To women : First date kiss - expected?

Do women expect after the first date that the guy will try to kiss them?


If so, do women consider that maybe the guy is not interested if he doesn't try to kiss them after the first date?





I didn't think so but I was listening to the radio and this woman was saying how she went out on a date with this guy and after the first date he didn't try to kiss her (even though they had made plans for a second date) so she thought he was not interested.

To women : First date kiss - expected?
well some people have a first date rule where they wont kiss on the first date but if it was me i wouldent expect to get kissed but if i like the guy i would want it and give him hints that i want him to and if he doesnt and we make plans for another date then i would expect it
Reply:Most women like some sort of attempt to connect in that way. They expect to be pursued. If unsure, it does not have to be an intimate kiss, but okay on the hand or cheek.
Reply:well im a guy and i kissed my gf on first date so i guess its different for each person
Reply:If some guy tried to kiss me after our first date, I would duck or slap him. I would think he is showing great disrespect and telling me he is only interested in a physical relationship . I believe you should wait for physical stuff until you know you love each other and respect one another. :)
Reply:It depends on so many things. I understand why men would get confused. If you feel comfortable and relaxed after your date the go for it ! whats the worst that could happen. If you feel the date didnt go as well as expected and you feel nervous and tense then kiss her on the cheek and give her a sweet smile. If the date went awefull, like spaghetti spill on her shirt awefull, then youll feel a vibe that says " I just want to get home as fast as possible" dont kiss her. She might like you but maybe is in a bad mood, try getting her to go on a second date at the very least. Yuo might be surprised on what she says.
Reply:those women are people who just want to b spoiled or something like that. I don't; i don't even want them to kiss me, but mainly it's the personal opinion on what they think a "serious" relationship is.
Reply:I wouldn't think so.


But if it's obvious she likes you then yes kiss her.


Unless she's super inexperienced..I'd want a kiss :)
Reply:I expect the guy to make the first move for a kiss. I can't help it. I think girls just assume that's how it goes. lol it's because of all the chick-flicks!
Reply:I didn't get a kiss the last time I went out on a first date. I've now been married to that guy for 10 years!
Reply:I'm not a woman, but I feel I have to answer you and let you know something.


Don't go kissing just for the hell of it.


and make sure you go out with people you like or just want to hang out with.


cause if you do end up kissing them. "some"! not all!


might confuse that kiss with you liking them and then..if they do...


your in trouble!


somewhere in that story I just said..if your answer, if you read it over and over and over.


good luck either way...and happy kissing!!!
Reply:I expect a kiss on the cheek atleast lol
Reply:not expected! kiss her on the cheek and smile :).. if that guy had done that to the girl on the radio she prob would have felt better!
Reply:well, for me, it depends on how well the date goes. if it feels like there's a connection, and no kiss, i would be a little concerned, but don't automatically assume that he doesn't like me. if i don't hear from him , and can't get a hold of him, then i assume he doesn't like me. hope that helps. :)
Reply:it depends on how well you know each other.
Reply:depends....





guy i just met- not expected





guy i've known awhile but just started dating- expected
Reply:well not everybody expects a kiss on the first date, some people have rules for kissing on the first date......lol