Sunday, August 22, 2010

Had first date, now what?

So I need all the advice I can get! First of all i was set up on a date with this guy by some people we both know and I thought it would be awkward but I heard he was really interested in me and he shows that he is really interested in me! Here is the thing...we had our first date the other night and I was at my cousins birthday party for a little bit before and accidentally got a little buzzed...I am not a drinker at all...it is very rare that you will see me drinking but i feel so horrible that i was like that on our first date. He knows I never drink ..We had a great date and talked a lot and we have a lot in common but i can't help but feel terrible about it and feel like i have ruined my chance with him..I appologized and he said to not worry about it he had fun. But what do you think I should do now? Me being the girl I am I cant stop thinking about him and the great connection we had and I just hope i didn't ruin my chance with him..what do you all think? Does he think im crazy?

Had first date, now what?
no he just knows that you just got a little drunk its ok, u didnt ruin anything
Reply:This happens to the best of us! I'm sure he will overlook this as a freak incident and not worry. If he doesn't call you for another date, consider him too judgmental! Be careful on your next date so you don't get intoxicated. A little buzz isn't the end of the world, but if you do something like throw up in his car, then he'd probably never want to see you again!
Reply:Sounds like a really nice guy, dont worry about it you did nothing wrong.
Reply:Just chill a couple days to give him time to decide if he wants to get together again. If he liked you, he liked you.
Reply:nah, its not like your a alcoholic so dont sweat it, it probably helped lighten up the mood, just think of it this way, do you think ou would of been talking so much if you werent buzzed, think of the awkward silences
Reply:Dont stress about it too much and try to keep your mind occupied!
Reply:No i think youll be fine. You should get together with him again, and maybe explain what happened that night when you were wasted. He will probly understand, and you guys can move onto your relationship
Reply:I don't think he thinks you're crazy..lol..although, I would think the same thing. You probably drank a bit thinking it would relax you before your date with him. I'm sure he had a good time and is anticipating the next date with you as you sit there and wonder tonight....give it some time, he'll call!


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