Tuesday, July 20, 2010

3rd date -is this wierd?

Really cute guy I met last thurday.


1st date- went to his bar %26amp; met his uncle! as he was taking care of the place I thought I'd leave and meet him another day- he left his house keys with me so that I met him after he'd finished (2am) %26amp; said 'if you dont meet me i'll be freezing cold and locked out' so I had to return them to him. We ate food after %26amp; that was taht.





2nd date: he left £50 with me as he said 'he'd spend it if he had it on his persons' (which i gave back to him on date 3)





3rd date: he put his trainers %26amp; tracksuits in my car %26amp; left them with me as he was going football %26amp; didnt have a bag%26amp; i really had to go. (im goin 2 return them shortly)


He doesnt smoke weed %26amp; his got very good memory so dnt say its a memory thing.


Should I be wary of this guy coz he keeps leaving his stuf with me? like what is he trying to do? Make sure he sees me again or jus leaving things so another guy (though there isnt1) will notice? confused?

3rd date -is this wierd?
Yes this weird!! Its only ur 3rd date and he's treating you like his holdall! Why would he give u his house keys!? And I dont think it was a good idea to meet him there alone at that time of the morning! He sounds totally weird huny. Maybe it's his way of seeing if he can trust you, like a test but its not on! He should be taking you out for your dates and doing something fun and special not dumping his possessions on you and telling you to look after them.





Ask him what his game is and if his answer is something stupid, dump him!
Reply:Dudette, if he leaves his stuff with you all the time, thats giving him an excuse to see you again - he likes you :)
Reply:I think he's doing it so he has an excuse to see you again.
Reply:wants to stay connected to you- cute but pretty immature. id take take it slow with him.
Reply:He's just making sure he has an excuse - any excuse - to see you again. He sounds a little bit insecure.
Reply:He sounds so insecure that he feels the need to insure that he will see you again. Tell him to keep up w/ his own shitt and that you'll see him if you decide that you want to.
Reply:that is so odd! i have no idea why hes doing that. but you should try keep a distance and be wary of him
Reply:dat dudes messed up n so r u 4 mettin up wit him all da time
Reply:Sounds like an excuse after excuse- just watch out that this doesn't turn into some strange form of controlling behaviour.





Maybe just outright ask him why he keeps leaving stuff with you?
Reply:Yeah he sounds like a fast mover, and he's trying to suck you in, he is weird to me, comes off as a desperate/nice guy.
Reply:yeah he may be leavin his stuff with you so he has an excuse to see you again yeah that would be my best answer is hes using that for an excuse.....what to do about it dont let him i mean you just met the guy an i think thats kinda creepy anyways.......:O
Reply:hes making excuses to see you again


lool


xx
Reply:Yup


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