HELP I DONT DATE BUT I FEEL LIKE ITS A BAD THING TO NOT DATE?

Help me please! Well i have a problem well i have had a lot of bad experiences with men/guys they always end up hurting me. By leaving or molesting me or just hurting me. Well i dont date and sometimes i feel that its not okay because people make it sees like that im only 15 i dont want to date anyone. My bestfriend who is a guy that is in love with me told me if you keep dropping everyone that has hurt you you will wind up alone. Well is it true? or no? cuz people come and go all the time. Well i dont want to date and i want to make it clear to him that i dont want to date ANYBODY!!!

HELP I DONT DATE BUT I FEEL LIKE ITS A BAD THING TO NOT DATE?
If you are 15, you should not feel like you have to date. There is no problem with not dating anyone until you are through high school or even college.





If you drop everyone who hurts you, you will end up with someone who doesn't hurt you. There is no problem with that. Of course, that does depend on what you mean by 'hurts you'. If you get upset about every little thing, you will have a problem find the right guy. If these guys are really doing bad stuff (cheating on you, lying to you), then you should not think twice about dropping them and having nothing to do with them ever again.
Reply:hun, I have been single for soooo long. being single and not wanting to date anyone doesn't mean you can't have a great time. ie, friends, movies, parties, etc. you have sooooooo much time ahead of you! Just stand firm untill you see somone that you really like.





Stand firm and tell your friend you want to take a break from love and bfs.





if he doesn't understand, tell him that you love him as a friend, and that he should wait untill you feel good about dating again.








good luck, and happy holidays ~isa~
Reply:You might think that if you do not date now, you will end alone...that’s big lye!!!


You have lots of time…You don’t want to get involve now period!


Enjoy your friends, school you don’t need a boy friend to be happy …


Tell your guy friend to quit pushing you! And after some time of being a lone you start to feel something for someone then go for it!


But for now my advice is: just enjoy life as it is!
Reply:Am happy for you!! I know what your going through with guys cuz they always hurt me to point were I don't want to date anyone and just be single and happy. your guy friend is also wrong cuz people do come and go in your life cuz there important to you and trust me your Mr. Right is ganna come for you it may not be now but soon...





(( hugs %26amp; kisses))
Reply:people come %26amp; go all the time.. if your friend is in love with you, he's saying what he said so you will date him.. take your time, there's no sense in rushing things.
Reply:You should try to date, so you can overcome the damage done to you at an early age. It will be uncomfortable at first, so try looking for only the sincerely good guys.





One good way of slowly breaking into the dating scene is going out with a best friend of yours and two guys. 1 on 1 dates can be stressfull, but double dates are usually always fun.





Being 15 years old doesn't mean you have to date. I didn't start dating until I was about 17. You aren't really missing out on anything.
Reply:awwwww well first your friend is wrong there will always be someone there for you no matter what. And if you don't want to date anybody don't worry about it you don't have to i know people that are perfectly happy without a girl/boyfriend. If your friends pressure you then they aren't your friends so get new ones