Thursday, August 19, 2010

Should I date him or not?

Ok there is this guy that I like but only in friendly base...


He is a very good and funny guy but he isn't good looking.


It's not that I want to date only good looking guys it is just that I want someone that I found attractive even if everyone else doesn't...


Also we don't have anything in common... different taste at music, he can't stay at home and I like to spend most of my time in and several other things that we just don't have in common...


The thing is that all the guys that I dated and had relationships with were good guys, not very good-looking and the only reason that I dated them it was because they were good guys...but all my relationships failed because they didn't attract me...


Am I shallow that I don't want to date him because he doesn't attract me....???





I just want some fireworks....don't I deserve it??/

Should I date him or not?
Omg girly don't date him if u don't feel like he attracts you. You shouldn't date this guy just to prove to yourself you are not shallow. Keep him as a good mate and start looking elsewhere. You don't have to find attractive every guy you know!!!!!
Reply:yeah course you do, those people who say looks dont matetr are the ones that werent blessed with good looks. whats the point in going out with a lad that you dont have anything in common with and dont fancy it wont work. Now i know looks fade as we get older but you should have the full firework package and you can dont settle for second best. go out and get a man that rocks your boat.
Reply:I wouldn't do it. I don't find you shallow for factoring "looks" into the equation. Some people consider that a bigger factor than others. I would do what you think is best for you. However, since he is a friend, In most cases, once you cross the line of friendship, there is no going back. So keep that in mind, and have fun :-)
Reply:You deserve to have some fireworks and you will. Don't settle.
Reply:Yes, but, looks arn't everything.


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