What would you suggest for this date? [females only]?

My former co-worker who set me up with the date I had the other evening e-mailed me after talking to my date concerning tomorrow night's date. We are going to a sit down restaurant and possibly a movie. The friend and date spoke at length concerning the positives and the fact of how nervous I was. The date liked the cardigan outfit I wore and just made an open suggestion during the date. The friend eventually e-mailed me with a couple of outfits to choose from and I am unsure of which way to go:


1- Lt green cardigan


dark green slacks


2-Yellow cardigan


khakis


Since either cardigan is going to be worn on top of an undershirt I figured that I have to button it but am unsure of how far up or would the safe bet be button all of them and unbutton one or two as needed.


Do you think I should take a nap before hand to relax the nerves? I took a nap before the other date and right before I left, I unbuttoned my sweater because of the nerves. My date got me relaxed a bit by buttoning it up.

What would you suggest for this date? [females only]?
Why not wear the light green cardigan with khakis? Sounds very nice.





Take a nap if you feel it will help you. Just try to relax man. Have a drink with her, that should help too.





Good luck man!





Oh, wear some cologne!


I love Calvin Klein's Euphoria. It really gets me going, hehehe.
Reply:Switch it up. Lt green cardigan %26amp; khakis. Take a nap, drink a small glass of wine, whatever it is to make you feel relaxed, don't unbutton your shirt if it makes you nervous. You wanna be you as much as you can be, and that will be hard if you're battling of nervous tension. I would suggest even meditating before you leave for the date. Just close your eyes, and count your breaths in and out. Counting how long it takes to inhale and exhale.
Reply:This is why your friends and former co-workers have to fix you up with people. You seem to lack self confidence and self esteem. Assuming that you are close to an intelligent adult you should be able to dress yourself without any problems and you should know when you look presentable and when you don't. Even if that fails I suspect that you have at least one person in your life that you trust enough to tell you if you are dressed appropriately.





Seriously, trust your judgment and don't make the mistake of putting your love life in the hands of the gas bags, knuckle draggers, and blow hards that lurk in the Answers community.
Reply::) You're stressing out way too much! Being nervous is fine but the date should think that you are confident so it doesn't make sense to have your coworker talk with him about your nervousness or your outfit.





I'd say, throw both ideas out and wear a skirt and a nice blouse. CALM DOWN! This is supposed to be fun!





He'll love you for being you and if he doesn't then his loss girlfriend.





Best of luck, eat some ice cream and take a nap!
Reply:id go with the yellow and khakis.
Reply:.first of all relax and exhale and inhale before you go and button up all and leave out the first and second because u might get hot and take a nice warm shower before you go you might feel more relax and confidence.