I met this guy online, we started by talking through e-mail and instant message for a few weeks (going from back and forth once in a while, to every day towards the end). Then we started texting and that went on for about a month before we met/went on a date. I know he's a somewhat shy person, he tried to ask for a date through text but I told him I'd only answer him if he called me about it. We did end up going on a dinner date, then going back to his place, watched a movie/TV. Kissing led into more, you know the story, I gave it up on the first date (oops!). Our texts were always very fun before and he'd usually contact me first. Since then it's slowed and become shorter-and though he did text me in the days after-I didn't receive (or really expect) a call. I'm not sure if he's still interested as he has been communicating more tamely than before (maybe cause he can no longer hide behind the computer/phone?) How long do guys wait to ask for 2nd date if they're interested?
I had a first date (actully first meeting) with a nice guy last week and am wondering about a second date.?
I honestly believe that if you like someone, there i sno time limit. I would ask immediately. Games suck and waste precious time
Reply:mayb all he wanted was ur body
why dont u ask him for a second date
Reply:Why would he call you?? Guys only wait 1-4 days before calling....He got what he wanted already - you don't order another meal after you've had dessert and paid the check! I'd say he's 18-26?? Unless you are Pam Anderson, I'd say you better go back online, and find another "date"....
Reply:There's nothing wrong with putting out on the first date...But it sounds like this guy is a player, And u just got played!!! If he wants to see you again, play hard to get this time and see how he reacts....That's the best way to expose a PLAYER. Good luck, and thanks for the advice about the 19 year old:) There's so much more to that story, so let me know if you wanna here about it . I could use your advise.
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