Date him?or dump him?(girls help)?

ok i started to date this guy an it has been a month and i realy love him,and he loves me ,we can't even go a day without talking to him,and i asked him wht he wants to do after collage and he said to be in a band and travel around the world like his dad(which is not famous),and i don't know if i should keep dating him because i'm 17 now and his 19 and if we ever get married i don't want him to have a job like that and be away from his family all the time he doesn't have a good future at all e's just living this dream and as not waken yet grrrr,he also drinks every night and i don't drink at all,and he won't quit because he already quit drugs, so i dunno wht to do,girls u know wht i'm talking about when u start dating a guy u think about the future with him and this one is not a good clear one


so should i break up with him before i get too attached or wht should i do?

Date him?or dump him?(girls help)?
For now dont think about the future yknw the future will come when its ready for now just go with the flow, date him and if you feel its not going anywhere somewhere down the track then break it off with him. B\c yknw guys change like the weather one minute they wanna be a rock star the next they wanna be a bus driver lol just go with the flow and if you two end up together in the near future then thats the way its suppose to be... I can understand where your coming from but there are loads of fish in the sea dont limit yourself.


So keep dating him and like I said if you feel its not going anywhere down the track then just kindly break it off with him.


I mean you cant become a rock star str8 away so enjoy your time with him.


When you start noticing changes in him like he becomes abusive then definitely leave him


Otherwise I wish you all the best.
Reply:dump. ay wayz..how can u love a person afer a MONTH?! take it slow or things will end fast
Reply:now why would u do that?? u break up when theres a problem.
Reply:you are way too young to be thinking about settling down.





in my experience, guys who want to be in a band and travel around are broke losers.
Reply:you're an idiot. he drinks every night and he won't stop? wow. it's you're future, not mine. so figure it out.
Reply:First of all keep in mind you can't change him nor should you try....





If your already thinking this, this will be a problem for the furture. Think about how he is, who he is and want you want for the furture. If things are unclear with him, ex, dont know if he wants to ge tmarried? ask him. Talk to him and get to know what you need to know to make your descion. Remember, theres are a butt load of other guys out there.....but is he the one?
Reply:Well if you have feelings and you like him then there is no problem but it comes down to your choice!