I wasn't able to date until the age of 18 under my parents rules, and, being the nice, respectful daughter I am, I didn't date. Plus, 18 and under, I wasn't interested in having a boyfriend or dating anyway, given that I was too involved in school, my future, and extracurriculars. I had guys as friends and guys I flirt with so that seemed to be enough. Now, after 18, I am free to date! The only problem is that I haven't been able to officially start. Lots of guys seem attracted to me and lots of them ask 4 my #, but I don't give it to them in fear that they may be turned off after finding I am not the sexy vixen they think I am: I don't drink, smoke, curse, and I am still a virgin (and proud of it). To some guys, these qualties are great; to others, these qualties put me in the category of 1st class dork or too "nice girlish," and on the other hand, there are the perverts who find this as a "turn-on." I can't seem to find a middle ground in a guy. Due 2 this, I'm nervous period.
I've never dated or been in a relationship.I'm 20 yrs old %26amp; now I'm scared to date. Any easy ways 2 start?
i am proud of your virginity,let it all hang out just let guys that are interested in you know exactly what you are about.what you said in your question is what guys should know about you ,that would be an excellent statement to see which guys are actually interested in you, stick with the decent ones
Reply:ill go with u Report It
Reply:Don't worry, I didn't have a boyfriend until a year ago, and I am 20 right now. I think it's cool that you have high standards. I also have very high standards. The first thing you need to do is actually give a guy your phone number or nothing is going to happen. but not just to anyguy start with a guy you know maybe a guy friend or something and go on double dates. that way you get to know alot of new people that might be able to set you up and what not.
Reply:well shy girl jazz 1st be proud and grateful of your values your parents instilled into you looks are only a shallow 1st impression dont be scared to date but whats the hurry youve got plenty of time to meet mr right stay true to yourself and heart and someone will give you the butterflies and that connection will happen you sound like a rare sweetheart just let it flow ittll find you and sweep u off your feet
Reply:Get to know guys.. And when you think hes the one, and he'll care about you no matter what, ask him out.. Theres nothing to lose.
Reply:Just take it slow. One step at a time. Make sure it is someone you trust and feel comfortable with and just take it from there. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:I grew up in a similar situation. The way I finally broke the ice was that I got involved in activities in college. (In my case, I participate in plays in the drama department.) After rehearsals and performances, groups of us would go out to eat or go bowling. That helped with narrowing the crowd from the entire school to just a handful of people. Eventually, the crowd narrowed even further to just one particular guy. This took me about a semester, but then, I'm shy, so it may not take nearly as long with you.
Reply:Your parents really screwed you up they just didnt want to have to raise your kid if you had one in high school, dont advertise that you are a virgin curse a little drink a little ... explore those a bit but not too much, then find a guy and get buck wild....
Reply:To many guys you are a dream come true!!!
Most girls, these days, are washed up by age 15!!!
I wish you the best of luck finding someone who truly appreciates you. But watch out for the wolves..................
-Mr. Happy-
:o)
Reply:You are what every guy in the world is looking for........even the bad ones that are now ready to settle down, with a good woman. Now, to answer your question. If you find a guy that you like, give him your number, and if he asks you out, just go for coffee...not a "date" date.......just a few minutes to see if there is any interest there. If you like him, then go on a date. If not, then keep looking. You won't have ANY trouble finding guys, trust me. The only problem you might have, is knowing which to keep, and which not to. Good Luck!
Reply:Don't worry and just have fun. Find someone who is going to be respectful towards you and who will love you for just being you.
Reply:As much as it seems to involve some "tricks of the trade," it really doesn't. You just have to be who you are. If that means you are a nice girl, then be a nice girl. If you are not a vixen, don't pretend to be one. Be whoever you really are, because you would not be happy with a guy who wants something else. There are enough guys, and enough types of guys, out there, and some of them are looking for a girl like you.
By the same token, you don't have to announce your insecurities. You owe people honesty, but that doesn't mean you have to announce to everyone you meet anything that embarrasses you. Wait until there is some closeness to reveal the things that make you insecure. Get to know someone first, get to trust him, and then revealing your "secrets" will bring them closer instead of driving him away. (Or if at that point it does drive him away, consider yourself lucky--he is a loser.)
In particular, you seem to be ashamed to be a virgin. Don't be. Last time I checked, everyone in the world either is currently a virgin or used to be. Besides, if you try to pretend that you have the experience of a porn star, you won't get away with it. Part of loving is acceptance of a person for the way he or she is. There are plenty of men out there--nice guys, good guys, gentle guys--who would be honored to be your first and respectful enough to wait for you to decide the time is right.
Reply:start with a friendhip and then get comfortable that way. you shoudl always have a friendly and comfortable relationship with a partner anyway.
Reply:wut the freak get on with your life ask a guy out its not that hard i have and i am only 11 so do it get on and ask someone if they say no its no they say yes yes so stop bein a scardy cat and do it u never know wuts gonna happen
Reply:u don't have 2 b n a hurry. take your time %26amp; find the right guy when it happens u will know. u sound great 2 me %26amp; others will think so 2
Reply:sweety life is about learning n experiences. so wat if u a virgin dont be scared to give ur number out, u might find mister right.
its also good that u dont smoke and drink, i dont see u as a dork.
now its time to try things out enjoy life.
Reply:listen to me . you are a real catch! don't worry about it.. be a good friend, that is the first thing find a guy you can be a good friend to and that he is also a good friend! if you end up liking him than....well.... maybe he's the one.. oh and DON't give yourself away just to impress him!!!
Reply:You don't need to jump into dating. Just be friends with guys you like and then you can go ahead and date them, once you get to know the guy then you can be comfortable going out with him. Don't fall for guys just being nice in front of you .. get to know them first ..
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