Wednesday, July 14, 2010

First date......group date..advice please!?

I'm going on my first date with my boyfriend...we've been dating for awhile now. It's a group date with our best friends though. and another couple. what should i wear? what happens if i end up sitting by two friends and not him? just any tips? please!!!!





we are going to the movies...either seeing 10,000 B.C. or superhero movie





the most we've done is kiss. but how do i like hint that i wanna cuddle? like the arm on shoulder head leaning on his shoulder

First date......group date..advice please!?
Your question is very confusing.


You say it's your first date but that you have been dating for awhile now.


The protocol on dates is to sit as couples (of course). If there is no room to sit as a group you will split off as couples.


If you want his arm around you just lean towards him and grab his hand and put it around your shoulder. If you're already at the kissing stage it's no big deal. You can put your hands in his lap. Like to keep your fingers warm. I don't mean grab him, I mean just put your hands in his lap for warmth. He will go nuts for this move so don't ask him any questions about the movie afterwards. Only reason a guy would resist the "arm around you" move is that it might be uncomfortable for you or for him for any great length of time. Don't be upset if he put's it on and takes it off and then puts it on again. It has nothing to do with his affection decreasing, it's just a cramp or a need to let the blood flow back into our hands and arm. A guy has to kind of twist a bit and this can cause awful cramps in our waist and back but we love to suffer for love.


Don't hint. Just move in and grab hold of the front of his shirt and pull him in for a kiss. That's all. For the most part guys don't like being told to "give you a kiss"; rather we like to hear that you want to give us a kiss. Say, "I want to give you a kiss you big stud, you!" After the kiss give him a little bite on the ear, neck, chest, shoulder, just a little one. The guy will be trained to kiss you every opportunity he gets. The other way of trying to get a kiss, sounds like your complaining (Like you are not getting enough of something). You giving us a kiss sounds like a good thing. It's the difference between saying, "You don't kiss me enough" and saying, "I want to kiss you all the time" One makes the guy luv you all the more, the other sends him home with lots of self doubt. You guess which is which.

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