Should i date this boy?

I've been talking with him for about a week or so but known him for almost a year. He likes me alot, and i'm starting to think i like him too. He had been trying to get me to go on a date with him for months and i finally said yes the other night and we had a great time....problem is...his reputation...he's known for dating TONS of girls and being jerk =/ but whenever we're together, he seems greatttt. idk so many people have been telling me not to date him but idk. The only time i've seen him act jerkish was the other day when he was with his friend and me =[ i dont know what to do, he's such a gentleman when its just us but so different when theres other people. i dont want to regret it or have people think differently of me if i date him....cause as of now...i have a great reputation and am known as a "good girl". please helppp!!!!! i need opinions!!!!!

Should i date this boy?
You need to drop him like a hot potato! You are the next one in line on his conquest list. Sure, he will be nice to you because he wants something from you. You are his next challenge. And if you play along with it, you will be like the other girls who's hearts and reputations were scarred. He will tell you all the things you want to here to make you feel special when you are around him. But eventually he will grow tired of you and the jerkyness of his personality will come out. Don't be there to find out! Take it from all the other girls who said he turned out to be a jerk. I guarantee, that all of them were told the same things as you are being told at this time.. The evidence is right and front of you, so heed the warning and move on to greener pastures. He is a classic example of a "Player".There is a better and sweeter guy out there for you, you just have to pick the one for you.. Good luck!





... Billy Ray
Reply:hmmm...maybe u should...


he probably sees something special in u, thus his eccentric behaviour. its how he acts towards u thats most important, not saying that his other actions arent important tho...
Reply:Sometimes people, especially young people act out for all kinds of reasons. Most of the time when a person is known as the kind of person who dates a lot - they are hurting. I think you should get to know this guy for yourself and forget about what other people say. You judge him based on the person he shows you to be on the inside. Sometimes it takes one person to make a significant change in another's life. Maybe you are that person for him. Give him a chance. But the first sign you see of him not being respectful or flirting with other girls, give him the boot.
Reply:Every girl wants to be the girl that made the bad boy act right... but if he is a jerk to everyone else in the world he will be one to you eventually. It's unavoidable - it's his personality. You can't change that.





Chances are that he is being nicer to you than anyone else right now because he feels a lot of lust/other emotions... but don't let that fool you; once he feel more comfortable around you the inner jerk will come out and he will treat you as bad as anyone else.





If you are a good girl then you could get a better guy, you just need to have patience and find someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.





Someone who is nicer probably likes you anyway, you just need to find them!
Reply:Let him know what you've heard and that you want to give him a chance, but if he does something you really don't like, then count it as a strike. After the third strike, he's out. Anything illegal (rape, theft, etc.), then count it as an automatic out (and call the police!)