Ladies: weird vibe on a date. Does she not like me or is she shy?

So I met a girl from a dating site. On her profile she did mention that she can be shy/quiet/serious at first.





Well on our date she seemed very quiet. She didn't ask me many questions on the date, the whole date basically consisted of me attempting to drive the conversation. When I did get her talking, she did seem engaged, but if we weren't talking she would just stare at the table. She seemed somewhat tired on the date, and i asked her and she said that she was after a long work week.





After we finished our food I asked her if she wanted to go get a cup of coffee down the street. She politely delined and said she's going to go home. So while we walked to the bus stop I asked her if she wanted to go out again and she responded with "yes, definitely." I thought this was weird since i felt she didn't like me 100%. I was honest with her and said that I was surprised and I felt she didn't like me based on the date. She said "oh that's just me"

Ladies: weird vibe on a date. Does she not like me or is she shy?
well if she said "yes definitely" that means she really wants to, and maybe you can have a date on a saturday.....see if she woudl have said "sure that'd be nice" that would probably have been a "eh...why not?" be glad she didtn' say that lol....well i'm pretty much like that, when i'm around my friends i am very confident and outspoken but once you've singled me out i tend to be a bit shy and idk...less prone to talk....on my first date w/ my bf i litterally stood next to a bush and started ripping off the leaves because i was really nervous and he noticed....lol he told me "why are u all the way over there" and i just said.."idk..." lol that was funny but yeah first dates can be like that sometimes....
Reply:I would give her one more try. If you still get the same vibes that she's not interested, then bag it.
Reply:in that case she prolly just shy iknow that's how i am but then once you get to know her sh'e'll probably open up a lot
Reply:no... shes fyne but hey girls get tired too.... try just asking her to coffee next time...coffee makes you energized and then u will c the real her..... if she keeps acting tired then just say "when do YOU think it is the best day to go out??" make eye contact and study her body language.... if she leans slightly toward you and her knees are pointed in your direction... shes interested..... try making her dinner at your place with champagne and lots of candels only kiss her if she wants to be and it feels right.... otherwise she will fell like shes getting raped.
Reply:Not sure im pretty shy too so I would say she might be interested but just cant show it. But I dont kno just try one more date like on saturday since she says she is tired on fridays, this way she wont have an excuse. If she still is not at least showing a little intereset in you then make that the last date.

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