Should I date him??

I split up with my husband over 3 months ago, and our divorce is almost final. I'm excited to start dating again, and I found this really cool guy (who is also just getting out of a relationship). I really like him, but I'm not sure he's the type of guy I could see myself staying with for a long time. I know its a little shallow, but I'm in a professional position at work and he's more of a blue-collar worker and I don't want that for myself long-term. I think if we do start dating, it's going to end up really serious and I'm not sure either of us are ready for that. He's such a sweet guy and I don't want to start dating him and for him to end up getting hurt because I know I cant stay with him forever. Also, on the side, I work as the receptionist at the tattoo shop that he works at. Should I try to date him? I don't want either of us getting hurt or for things to be weird at work...

Should I date him??
You know your own limits. You know where you stand. Search your heart and be honest with yourself. If you dont think your ready to start dating him, then dont. And i mean for ANY reason. Give yourself more time, there is no limit or rush. Take more time for yourself. Be a little selfish. If he really digs on you, he'll wait a little while, but you have to be sure your sure. Or else both of you will just end up with head and heart aches.
Reply:yeah you shouoldnt date people you work with . If you dont plan on having it be long term why bother ? I mean unlesss you tell him , you arent looking for anythign long term %26amp; when you 2 break up you can handle him being with someone else .
Reply:It's just a date and tell him it is fun with no deep commitments
Reply:let me say this, you should not be looking at long term right now, you are out of a marriage and all stats say 2 years before seriously looking at someone else, or you wind up with someone that is the same as your ex, regardless,





you should date him and have fun, and dont even think about living together or marriage
Reply:In my personal advice I think you should bag it. In case you don't know what bag it means, it means cancel it, leave well enough alone, or, my personal favorite, leave and don't let the door hit you on the way out. If you don't see anything but darkness and negativity in yours and this guy's future, then don't attempt a relationship. Trying to date someone you know is just going to get hurt as well as hurt you is like knowing that the a jump off of the Empire state building will kill you and doing it anyway. You can be friends, no harm, no foul. But don't get into anything you can't get out of.
Reply:Things WILL get wierd at work. Don't try it. If your relationship ends, someone will have to look for a new job. It's not worth it.
Reply:see if you two can become good friends. if that does occur see if dating might enhance the friendly relationship. you never know his "Blue Collar" job may stop and he may get a better job. stay friends (my opinion) and see what grows from there. if you think you two might make it then go for it.





don't judge the guy off his job, if he's as nice as you say he is you should be happy with him. you've been married before.. would you rather have the money or a guy who will treat you right?

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