Thursday, August 19, 2010

A first Date Q, Please Answer Guys, and gals.?

I went on a date I thought was really good. We flirted a lot and had great conversation from the minute we saw eachother. We went to a cafe and then saw a movie at his place. He Is Shy!! When I left I gave him a hug (2 mississippi secs) , and then he hugged me really tight (3mississippi secs) and we said goodnight. I had already let go and he was still hugging me kind of deal. He told me to call if i got lost, of course I didn't. Anyways my friend asked how our date was. He said good and didn't expand anymore. The day after our date I msg'ed him on msn saying i had a good time-advice from my friend.... he was going out so we didn't talk long... he didn't even say bi. He hasn't talked to me since that convo on sat and now it is wed. Also whenever we chatted on msn bf the date i initiated the convo's because he is shhy and would tell my friend she never says hi. I did my part by telling him i had a good time. Should I wait to c if he tries to talk to me?

A first Date Q, Please Answer Guys, and gals.?
This guy was just testing the water. Move on. If this guy happens to call sometime and wants to go out that's up to you' If he doesn't don't sweat it. Go to the next one.
Reply:you should ignore him for a couple of days and if he really likes you he would get over the shyness and talk toyou.
Reply:Hit it on
Reply:Nothing ventured, nothing gained....go for it. he may need that little extra nudge from you...Good luck :D
Reply:No guts, no glory, what's to hurt be it?
Reply:You like him alot but the thing is, he is not reciprocating the way you expect or want him to. Stop expecting from him and stop making excuses for him (that he is shy). Move on, girl. But learn something about what happened. That some men may not be comfortable if they feel they are the prey and the women are the predator. That some men do have self-control, believe or not. Let him be. Let him deal with his own "problem". There are alot of fishes in the ocean. And without meaning to be a moralist, I would want to say that we, girls, doesn't have to flirt to get attention. We tend to attract the wrong guys that way. Get to know them first and know them well before even elevating ur relationship to the next level. Girls should attract the cream of the crop before choosing the most Mr Right.
Reply:give him time maybe he just need to get use to you so baby girl give him time





with love





lady T
Reply:Move on
Reply:i think you must wait ,if hes still interested in you ,he will surely contact you ,men dont like demanding or needy girls ,dont show him too much interest but if he contacts you ,be very nice as you are.
Reply:he seems like a nice guy !! move on !! but make sure tat he gets a lil more open with u !! because u dont want to b stuck with a guy hu has no back bone !!


i guess its just tat he is shy cos u hav met only once !


mayb if he got to noe u he may open up !


dont lose out on him !


tc bye
Reply:first time suspense


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