Tuesday, July 20, 2010

1st date, help please?

Alright, so there's this guy that I really like and he likes me in return. We talked the other day (our friends are trying to set us up... but they kinda were too much lol) and we both decided that we should go out and take things slow. He said he's gonna ask me on a date, but he's gonna think of something to do first (like where to go or how to ask... something). So, I've never had a date before, and I was wondering if anyone had advice, what would be something cool to do, what's appropriate for a first date... just in general how are 1st dates? lol, alright, thanks!

1st date, help please?
Be yourself. First dates are different for everyone and it's really boring if it's the same. If you want him to hold your hand, walk close to him and brush your shoulders on his and sometimes touch his hand by accident. THese are the little hints for the guy. IF you just want to do it straight off, then i guess you slid your hand down to his hand and LOCK your fingers. Those are sweet. And hug him when he drops you home or something. Be creative. That's all I have to say.
Reply:just be yourself and take things slow!
Reply:Recently i had my first date. I was completely freaked out. But after i went I was glad i did. I had fun and enjoyed it. At first you may be scared but in the end it will alll be okay.
Reply:aw. well like try a moviee. tahts liek always a first date for most couples.
Reply:there is always the movie and dinner but take it slow lets things work in their own pace
Reply:i think you should go some where like swiming if you like your body that is. so you can have fun and also splash and play fight with each other it will break the ice
Reply:i would say a movie would be a great place. just going out to dinner or mini golfing makes you need to think of things to talk about for quite awhile, which can be hard if you are just starting to date a guy. if you go to the movies first, you can talk about the movie/your thoughts on it until you get more comfortable!
Reply:for the most part i think a first date is dinner and a movie..there are some good ones out there..for something alittle different try bowling or pool hall ..a day date can go to the beach or find a carnival in your area..have fun..oh and just be yourself
Reply:on the first date u should probably jus take things cool like gettn 2 kno eachotha, u kno like playn around, things like that


Jus don't worry bout sex on your 1st date like some people do, i mean if u want 2 b intimate if it gets 2 that point then jus protect yourself, Ok?

crowns

I want to date someone but everyone i want to date is with some1.?

i can't find any1 that is single besides my best frien and i can't date him. we tell eachother everything and we both have family probs. if i date him. i would feel wierd the whole time were dating. does anyone no any1 that i can get to know?? no im not ugly but the people that actually want to date me are and their too imature. please someone help me find someone. i am a 13 white female with redesh/blondesh hair,hazel eyes and i live in louisiana. i want to know your age,if your white or not,and you have too at least live in louisiana.

I want to date someone but everyone i want to date is with some1.?
are you hot?
Reply:I can´t date you, I am to old for you 24. But I can give you a good tip.





First, just because you can not find anyone to date, do not thing you are not hot enought. If I was you, I would date your best friend, because when you do, everyone will realize that you are mature enought and will realize that you exist, it might be boring because is your best friend, but do it, you will not regret it
Reply:find someone who is not with someone or be someone who someone wants to date or something .


I lost it , are you someone or somewhat or what ?


ok lets start again anyone who is someone is likely sometimes to somehow ....
Reply:if u have not dated also some one there is certainly someone alone waiting for u for god has made pairs.


Wedding Date?

My fiancé and I have been engaged for awhile, and we set the wedding date 6 months ago. One of my girl friend started to date one of our friends several months ago. They recently got engaged and they set their wedding date the weekend after mine. Is it just me or is it odd to set the wedding date the weekend after mine?

Wedding Date?
`Why is it that you brides make a big deal out of things like this? Just be glad she didn't pick the same date and get her invites out before yours.





Get over it.
Reply:I say cherish the specialness of it all!


Go have a SUPER CO-ED BACHLOR/BACHLORETTE PARTY at an all inclusive resort on a tropical island - BOTH WEDDINGS TOGETHER (your all friends anyway, right?)!!!!!


Why not! This is your wedding.. She isnt getting married the same day. Get over it. Enjoy this time. Don't stress over it!
Reply:it's not strange. the date that they pick may be significant to them. but if you want to attend and won't be back for your honeymoon then just let her know see if they may want to wait another week
Reply:I think it is odd it really irritates me the next thing you'll know she has the same dress, theme, colors, venue and you name it.
Reply:Well they can set it whenever they want, but remind her that you and your hubby to be probably will be on your honeymoon and unable to attend. What's their hurry by the way?
Reply:oh yes
Reply:It's not the same weekend as yours, so what's the problem, she is hardly stealing your lime-light.
Reply:It sounds like they are so in love they want to get married as soon as possible but not steal your thunder. It was a sweet thought but they should have gone a month after you to give you time to have a honeymoon and get home. Maybe you could talk to them about it. If they are reasonable people it shouldn't be a problem.
Reply:It might just be an accident....... Seriously two different people in my wedding party already told me that I was the first to set my date and then each one of them has an additional friend trying to get that date! So they both have two weekends! Luckily, my cousin best friend had to pick the week earlier so she doesn't have a problem.. Sometime it's just due to the fact when the church is available and when the cater is available. The first date I picked was booked so we had to go with the Nov3 instead of the 10th and then what's the chance of two more people wanting the 3rd?? It's just pot luck sometimes. I won't take it personally!
Reply:It's rude - they shouldn't have done that; it's too close to your wedding date. But I've heard this done many times before so it doesn't surprise me. Make sure your wedding is so awesome that nothing they can do will top it.
Reply:Ok, you get a DAY, not a week, lol. You can't call dibs on the week, nor the month. Just the day. No worries at all, she needed a day, she didn't take yours, you're good to go! :)
Reply:it's kind of strange for their date to be so close to yours, but keep in mind that the date they set may be very significant to them. for example, maybe it's the 6 month/anniversary of their first kiss or something corny to you, but meaningful to them.


Last date for filing of annual return and audited accounts co.law india?

following the new procedure of filing e-returns now please let me know whether the last date is extended. Press release in ET dated 26.10.06 says last date for efiling of balance sheet and annual return is fast approaching. What does the dept Ministry of Company Affairs mean by this? Have they extended the last date?

Last date for filing of annual return and audited accounts co.law india?
Go to this site and you will get the new:





http://www.allindiantaxes.com
Reply:Income Tax India


Submission of annual audited accounts for each approved programs under section 35(2AA) ... last day for filing return of income/loss or any other return ...


http://www.incometaxindia.gov.in/FileYou... -








How To Pay Taxes, Indian Income Tax, Deductions at Source, Tax Guide Maintained By India Finance %26amp; Investment ...


The due date of filing the return by an individual having business income and ... Submission of annual audited accounts for each approved programmes under section ...


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Is my due date wrong??

I am currently 36 weeks pregnant (supposedly) and am unsure about my due date. I had abnormal and missed periods so my last menstrual period does not work for determining my due date. At around 10 weeks, I had a dating ultrasound and they determined that I was due on October 16th. The problem is, at 35 weeks, my ultrasound said that the baby was already nearly 7 pounds and all of the measurements said 38 weeks. Also, when they measured from my pubic bone to the top of the uterus, it also measured three centimeters bigger than it should have. I am just curious if anyone who has had a dating ultrasound has had their baby on or around when their supposed due date was. OR, did you deliver earlier?/ later??? Please offer me some insight if you have dealt with this at all... I am getting very anxious and uncomfortable and am just wondering what other women have experienced.

Is my due date wrong??
Shut up ******. Leave 7lb9oz Josh alone for crying out loud. He can camp out at the Marti Inn as long as he wants. Be happy that he isnt here yet so you dont have to have him suckling on your breast 24/7. Naw, just kidding, he'll be here soon.
Reply:Well, my due date was August 30th, and I delivered on August 31st.





It MAY help to visit the website:





www.duedate.com





Good luck!
Reply:The problem with ultrasounds and qualitative HGC titers (blood tests for pregnancy that tell you how far along you are) is that they are ranges. You are supposed to allow for two weeks before and two weeks after the "due date" given to you. Meaning you could either be around 34 weeks, which it sounds like you are not, or around 38 weeks. 38 Weeks sounds about right for you.
Reply:According to my ultra sound and regular measurments I measured two weeks bigger my whole pregnancy, My doctors DID not and WOULD not change my due date. I was unsure of the date of my last period because I was on birth control and had to count back the weeks and assume the date.





My son ended up being overdue. When my water broke it was not clear, meaning he definatly was ready to come out!


Meconium was in my amniotic fluid.





We had alot of complications during the labor, due to this, I wish they would have moved my date, maybe we could have avoided an emergency c section due to his fetal distress.





Here is a little more on the effects on meconium druing birth.





http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meconium_as...





I am not telling you this to alarm you, but to let you know from my experince why I wish my MD would not have been so hard headed!





Talk to your MD about your concerns. Ask what the pos/cons of being overdue are. They can offer you better medical advice than I can.

implants

Is the conception date the actual date you had sex?

Me and my fiance have been trying to have a baby. I took a test last week and it showed that I am indeed pregnant. I used an online due date calculator and it told me the conception date. We didn't have sex on that date and I was wondering if the conception date was something different. I know these things aren't 100% accurate but I've always wondered about that.

Is the conception date the actual date you had sex?
The date of conception is the date of ovulation. Sperm can survive in the female body for up to 3-5 days. So you can have sex on Monday, and conceive on Friday. Or the estimated dates could be wrong.





Most women ovulate about 2 weeks (12-16 days) before their next period, regardless of the length of their cycles. So if your estimate was 14 days counted from the beginning of the cycle, it is almost always wrong! It is an average. It is as accurate as saying you are 5'4" tall because that is the average height for a woman!! You could be perfectly normal and ovulate on day 8 or day 28 of your cycle.
Reply:i just an estimate so you can have an idea of when the baby will be born.





as for conception same thing it's just an estimate.
Reply:the conception date is the date the egg was fertilized. usually within a day or two of sex. depends how quickly the sperm get to the egg, and not get lost along the way.
Reply:The conception date could possibly be a day, maybe 2 later than the day you actually had sex.
Reply:i do believe it is an estamte date maybe actually maybe not
Reply:WELL YOU HAVE TO THINK ABOUT THIS: SPERM CAN LIVE INSIDE YOU FOR UP TO 5 DAYS SO EVEN THOUGH FOR EXAMPLE YOU HAD SEX ON MONDAY BUT DIDN'T GET PREGNANT UNTIL THURSDAY.





ALL YOU CAN DO IS GO BY YOUR LAST PERIOD AND THE TIME IN WHICH YOU OVULATED.





BY THE WAY CONGRATS ON YOUR PREGNANCY!!!





MAYBE WHEN YOU GO TO THE DOCTOR AND HAVE AN ULTRASOUND DONE THEY MIGHT BE ABLE TO ESTIMATE WHEN YOU CONCEIEVED.
Reply:No, it can be a day or two difference...It's about "how long the sperm survive." Seriously.
Reply:First, conception can occur as many as three days after sex. In that case, you will probably have a girl because y chromosome sperm, which make boy babies, die sooner than x chromosome sperm.





However, you have calculated your conception date from the first day of your last period. That may not be the actual day you ovulate. Most people are not that regular.
Reply:yes, it is the day you had sex, but, every woman is slightly different (those things are averages) just like the average woman has a 28 day menstrual cycle, but that doesnt mean that every woman in the universe has a period every 28 days exactly...could be a few days in either direction depending on your cycle.
Reply:sperm lives 5 days inside you so it could be you had sex and with in 5 days your egg was fertalized with a baby
Reply:The conception date is the date that you ovulated, it doesnt have to be the date you had sex because sperm can live for up to 5 days before dieing off. And if you ovulated within that 5 days from the date you had sex, you could have gotten pregnant.


To women : First date kiss - expected?

Do women expect after the first date that the guy will try to kiss them?


If so, do women consider that maybe the guy is not interested if he doesn't try to kiss them after the first date?





I didn't think so but I was listening to the radio and this woman was saying how she went out on a date with this guy and after the first date he didn't try to kiss her (even though they had made plans for a second date) so she thought he was not interested.

To women : First date kiss - expected?
well some people have a first date rule where they wont kiss on the first date but if it was me i wouldent expect to get kissed but if i like the guy i would want it and give him hints that i want him to and if he doesnt and we make plans for another date then i would expect it
Reply:Most women like some sort of attempt to connect in that way. They expect to be pursued. If unsure, it does not have to be an intimate kiss, but okay on the hand or cheek.
Reply:well im a guy and i kissed my gf on first date so i guess its different for each person
Reply:If some guy tried to kiss me after our first date, I would duck or slap him. I would think he is showing great disrespect and telling me he is only interested in a physical relationship . I believe you should wait for physical stuff until you know you love each other and respect one another. :)
Reply:It depends on so many things. I understand why men would get confused. If you feel comfortable and relaxed after your date the go for it ! whats the worst that could happen. If you feel the date didnt go as well as expected and you feel nervous and tense then kiss her on the cheek and give her a sweet smile. If the date went awefull, like spaghetti spill on her shirt awefull, then youll feel a vibe that says " I just want to get home as fast as possible" dont kiss her. She might like you but maybe is in a bad mood, try getting her to go on a second date at the very least. Yuo might be surprised on what she says.
Reply:those women are people who just want to b spoiled or something like that. I don't; i don't even want them to kiss me, but mainly it's the personal opinion on what they think a "serious" relationship is.
Reply:I wouldn't think so.


But if it's obvious she likes you then yes kiss her.


Unless she's super inexperienced..I'd want a kiss :)
Reply:I expect the guy to make the first move for a kiss. I can't help it. I think girls just assume that's how it goes. lol it's because of all the chick-flicks!
Reply:I didn't get a kiss the last time I went out on a first date. I've now been married to that guy for 10 years!
Reply:I'm not a woman, but I feel I have to answer you and let you know something.


Don't go kissing just for the hell of it.


and make sure you go out with people you like or just want to hang out with.


cause if you do end up kissing them. "some"! not all!


might confuse that kiss with you liking them and then..if they do...


your in trouble!


somewhere in that story I just said..if your answer, if you read it over and over and over.


good luck either way...and happy kissing!!!
Reply:I expect a kiss on the cheek atleast lol
Reply:not expected! kiss her on the cheek and smile :).. if that guy had done that to the girl on the radio she prob would have felt better!
Reply:well, for me, it depends on how well the date goes. if it feels like there's a connection, and no kiss, i would be a little concerned, but don't automatically assume that he doesn't like me. if i don't hear from him , and can't get a hold of him, then i assume he doesn't like me. hope that helps. :)
Reply:it depends on how well you know each other.
Reply:depends....





guy i just met- not expected





guy i've known awhile but just started dating- expected
Reply:well not everybody expects a kiss on the first date, some people have rules for kissing on the first date......lol