Date help!!?

I haven't had a real date yet and im 11.most boys my age only like skinny girls... im not that skinny..the only date i went on was a pity date...i went out with this guy bc he has no friends and bc im so nice i gave him a chance..but it diodn't turn out well...so im a little overweight...why do guys care?? i asked like 2 ppl out this summer and they both said "i want a skinnier girl" i don't want to lose weight... but i can't find a guy that likes me for me and not what i look like! i mean im not a nerd and im not ugly but im not popular or really prettty!

Date help!!?
If they tell you that they want a skinner girl, then blow them off. You don't want to be around guys like that anyways. Souround your self with people like you. Some girls maybe skinny as sticks, but that's not attarctive either. And if you're only 11, then you have a couple years to deal with this. You're to yound to even being thinking about that kind of stuff. Guys come around after a while. You don't hev to be popularr to get guys. I'm not popular and I've had the same boyfriend for almost two years. Don't worry about it right now. Who knows, those could be regreating what they said to you this summer. When you get to high school you could be a complete knock out. And if you can't fine a guy who likes you for you, then you're looking in all the wrong places.
Reply:OK honey u are 11. You don't need a bf trust me. One day you will find a guy and he will like you just the way you are. Just be patient he will come one day.
Reply:11 well sorry but i think u should have fun with the girls and relax guys like to feel in control they like the joy of the pursuit....which means stop thinking about dating its not as black and white as u think.......u r not ready u all that sweetheart........it will happen and when u look back too soon than u needed it to.
Reply:You're only 11 wait till 16 and by then you can drop the weight.
Reply:well u got along way to go
Reply:I think you're a little too young to think about these things.
Reply:i think a guy should like u for who are. im 15 and i havent been on a real date. im not the skinnest person and i get self-conscious when i see some of my friends who are 0 and 1s im not to far behind them. u should wait til you are a little older, just look for some guy freinds because in the long wrong he may end liking you. just be 11. just be more confident and dont any guy say to you i want a skinner girl, tell him that he just lost a great girl.
Reply:WOW your 11!!! You need to worry more about growing up and having fun before dating. I didn't go on a real date until I was 17!! So go play with your toys and make friends don't date yet you'll regret it!!! PLEASE WE DON"T WANT ANYMORE TEEN MOTHERS THEN WE ALREADY HAVE---just think about it
Reply:ok well 1st maybe u should ask a guy out thats ur size? that way u guys wont be embarressed if u start talking bout weight. or find a guy thats doesn't care and u really like.just wait till a guy comes along that either asks u out or u really really like and hes ur type. and u dont have to be in a hurry bout going on a date, i'm 12 and haven't gone on a date, unless u count when i invited my bffs and bf and we went skating together. u'll find the right guy and he'll ask u on a date at some point in life dont worry!
Reply:Think about all the guys your age and think who do u think is the nicest guy u know and than ask him out very politely!!