First date help.?

Well, im 15 and this is my first time asking a girl on a date and i need some qustions answerd. On the first date can i like hold her hand or is that a thing to save for another date? Can i give her a good night kiss on the first date or do i have to save that for another time also? Please help and any advice would help. Thanks alot.

First date help.?
its alright if you hold her hand on the first date. but only a kiss goodnight on the cheek until another week of dating.
Reply:Watch the movie, Hitch... it'll give you some great pointers!
Reply:Yes,its O.K. to hold her hand. Before you kiss her see how the date is going if she tries to stall before she leaves she probably wants a kiss( it's o.k. for you to make the first move go with what your heart is telling you). Only make it a peck.If she leans in or gives you another clue she wants more give her more.Don't rush it to a make out.
Reply:okay lemme right out a scheldue/timetable sort of thign for you








1. you see her, wave


2. walk up to her, hug


3. when you ve with her for like 20 mins or you guys are walking around, just grab her hand and hold it and see her reaction, if she holds back then leave it, if she doesnt do anything. let it go


4. say some sweet things about her during the date. (you look pretty tonight)


5. for the good night kiss, you can do it but then again she may be shy so my bet is just another hug to finish it


6. btw this is like this secret move thingy that i found out. If you guys are getting off a bus/train and you guys split up. If shes walking away from you, then keep looking at her until she turns around. Then give her a wave or blow a kiss (thats fun). And if your hte one walking away. turn around and look and give her a wave or blow a kiss
Reply:holdong hands and A kiss are mandatory. if not she will think you just want to be friends.
Reply:Aight dude.





First off: Goodnight kiss...not cool on the first date.


Unless...when you walk her to her door


and ya know she sorta starts fidling with her keys.





thats the kiss me single, but its like will smith


said on the movie hitch...you go 90% of the way


and hopefully she goes the last 10.





As for the hand thing...


Go for it...just walk beside her and ya know


slowly put your hand on hers...if she pulls away


then forget it...sometimes its good to ket her make the first move also.





Also, good luck man
Reply:Yes hold her hand and only peck her on the lips for a goodnight kiss
Reply:OH SHUT UP Val at least he is asking!! AWWW you're so sweet,I could eat you up!!! Don't think of it as a date, that will just scare the heck out of you.Think of it as yous are just hanging out. If yous are having a good time and laughing, things are going good.When you are walking her home,I'm sure she won't mind to hold hands.The kiss on the other hand, you will just know when that moment comes.Just kiss her on the lips no tongue!! Unless she sticks her tongue down your throat,then go for it.Believe me You will know!!! I hope you have lots of fun on your first date.I think you are very sweet for asking.
Reply:Do what come's natural.


Throw your arm around her !!! Make her feel secure !!!


Have to let hr know your interested.


Dude !!! Women put their pants on one leg at a time,like we men do !!!
Reply:Ok, I have tonnnns of experience on dating. For a first date, usually, you know exactly what moves to make based on a girls body langauge and actions. Be sure to be COMPLETELY confident, make her laugh and smile, it will keep her interest, usually, a girl will move closer to you or smile a lot when they are interested. Go with instinct, if she seems like shes interested in you, use a approach to take her hand by noticing her jewelry or if she had just done something to her nails, use some approach and just go for it, if she smiles at you or does that little giggle thing girls do, you;re doing good, if she seems reluctant, she just might not be ready yet. Also, along with the kiss, most people would say wait, but like i said, all your moves need to be based on her actions, body language, and the things she says, make sure to listen to her! it will help. If she seems interested at the end of the night, go for the kiss slowly and once again if she seems reluctant, she just might not to move as fast.
Reply:"Unless a man is prepared to ask a woman to be his wife, what right has he to claim her exclusive attention? Unless she has been asked to marry him , why would any sensible woman promise any man her exclusive attention?"





Elisabeth Elliot
Reply:Maybe hold her hand? but idk about a kiss at the first date man, but good luck.

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