the prom. We're still telling our parents that we're going to prom, so that we can stay out later, but then we'll also be all dressed up for our date.





So does anyone have any good ideas for a date (besides a simple dinner/movie)? We want this to be really special and fun, so that we can always remember this and look back and not regret missing the prom.





We were thinking of going on a picnic or something, but that's only for the afternoon. We need some ideas for what to do at night (keep in mind that we get to stay out pretty late, so time probably won't be a big issue).





I really like this girl, and from the way things have been going, I think she might like me too :] Please give me some suggestions for where to go/what to do on our date!

Fun Date Ideas??? (Give me a good answer and i'll give you 10 points)?
go to a park %26amp; look at the stars at night. (if its a clear day, of course) you guys can talk alot and get to know each other even better (: %26amp; it would be really romantic.
Reply:If you are going to make it a Whole day thing..





The Picnic Idea is a good start Maybe you can follow that up with or preceede with some horseback riding...





Each of you should have a camera and don't forget a tripod... Both of you should take pictures from your own perspectives and a few together shots...





Since Prom and Graduation are key defining moments you should make a written account of the entire day. Each of you should prepare a look into the future so to speak... Where do you expect to be 10 years from now... You might also include some of your mutual friends... sit and discuss it together and then seal it away for the next 10 years....





The most important thing to do is enjoy yourself... Take in the moment(s) understand that you are 17 and you will never be 17 again soak it all up...





Go out and have dinner... Go for a drive to the beach...


Bring a telescope and stargaze... (some are pre programed with astronomical highlights if you are not into astronomy)


walk on the beach and enjoy each other's company.... Kiss under the moon light and watch the sun Rise.... Then go home and Sleep!
Reply:where are you exactly?? are you somewhere here in cali?? if you are then i would suggest that you go and check out the grifiith obervatory and check out the stars, you could even have a star named after her or checkout palos verdes or signal hill.. or if your not here in cali.. take her somewhere where you could see the entire city (the city looks nice at night because of the lights..) and maybe you could have your own picnic there... then who knows you could tell her that you like her there...
Reply:hmmm... go to the beach! and have a nice, relaxing walk! :)
Reply:Are you going to be in prom clothes? LOL a picnic in prom clothes, that would be an adventure right there!





What about an art studio? Depending on where you live, you could go to a clay studio where you make your own pottery and get to keep it...just make arrangements to pick it up a couple days later. It would be a lasting memory.


An indoor waterpark or amusement park?


Take a change of clothes, seriously...go out for a nice dinner in your dress clothes but then change and let loose...go play soccer or go to a playground and push her on the swings and sit on top of the tunnels and watch the sun set and talk about what you want out of life, or talk about nothing...whatever.


You're only young once, I say enjoy it and just don't overplan the night.
Reply:get a bunch of friends together and find a remote place where you can circle up the cars and blast some music, like a mini after prom party but with people and music you want to tolerate. lol. Have a mini after prom. :-)





Or make a bonfire sit by it and talk about how the night went make smores etc... ?





If all else fails and you go have dinner and a movie, find a drive in movie theater i know at the ones i go to you can stay and watch as many movies as you please and its funner than a regular theater.
Reply:yeh do the picnic, and bring twister, thats so much fun!





then you can do something illegal


llike break into a public pool or something!!!!





or you should go gatecrash some other schools prom...that'll be fun..lol
Reply:i don't know if this would be helpful depending on where you live but i know when i was dating this guy one time we went and hung out on a dock of a lake at night and just watched the water and the moon. maybe bring some picnic type things (dessert..) and just chill and talk, and maybe even dance a little. That was a while ago but i still remember it and still gives me a really peaceful and happy feeling to think about. If you don't have any kind of lake maybe anther romantic spot like that. no sexual things required to have a romantic cute night. otherwise i could suggest something cheesy like lasertag, thats always fun, haha.


Fun Date Ideas??? (Give me a good answer and i'll give you 10 points)?

Ok, so my date for prom and I decided that it would be more fun if we just did our own thing and hung out instead of actually going to the prom. We're still telling our parents that we're going to prom, so that we can stay out later, but then we'll also be all dressed up for our date.





So does anyone have any good ideas for a date (besides a simple dinner/movie)? We want this to be really special and fun, so that we can always remember this and look back and not regret missing the prom.





We were thinking of going on a picnic or something, but that's only for the afternoon. We need some ideas for what to do at night (keep in mind that we get to stay out pretty late, so time probably won't be a big issue).





I really like this girl, and from the way things have been going, I think she might like me too :] Please give me some suggestions for where to go/what to do on our date!

Fun Date Ideas??? (Give me a good answer and i'll give you 10 points)?
go to a park %26amp; look at the stars at night. (if its a clear day, of course) you guys can talk alot and get to know each other even better (: %26amp; it would be really romantic.
Reply:If you are going to make it a Whole day thing..





The Picnic Idea is a good start Maybe you can follow that up with or preceede with some horseback riding...





Each of you should have a camera and don't forget a tripod... Both of you should take pictures from your own perspectives and a few together shots...





Since Prom and Graduation are key defining moments you should make a written account of the entire day. Each of you should prepare a look into the future so to speak... Where do you expect to be 10 years from now... You might also include some of your mutual friends... sit and discuss it together and then seal it away for the next 10 years....





The most important thing to do is enjoy yourself... Take in the moment(s) understand that you are 17 and you will never be 17 again soak it all up...





Go out and have dinner... Go for a drive to the beach...


Bring a telescope and stargaze... (some are pre programed with astronomical highlights if you are not into astronomy)


walk on the beach and enjoy each other's company.... Kiss under the moon light and watch the sun Rise.... Then go home and Sleep!
Reply:where are you exactly?? are you somewhere here in cali?? if you are then i would suggest that you go and check out the grifiith obervatory and check out the stars, you could even have a star named after her or checkout palos verdes or signal hill.. or if your not here in cali.. take her somewhere where you could see the entire city (the city looks nice at night because of the lights..) and maybe you could have your own picnic there... then who knows you could tell her that you like her there...
Reply:hmmm... go to the beach! and have a nice, relaxing walk! :)
Reply:Are you going to be in prom clothes? LOL a picnic in prom clothes, that would be an adventure right there!





What about an art studio? Depending on where you live, you could go to a clay studio where you make your own pottery and get to keep it...just make arrangements to pick it up a couple days later. It would be a lasting memory.


An indoor waterpark or amusement park?


Take a change of clothes, seriously...go out for a nice dinner in your dress clothes but then change and let loose...go play soccer or go to a playground and push her on the swings and sit on top of the tunnels and watch the sun set and talk about what you want out of life, or talk about nothing...whatever.


You're only young once, I say enjoy it and just don't overplan the night.
Reply:get a bunch of friends together and find a remote place where you can circle up the cars and blast some music, like a mini after prom party but with people and music you want to tolerate. lol. Have a mini after prom. :-)





Or make a bonfire sit by it and talk about how the night went make smores etc... ?





If all else fails and you go have dinner and a movie, find a drive in movie theater i know at the ones i go to you can stay and watch as many movies as you please and its funner than a regular theater.
Reply:yeh do the picnic, and bring twister, thats so much fun!





then you can do something illegal


llike break into a public pool or something!!!!





or you should go gatecrash some other schools prom...that'll be fun..lol
Reply:i don't know if this would be helpful depending on where you live but i know when i was dating this guy one time we went and hung out on a dock of a lake at night and just watched the water and the moon. maybe bring some picnic type things (dessert..) and just chill and talk, and maybe even dance a little. That was a while ago but i still remember it and still gives me a really peaceful and happy feeling to think about. If you don't have any kind of lake maybe anther romantic spot like that. no sexual things required to have a romantic cute night. otherwise i could suggest something cheesy like lasertag, thats always fun, haha.


My gay son wants to date at 15?

my son just turned 15... he thought he was bi... and we discussed it.... now he says he is gay.... regardless.... he wants to date this guy from school.... we have had several conversations concerning him being bi or gay and i have told him that no matter what.... i will always love him and i accept him for who he is... but... at this tender age.. i can't allow him to "date" a guy.... now i find out that he asked a guy to "date" him after i told him not to do this...and they are "dating" .... i have learned this is not the first guy he has asked to "date"... if one guy says no... he immediatly asks another..... he says he doesn't like being single... he likes dating..............so....i need advice...... should he be allowed to date when i really believe he may be confused at this time in his life... and may look back on it and think.... what was i thinking..... i am trying to look out for him now and in the future.....anyone know of any sites that may help me....... thank you....

My gay son wants to date at 15?
I think you are an awesome parent for being so understanding . It sounds like you son is feeling very lonely and trying to find someone to relate to . I think I would talk to him about going behind your back . But I think I would also let him date [with restrictions] I think it is very important to keep the lines of communication open . Also I would try to find a person in your area [that's respected] that your son can talk to about the things he doesn't feel comfortable about talking with you .
Reply:Minimum age for one-on-one dating imo is 16...gay or not. If he's attracted to males, then he's attracted to males. Typically a teen isn't going to admit that unless it's how he feels.





Not sure of any support sites out there, but do some research. I have gay friends, but they are all adults. The ones I have though, knew even in their teens they were attracted to males, although some did try dating girls just to see if they were correct or incorrect about their feelings...
Reply:Would you let him date if he thought he was straight?





I understand that you're trying to look out for him, but everyone makes mistakes and we all learn by doing. If he decides dating or even men aren't for him any more then that makes him a stronger person.





At least you two have a good enough relationship to talk about stuff like this, so if anything does go wrong there's a strong chance he'll come to you for guidance. Again, at least you know what he's doing.
Reply:Well, if it makes your son happy, explain that you're hesitant but you don't want to make friction in the relationship between you two if it's sensitive, especially over the issue like this.





If he feels he's emotionally mature enough to date than let him, but warn him if he gets hurt or he feels he's made a mistake, its on his part.





Support him but don't force yourself to be supportive if you're not convinced he's sure himself.





If that helps?
Reply:Wow, ive heard of being understanding, and thats cool.


Im not gay, just for the record lol.


But just tell him that he can if he wants to, but you wont be comfortable with it, and if he loves you, he will do the right thing.
Reply:Well, he's no different than a straight kid that was "dating." Give him the same advice that u would give any other of ur children...and if u think he sexually active don't 4get 2 mention about condoms and std's.
Reply:Straight or Gay, kids shouldn't be dating until at least 16.


1st date help!!?

okaii well this is my first date and well i'm a little nevous cause i just moved to a new school and now i already have a date and well i realy like this guy i'm going out with our date is on friday and he just asked me out today but i have no idea what to do cause its my first date and i need advise cause i have no idea what to wear or any thing so help please me with this any thing would be good but plese dont say "do whatever comes naturaly".


were going to the movies


oh ya and i'm 14

1st date help!!?
Wear something that makes you feel good about yourself, preferably your favorite cute outfit (but not something slutty). Light or no makeup (it'll be dark anyway). Don't monopolize the conversation, but be interactive - talk and listen. Don't focus on worrying, just enjoy yourself and have fun.
Reply:Act as if your going to the movies with a bff DON'T WEAR A DRESS. Most importantly BE YOURSELF
Reply:Dress casually, dont put too much make up on. Guys hate when girls look like their face is painted on. The first date is usually just checking each other out to see if you have a connection. Just be cool. Wacth the movie and dont talk to much doing it. Don't do what makes you uncomfortable. Just hangout like he's your friend or a little more then that :D good luck =)
Reply:wear jeans.. tight jeans.


and wear a nice top but bring a jacket.


if the shirt is too nice, then just wear the jacket over it.


or you could wear his(:
Reply:You can were a mini skirt or some jeans and a really cute shirt the one that is your favorite. Try not to spill anything and have some fruity lip gloss with you at all times.
Reply:I think jeans and a really gorgeous top would do it nicely. Not over-done but most certainly not underdone. Or u could opt for a top and skirt... that way you would definitely not be under dressed. Good luck though, hope u have a great time and u totally wow him!!!!
Reply:well it depends if it is a double date then..


1.there probably wont be a lot of long time spaces of time without talking so I would recommend that you go on a double date with a best friend. Also you can start out with talk about music or movies you like he might lean in for the ''move'' if he does since your 14 i would kiss him. But its your choose





hope it help
Reply:I'd wear something cute but casual; jeans and a nice shirt. Something you feel really comfortable wearing. On your first date, just be natural and have fun! Don't feel too pressured to do anything, like make out or something...whatever comes will come. Just have fun, and things will go from there.
Reply:dont be nervous... really...


wear some clothes which can attract him...(sexy, matured, cutety...)


first when you see him. smile...


if u dont mind give him a big kiss at last.


wish u good luck..
Reply:be outgoing. when u see him , act kinda excited .. like "HEYY! :) aha, whtsup?" nice shirt. or something. be chill about it. stop overthinking it , then u'll just look like a duma$$. smile. just wear like something cute. maybe jeans w/ a cute top? straiten ur hair or seomehthing. some makeup, perfume, etc. and your good. dont be nervouse, be yourself.

veneers

What date did i conceive part 2 lol?

last week i asked


What date did i concieve?


im only interested because we want to celebrate the date our baby was made, i gave birth on 21st november (my actual due date was initially 16th nov then they changed it to 21st going off a 4 week scan) but the last period i remember finished on around 2nd december06?? the doctor said stress may of caused my periods to stop but you can still concieve without a blood loss. any ideas wot date our bundle of joy was made??


But people come back with the answer end of feb time 23rd onwards, but the only time i had sex was 14th-20th feb, i know that coz my hubby was living in turkey then and thats when i waws visiting him, thanx xx

What date did i conceive part 2 lol?
try this link it says the 28th feb





http://www.mymonthlycycles.com/whencalcc...
Reply:Some people are so rude, ignore them! Anyway, I bet you conceived during mid-late February. Congrats. I'm glad your husband is home!
Reply:Feb 28 2007, check this website for reassurance http://www.mymonthlycycles.com/whencalcc... in case I made an error lol and btw i dont think its to personal for yahoo answers I mean if someone has a problem just dont post an answer! But anways sperm can live inside a female for up to a week and sometimes (rarely) longer so there ya go :)
Reply:first off to LadyBug, if the question contained to much information for you liking then just move on, no need to be rude about it.


The question at hand well its hard to say because sperm can live inside you for up to a week. why not just pick a day and stick to it and celebrate that day. You only have a 6 days to choose from, right or you could celebrate the whole week long.
Reply:This question is a little too personal for Yahoo! answers, if you ask me. Too much information...


The actual birth date of Jesus?

Jesus was born - that much we know. However, the celebration of Christmas on Dec 25th is really a Mithraen (pagan) festival. But, do we know the real date, and if so, how reliable is the evidence supporting it?





Initially I heard he was born in 6BC which recently changed to 7BC (due to a numerical error in earlier calculations). OK, fine. But what about date? I've heard a lot of support for a date in June, but also for dates in February and Sept.





What is thet evidence supporting any of these claims? Is there anything solid (how about placing it accurately within a certain month)? How authoratative are the sources who quote these other dates?





I am an atheist already so don't really need to hear "he didn't exist" - I personally think he did (based on other hisorical evidence falling outside the bible; vis Josephus).

The actual birth date of Jesus?
Actually, there is no actual proof or evidence of a historical biblical 'jesus'. 'Jesus Christ' is a LATIN translational term stemming from the Latin vulgate translation circa 4th cenury CE.





If one looks at the Josephus references, in a general list of contempory 'messiahs' the text does include the name 'Jesus Christ' at the end of the list, more as an after thought, why would some, especially an ORTHODOX Jew usually writing in Kione Greek, use a latin term that didn't come in until the 4th century?!?





Secondly, Jospheus was born in 37 CE supposedly just after the 'time of Jesus' and all the 'miricles', why would he refer to him as nothing more than an after thought. The way people are, they talk about weird or 'miracle' stuff for generations. Especially, being born in Jeruselum wouldn't he even hear about 'Jesus' from first hand eye witnesses, or at least of someone that knew an eyewitness?!?





In the OTHER reference by Josephus in Chapter 3, it starts with sedition against Pilate who planned to slaughter all the Jews but changed his mind. Pilate then used sacred money to supply water to Jerusalem, and the Jews protested. Pilate sent spies among the Jews with concealed weapons, and there was a great massacre. THEN IS THE GOLDEN 127 words about "Jesus'. BUT, the next line is 'And about the same time another terrible misfortune confounded the Jews...’





Josephus, an orthodox Jew, would not have thought the Christian story to be 'another terrible misfortune.' It is only a Christian who would have considered this to be a Jewish tragedy.





The third century Church 'Father' Origen, for example, spent half his life and a quarter of a million words contending against the pagan writer Celsus. Origen drew on all sorts of proofs and witnesses to his arguments in his fierce defense of Christianity. He quotes from Josephus extensively. Yet even he makes no reference to this 'golden paragraph' from Josephus, which would have been the ultimate rebuttal.





In fact, Origen actually said that Josephus was "not believing in Jesus as the Christ." Origen did not quote the 'golden paragraph' because this paragraph had not yet been written. It was absent from early copies of the works of Josephus and did not appear in Origen's third century version of Josephus, referenced in his Contra Celsum.





In fact, the Josephus paragraph about Jesus does not appear until the beginning of the fourth century, at the time of Constantine. Bishop Eusebius, that great Church propagandist and self-confessed liar-for-god, was the first person known to have quoted this paragraph of Josephus, about the year 340 AD.





hehehehee just giving ya something to CHEW ON...





...but as to you question of the 'birth of 'JESUS"...





its a christian site, but they do put forth a pretty good analysis of the dates... http://www.biblestudying.net/christmas.h...
Reply:Jesus is merely the personification of the Sun in the age of Pisces, the two fish, the fisher of men. The rebirth of the sun is tomorrow on december 25th, just like it was long before this jebus character showed up on the scene. Also time isn't based on the appearance or dissapearance of some fictional character. The appearance of Jebus was based upon the beginning of the Age Of Pisces which is based upon the Sun, and the Zodiac, or the Mazzaroth as the bible calls it. You can find ancient paintings in churches of Jesus inside the Zodiac, he's the Sun. The light of the world.
Reply:Well, nobody relly knew, debates are still ongoing until now as to when Christ was really born. Christmas day on December 25th is merely a commemoration of His birthday. I've chanced upon a book during my college yeras about a certain ancient man named Mitra who shared similar story about how Christ was born, brought up, his life and even similarities on how they were persecuted and died. Coincidentally (or is it?) they were also 'born' on December 25th. But Mitra came way before Jesus' time... You know what, It shook my faith for a while. But then I have to keep on believing on something and held on to what I was brought up to believe...





Some say Christ is a Taurean... because his character is close to that of a Taurus.
Reply:When reading Luke 2 you can tell Jesus was not born in December. It was the time to pay taxes and back in those times and into the pioneer days taxes were always paid after the harvest. Harvesting begins in September. Jesus was born on or around September 29, 5BC. Another clue is that the Shepard's were in the fields with their flocks. Sheep are not out in the fields in the winter, especially where it snows. It snows in Bethlehem in the month of December
Reply:April 6th
Reply:We know???? Have I missed the proof that he actually existed?
Reply:They don't really know, some religious scholars think early fall. There are so many things that were left out of the bible and so many things altered it is hard to know.
Reply:I could be wrong, but I think it's January 6th.


That's when some European Countries, such as Spain, celebrate Christmas.
Reply:He must have died on April 25, 31AD.





The best guess for His birth is September 11, 3 BC and was earlier conceived on December 13, 4 BC.
Reply:Actually, back in the 4th century scholars realized that Mary became pregnant during the Spring solstice. This would have made the birth happen right around December some time. The date of the 25th was actually just a date set as close as possible to match that discovery and it was just a date where everyone could celebrate His birth in a consistant way.
Reply:Actually there's virtually no evidence for Jesus' birth outside of the New Testament.





It's pretty much accepted as fact that the passage in Josephus' Antiquities that refers to Jesus (the Testimonium Flavianum) was later added by Eusebius.





There were also other people around that chronicled the history of the area for the first 150-200 years of the Common Era and none of them mention a Jesus-like character.
Reply:I asked a Muslim about Jesus and his birth date. (Aside from the prophet vs Son of God debate) he informed me that as long as he can remember (He being in his 70's) that the Islam faith teaches that he was born according to the Gregorian calendar system on Sept. 11th.


That's one reason Osama Bin Laden picked that day to destroy the heart of America. He felt he was primarily destroying the heart of Jesus.
Reply:The christians cannot answer that in unison.
Reply:Look, my friend, is this so hard to understand? There were few birth records, little if any written documents about the birth of commoners. Most people during the time of Jesus could not read or write. Paper was a precious commodity.


But did Jesus live and die as told in the Bible? Of course.


Few people believe that he didn't. Muslims, Jews, Hindus, all believe that Jesus lived and died as told in the Bible. To deny that fact is to deny history.





People may dispute the Bible as to some facts, but above all it is one of the best history books ever written. The actual birth date of Jesus will probably never be known and it is irrelevant anyway.
Reply:If you think He did exist, then why do you ask His real date of birth ?





That is not important. At the time, only important people ( according to the roman point of view ) were registered in the records. For the Romans, Jesus' birth was not important





If He was born in spring, summer, autumn, or winter, that is not important
Reply:I've heard it was April 6th
Reply:I remember hearing somewhere that it was in the summer......June?
Reply:sept 16th .
Reply:I can't say "Jesus was born, that much we know" about any fruitloop that is supposed to rise from the ground and then come back from the sky... but I'm sure the many people named Jesus have different birthdates...there was probably one born with that name as I write this.
Reply:The key is to work from the birth of John. The priesthood was divided into courses. John's father was of the course of Abia( or Abijah)(Luke 1:5). This was the eighth course of the priesthood (see 1Chr 24:10) Each division served one week and all divisions served at the festivals (2 Kings 11, 2Chr 35:4-11). This puts Johns father serving in the Temple in the first week of Sivan (May-June). After his time to serve was up he goes home and his wife conceives. (Luke 1:23) John was born in the spring


around Passover, Nissan 14 (March- April) It was in the sixth month of Elizebeths pregnancy that Mary conceived (Luke 1:26) This would put Jesus being born 6 months after John , in the fall in the month of Tisri ( Sept- Oct) There is reason to believe Jesus was born on the first day of Feast of Tabernacles which would be Tisri 15 . This past year that fell on Sept 27.








You have to keep in mind that it is a different calendar than we use now so Tisri 15 will not fall on the same day on our calendar from year to year, current year is a leap year and contains 13 months. First course of the priesthood would have served in Nissan, in the spring .
Reply:no one knows for sure,however evidence does show it wasn't december.
Reply:It's thought that Jesus was born in the summer, as the "shepards were watching their flocks by night", in otherwards, the sheep were out in the pastures, instead of being in the corral, as they would have been in the winter. Exact month, we may never know.
Reply:jesus was only a fictional character





romans were best in keeping records( they recorded every trials %26amp; events) ....%26amp; there is not a single mention of jesus anywhere ( apart from christian fairy tales known as bible)





your question is like "what exactly is bithdate of spiderman/superman ?"


Re date files, URGENT!!!!!!!!!?

Is there any way to re date a flie. I have a few files that when i right click onto them %26amp; open up properties it shows the date they were created. It's showing up as the wrong date on all of them. Is there anyway to change the date on the files?

Re date files, URGENT!!!!!!!!!?
Try using Propertise Pro , this will let u edit any propertise of any file








havok
Reply:You can use the File Date changer program to change the Created/Modified/Accessed BY dates of files. You can dwnload it here http://www.nirsoft.net/utils/filedatech....


First Date nerves!?

I met a guy at a party a fortnight ago and I have a date with him on Thursday :) We're going to see the Xmas lights being switched on in Oxford Street, London (his idea). I kinda have 2 questions, firstly, what should I wear? As i presume we'll go to a bar/for dinner afterwards but it's gonna be blimming cold outside on Thursday night.





Also, I've not really been on a "date" as such before. I was with my ex from the age of 17 through to 23 and we never really "dated" as such, we went to college together and lived near each other so never really had dates, we more "hung about" together. My second question is therefore, how can i stop being so nervous about it and what should i expect from it?! Should I just chill out, take it as it comes and do what feels natural?

First Date nerves!?
Oh i no how you feel!!Scary isnt it!! But thats a really nice idea of his to take you there dont you think?


Wear jeans maybe with some nice knee high boots over the top with a nice top,not too dressy as its only a thursday nite so no ones genna be to dressed up!!Just wear a warm jacket and take gloves and scarve if its really cold!!You can take them off then when you get to the bar!


Try not to be nervous,i just kept saying to myself 'so what if he doesnt like me its not as though hes the only man on the planet!!'And it true so just try and have fun and dont spend the whole time worrying about what he thinks of you!! So yeah like you said just chill out!! Your be fine!! I hope you have a lovley time x
Reply:he is probably just as nervous!! bless! it is hard but he likes you enough to ask you on a lovely date.. so you are already half way in the door! don't panic and wear what you will feel comfy in! just try to make sure you are looking fab and feeling it too that will be a sure winner! good luckand have fun!x
Reply:hmmm well don't overdress and dont wear anything that you wont feel comfortable with. If its going to be cold out, then wear something warm. I doubt it that any other girl at the bar or wherever you're going would wear something that is anything but warm. Just dress up in something nice but warm at the same time. Maybe some jeans, a nice shirt and a coat. As for you being nervous. He probably feels the same way, if you like this guy then just chill and let him take control of your date....not too much though. Try to relax ....thats all....just breathe in and out...you'll see that its not that bad...when ur there
Reply:watch him he will try to get his nuts in
Reply:you could wear jeans a nice shirt and a coat.the nerves wont go away till you feel comfortable with him.dont expect much.its the first date.and dont start off with sex.just have fun.be yourself
Reply:bring a coat with you. wear something nice. remember, if this turns up to be a long relationship, he'll remember exactly what you wear that night. be yourself, listen and study him. find out what type of his first facade is (everyone will put up a front for the first date). but most important things of all. have fun; enjoy yourself.
Reply:What to wear.......jeans, and a snuggly jumper with a coat that you can take off when you get inside. Nice and simple and does the job.





As for the date - just relax otherwise your gonna get yourself in a right old tizz. Dont think of it as a date just yet - think of it as going out to see the lights going on with someone else who wants to do that.





Sounds like his a bit of a romantic if your going to see the lights go on and if thats his idea then sounds like his original. At least its not a meal - where your compelled to talk - or cinema where you cant talk. I think the best thing to do is just go, relax, and have fun.

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My date manager disappeared (the one that has todays date in the lower rt toolbar) Does yephew or anyone else?

Need a date manager that has the date automatically showing on tool bar when I log on,so I'll know instantly,WHAT TODAYS DATE IS!!!! Mine Disappeared and it was from gain. I heard they went out of buisness.Anybody else have that service?? I sure miss my #'s Thank You Mike

My date manager disappeared (the one that has todays date in the lower rt toolbar) Does yephew or anyone else?
no i never use it.


2nd date question?

I came over and met her. after the evening was over, i decided to leave and not spend the night. we didn't hold hands on the first date and kissed once. what should i do on the second date? what is a no-no on a second date? is there a mandatory checklist for the second date? when can i be myself and be a smart aleck and try to experiment with what i can and cannot do? how long does it take for her to determine to cut me some slack? clueless

2nd date question?
Take her out to dinner first, then to the movies
Reply:OK it depends on how old u r and reading all that i guess ur a teeny... U should know what to do. Nobody can Tell u that. U know the person so u got to know. I think u wanna be with her so u cant act all the time and ask ppl what to do. Do what u think is right. I mean u see her reaction.
Reply:Be yourself!





as far as what happens on the second date, just let things roll and dont do anything that is uncomfortable to you. If it is uncomfortable for her she wll say so.
Reply:There is a part in your question about when you can be yourself....I think you should be yourself from day 1!!!!! If your date does not "dig" who you are, then you should not be together. Simple as that. Otherwise, just be comfortable and enjoy meeting new people. On your second date, do what feels right. Good luck
Reply:anal sex is a no-no on a 2nd date. everything else goes.
Reply:You should be yourself from the get go...don't start off being someone you're not, then spring the "real you" on someone after a date or few...it's deceitful...and besides, if they don't like you for you, why waste each other's time?





As for when to make what physical moves toward a woman...you're doing fine re: first date...a little more physical contact wouldn't be inappropriate on a second date (hug of greeting, maybe a peck on the cheek or a closed-lip smooch, some body touching when walking side by side or hand holding)...you'll likely get signals from her that'll let you know to proceed or if you're going too far (she might turn her head from a kiss, remove her hand from yours, etc if she feels uncomfortable)...notice her reactions, if she's diggin' what you're doing then it's all good...
Reply:On the third date be your smart eleck self and let her see the real you. You may not get a fourth date, but hey, at least you tried.
Reply:you should always be yourself. let her see you for who you are.
Reply:wait to see if she hints you off to more kisses or holding of hands





dont jump the gun - might kill the moment





good luck
Reply:aww. you seem like a real gentleman. well it's a good thing that you didn't spend the night..and that you kissed her. girls dont wanna move to fast,but on the second date just bond with her. goof around,have a good time..see where it takes you. you can usually tell if a girl doesn't like you if she's avoiding eye contact or that shes not trying to start a convo. hold her hand on the second date to...just be calm : ]