Date Dilemma?

I currently went on a dating site and have had two replys on guy i have a date for monday we get along ok some issues we but heads on and he kindda expects more on a first date. I said im not that kindda girl.and he saids i was only joking, but no sure if he's serious as he makes out or he is just looking for a fun uncommited time.


The other guy is ok but feel he could be little the same we have got to listing things we have in common yet only he's good mates with some of my cousins.


Whats a good way of telling the first guy im telling you about is for real. just real confusing situatuation for me...

Date Dilemma?
first of all the best thing to do is only go on a date with someone you want to meet.Also i think its important for the first time to meet somewhere very public ask him to wear a certain colour shirt and you can see him from a distance and if you dont like what you see run.....In regards to the first guy maybe its not time for you to meet yet chat some more or talk some more on the phone first that should give a little more info about his personality...good luck