Should I confirm a date by texting or calling him?

I went out 3 times with "Popo". I really really him. I am dating other guys but I like Popo the most. Unfortunately Popo is different from the other guys. While the others plan ahead by scheduling a date days before and confirming at least a day before, this guy schedules the date loosely. I also end up asking him a day before or on the day itself if the date is pushing through. I am use to being pursued by other guys. I am frustrated because I like Popo but he is giving me mixed signals. We have a great time during dates. On our way home from the third date, he asked me if he can see me again 3 days from then. I said yes. He said that he will call or text me to confirm. Should I confirm the day before if he doesn't? Am I a doormat for doing this everytime? I am already 35 and Popo is 38. People say that I am very smart but when it comes to relationships, I'm no smarter that a grade 5!

Should I confirm a date by texting or calling him?
It sounds like you know what to do here--you just need to have the strength to carry through with it.





Do not call or text him in any way.





Sit back and make him call you if he wants to take you out. If he calls you at the last minute, don't be afraid to tell him you're busy and don't go out with him that night. Explain that your schedule is tight and he needs to give you more notice if he wants you to free up some time for him.





By playing it loose and cool, he's got you frustrated and obsessing over him to the point where he's got you chasing him. Don't do it. You're experienced enough to be wiser. Make him pursue you.





If he doesn't, he's not into you anyway. It sounds like you have no problem getting dates. Move on
Reply:I totally get you. I asked a similar question yesterday %26amp; the answers I got were mostly, don't approach him about it, let him ask you out. One of the answers was quite good, which was the guy was being flaky. You might wanna check out that question of mine. Here's the link:





http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:Call - relationships only work when the participants talk to each other. Texting is not appropriate.


It sounds like Popo has the mentality of a small boy and needs to be told that the world doesn't revolve around him.