Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Blind date question?

OK if you meet someone on a dating site and, after emailing/chatting etc, you decide to go on a date what do you do if the guy you're supposed to go on a date doesnt call you at all on the day of the date? We hadn't arranged a time or place in advance, I thought we would discuss it today, to see what we both would want to do.





It's half six now and he hasn't called and also hasnt replied to text i sent about three hours ago asking if he was still up for meeting! what do I do? Should I ignore him and delete his number, call him and tell him I think he's very rude. (But would that be too bunny-boiler-ish, considering we havent even met yet?)

Blind date question?
Just delete his number and don't bother communicating with him again. I wouldn't even go to the trouble of telling him that he's rude.





There are any number of reasons why he's suddenly gone to ground. He could be married or in a relationship. He could have suddenly got cold feet. He might be just winding you up.





Bottom line: if he doesn't have the courtesy to contact you, he's not worth any more of your time or money on.
Reply:This guy got scared for some reason.





The fact that he didnt call and agree to a specific time and place is eerie in my book.





Think about it..........if you just met a guy and everything clicked and you set a date and time, etc......wouldn't you be excited and anxious???





Get those fingers warm again and start typing and find someone else.
Reply:he is probably out with his wife dont bother with him
Reply:call him back. if he doesn't answer see if he is online. if not, dump him.
Reply:Whats wrong with w@nkers?





Its a perfectly natural act
Reply:Oops. Looks like you've been stood up. Don't get in touch with him again. There are nice blokes out there, they ain't all like this one. The right one will come along for you but searching for him won't make it happen any sooner. Take your time and Mr right will turn up.


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