First date???

ok ive been on dates before but on my first date with this girl I want to make it romantic , a date she won't forget! Cause I really love her! But see I was talking to my friend if the romantic thing would be cool! They said no romantic stuff is lame! Is being romantic lame? Really?














So what I'm asking is would you like your date to be romantic?


or just a plain guy/girl??

First date???
Not really on a first date. You are just getting to know each other. It is fine to bring her flowers when you first pick her up or meet her. Do something together so that you can talk.





One of the greatest dates I have ever been on was meeting this guy for lunch, then we went to a movie, and then to have hot cocoa and then out to eat for dinner again. We talked a lot and got to know each other.





I would be scared if some guy I really didn't know was really trying to over romance me. I would back off in a heartbeat just because I didn't want to someone else to really like me when I had only intended to be just friends getting to know each other. If he was too romantic, I knew he was trying to get something after wards. Just my experience. Maybe the girl would want some romance. I think flowers would fine to begin with.





Don't rush it, get to know her slowly and become her friend first. Grow together slowly. It is more meaniful that way.
Reply:scary movies. if she gets really scared easily, she'll be clingy.





you can then comfort her and be like "Yeah I'll kick those mosters/murderers/aliens asses for you. "








Yeah sometimes romantic things are pretty cheesy





but if its for someone you love then it wouldn't be a problem.





good luck
Reply:dont do it on the first date...thats creepy, wait a bit.
Reply:No, romantic is NOT lame. Many women appreciate it (Or wish they had it. lol).
Reply:of course it should be romantic!


but then again, i am just a hopeless romantic. haha
Reply:being sweet but not 2 corny is a good first date for a girl
Reply:i think it's a good idea to be romantic on the first date using romantic gestures. You don't want to go over the top but make sure to give her flowers...open the door for her. and especially give her a good night kiss. Just make her feel special and loved and i can guaretee that she won't forget that night.
Reply:romantic stuff is really sweet but you dont want to come on to strong so maybe just a nice dinner or a trip to an amusment park or something fun like that can also be romantic without being to serious
Reply:There is nothing wrong with a little romance on the first date but....you don't want to over do it....you will just end up scaring her off.
Reply:i tink a mixture of both...:).....a little more on the romantic side tho cuz sum girls are totally into that kinda stuff
Reply:romantic so we could get kinky!
Reply:No no! Romantic is good! But don't make it embarassing for her.


but romantic is good =]
Reply:I think dates should be romantic! You can take her to a "fancy" resturant, if you can afford it and go gor a walk in the park, near a pond, the beach or anywhere else where you think she'll like it! I know I would love that. Anyway, good luck,


Lemer0001





P.S. Romantic isn't lame. Do what you feel is right!
Reply:no! it would be cute and really memorable making your date romantic. and she'll love it! go for it!
Reply:yeah i agree with the first answer... and then after that every date a little more romantic!!
Reply:are u kidding?





romantic stuff is like porn for women.
Reply:i have been on alot of dates to and i am a girl and my boyfriend took me on this lovely date it was bye the ocean and a pinic it was the best!! and make sure you make out that will make it the best!!!! and have nice food!!! and don't forget to make out thats what i did and wear something sexy and nice. good luck!!
Reply:girls love romance! don't ask other guy friends about how you should treat a date =P ask other girls you know, or close friends (that are girls).
Reply:the only romance she wants from u on the first date is to b yourself, and pay for everything!!
Reply:Screw romance on the first date...it's kind of nerdy and creepy. The first date should be one thing and one thing only: FUN!!!!


Do something a) creative (something she wouldn't ordinarily get to do or think to do), b) an activity that you'll be able to still TALK and LEARN a bit about each other, and c)something that encourages funny stories that she'll later retell a friend or that'll stick in her brain. Hey, you wanted memorable, right? Nothing's more memorable than a date where you spend the whole night laughing!


Keep in mind something, though. Romance is DEFINITELY not lame! As a woman, I'm telling you it's classy and ladies really, REALLY like to know that they mean enough to a man that he'll go through a little trouble for her...and that makes really good memories that she'll revisit in her mind often and that she'll tell everyone she knows.You're friends who're telling you it's lame are either single or dating bimbos and are in it for the wrong reasons. Real relationships need fun and romance. Otherwise the passion just dies. Passionless relationships lead to breakups, cheating, or total unhappiness.
Reply:Every girl loves romance and if your friends say it is lame it is because they have no idea!! Only problem is if it is a first date you dont want to freak her out by making it too intense. Anybody can pick up a girl and catch a movie and dinner blah blah you can do that with your friends...Why dont you organise a lovely champagne picnic near a lake at sunset or near the beach anywhere at sunset and it is the little things that make the difference that you have gone to the trouble of organising champagne, flowers, strawberries, nice food and maybe a portable radio with some nice music (and insect repellent lol)


She will think you are the sweetest guy because you have gone to all that trouble to impress her keep it light and fun not too intense and you will do well good luck...Go the romantic!!!
Reply:guy/girl for the firt date
Reply:romantic but by being hisself
Reply:No! Its deffs not lame, girls l-o-v-e romantic dates.


Candle lit, roses, everything.
Reply:deffinately romantic


most guys think its lame and thats probably why they say that, but im a girl and i think its sweet when a guy is romantic. Guys who are arrogant, not romantic, and arent very open with a girl are not very dateable and their personality makes them unattractive.
Reply:romantic hell yeah!!!!!!!!!!!


it always works.......


forget about your friends this is you not them...it wont benefit them only you...


be romantic bring roses
Reply:Maybe I'm different from most guys, but I seriously love romance between a girl and me. Don't overdo it and make her feel awkward, but don't seem like you don't care. ANTI-ESTABLISHMENT IS NOT COOL TO GIRLS, DUDES!!!!
Reply:i think that it would be nice for it to be romantic but then again you wouldnt want to put too much pressure since it's the first date and all, she'll be nervous and if you make it somehow romantic then she may or may not feel too comfortable. if you knew her as a friend or something before then make it romantic but if you barely met,,, save it for another time.
Reply:If you come on too strong she is going to run from you.
Reply:i guess it depends on the person


you should know what she likes


i personally like to be romantic


i think for your first date you should do a bit of both like maybe go see a movie(for he plain guy/girl part of the date) then maybe go to dinner or something(for romantic type)


i think that would be the best way and which ever she enjoys more you know what to do on the 2nd date








hope it goes well =]
Reply:Not too normal but not too over the top romantic... find a medium and then go with that. remember to make her laugh. girls love it when guys make them laugh. thats what made my wife love me so much. lol

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