Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Kissing on first date!?

Well I'm dating my best friend now (knew each other since 3 years old) an we went on our first date. At the end of the date he kissed me and my friends say he was wrong for doing that. They said I should date him longer. I didn't see the problem with it, but is it wrong to kiss on the first date?

Kissing on first date!?
no i dont think so! but it does depend on where he kissed you. if it was a peck on the cheek, that was the sweetest thing! if it was a little more intense, well only YOU can decide if it was appropriate. but who cares when or if it was appropriate...all that matters is your first thought after your kiss! dont listen to your firends. if anything, they are just jealous. think back to when right after he kissed you. where you happy? or were you thinking what your friends were going to say...? if you think it was ok, then its ok. if you realize BY yourself that it wasnt ok, then tell him just to let him no b/c you dont want to keep secrets. although he'll probably say...i just really wanted to because i really like you!aww lol





good luck!
Reply:Not if you've known eachother for that long.
Reply:Well if you've known him ever since you were three then there is really no problem. But if you don't know where his lips been, there's a serious problem.
Reply:It's different for everybody. If you were fine with it, then next time w/ your friends say something like





"Well, I think it was fine." Or something like that. don't let them beat you down!
Reply:Not at all go 4 it lol :)
Reply:i dont think its a bad thing especially when you've known this guy for a long time. dont listne to people. honestly its your choice, your life. and trust me i was worse i was going out with this guy for only an hour %26amp; we just met %26amp; we kissed within 20 minutes. so yeah i dont think its bad.
Reply:it depends on what you think.





in my opinion, if the date is going ok, sure. besides, you hav known him for a long time!





i think it was nice of him.
Reply:Since you guys have known each other that long, it doesn't matter since now you guys are now dating. That's fine since he's known you that long. Hope this helps.


Holly.
Reply:He's your boyfriend not your friends. If there's no problem then I don't see why you should leave him. You seem happy. But really next time don't listen to your friends. I'm telling you from experience.
Reply:no, if you two were really good friends for a long time, it was good timing.
Reply:I don't think that's a problem. That's such a cute story thought. The kiss just shows that he is comfortable around you. The time when it is wrong is when you barely know your date and than you kiss, but you guys already know each other.


Best of luck!!
Reply:No it is fine to kiss on the first date ........Relax
Reply:i would take more time


but he can't help himself


and i think it's ok
Reply:NO! If you guys really like each other than nothing is wrong. My ex boyfriend kissed me the third day we were going out. It was the first time I had seen him out of school. He snuck over to my friends house at like 11 so he could see me. :-) If you guys rlly like each other then there is nothing wrong with kissing on the first date!


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