Should I date girls I don't like?

Okay I know this is a doosey of a question. My roommate and I have lots of mutual girlfriends (in the sense that they are girls and our friends). The other day he was saying he has a problem because he likes so many of them and can't choose which to date. I told him I have the opposite problem- that I don't really like any of them that way, and can't really imagine liking them.


He informed me that I am not currently dating, that dating isn't such a big deal anyway, and since there's really no one I like at the moment, I should just start dating some of these girls anyway because a relationship *could* evolve.





Do you agree with this, or what other advice would you advize?

Should I date girls I don't like?
What is the point o dating someone you do not like in that way. If you like them as a friend only then keep it as friends. Prior to marriage I had male friends that we would grab a bite to eat or catch a movie. We split the bill as I was not looking to date them or have them feel I was taking advantage. We talked about guys I liked or a date I went on and they also talked about a girl they went on a date with or liked. Being honest is a better way to go. If you are not interested in dating either girl then why loose the friendship?





Your friend is into head games and his way of thinking is what makes him a jerk. No one likes there feelings played with, there time wasted, or being used.
Reply:my advice is : get to know them better as friends. If by then you start liking some of them, then ask them out. If not, it is silly to put yourself in a weird situations "just because you should start dating". Dating who - girls you dont like? Then where is all the fun of actually going on a date if you are going to go with a girl you cant even imagine kissing or holding hands?


Trust me, kissing a frog with the hope she´ll turn into a princess works only in Disney movies!


Hang out with them more, if nothing changes on that neutral ground, nothing is going to change on a date either.
Reply:If you don't LIKE them...don't date them; it's a big cheat for them and you! WHO do you like? Ask her or him! What your friend has to say has NOTHING to do with you! If you like women in general... look at who looks GOOD to you! Is she looking back? If not...move ON! Keep an eye out for the reciprocal EYE... appearance doesn't matter... look for the one who thinks you're the best! You will be amazed! Women LIKE men and there are LOTS of us out here! Have FUN! Happy Holidays! Hugs, Gina C.
Reply:No mostly, because if you are going to be dating a girl because you bored then what is she spose to think. It hurts girls alot if they find out that you are dating them but you don't like them. They can sometimes feel used because you are getting sex and nothing else. If you just want sex I would say find a f@#k buddy instead it makes the commitment less for both of you.
Reply:don't just date someone to date someone - if you liked one of them i would say go for it but since you don't it would just make things awkward eventually you will find someone you will want to date
Reply:no
Reply:You should date for the social value.
Reply:No, don't do that if you don't like them. You are giving those girls the idea that you like them. You will lose them as your friends if things go bad with the dating. Go find a girl you are attracted to.
Reply:How do you know you don't like them? You're not dating anyone by your own words, so beggars can't be choosers. Go out with one of these girls you don't really know but don't like. Maybe once you get to see them as people there might be something there you like.
Reply:NO omg that is so wrong